What if he doesn\u2019t even like me anymore because this is not the first time I\u2019m waiting for him to move his ass and send me some proof of his existence?<\/i><\/p>\n
\u201cWhat if\u201d \u2013 two words with such a large amount of uncertainty and expectation, that it can kill even the toughest ones.<\/p>\n
My family and friends didn\u2019t even recognize me anymore. From a mujer feliz y fuerte<\/a>...me convert\u00ed en una criatura frustrada y miserable.<\/p>\n Empec\u00e9 a odiarme a\u00fan m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n Exijo a Dios que me env\u00ede respuestas a estas famosas preguntas: \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 yo? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 siempre tengo que ser yo la que acaba siendo desgraciada con el tipo equivocado?<\/i><\/p>\n Y entonces experiment\u00e9 un momento de verdadera epifan\u00eda. Me di cuenta de que todo este tiempo estaba acabando desesperada porque persegu\u00eda a los tipos equivocados.<\/p>\n I was CHASING them, even though I knew they didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n Persegu\u00eda ciegamente que me hicieran da\u00f1o y me dieran por sentado porque me preocupaba m\u00e1s su bienestar y felicidad que los m\u00edos propios.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve neglected myself because all this time, I was busy chasing something that would never be mine.<\/p>\n Alguien que nunca me har\u00eda feliz.<\/p>\n Mientras estaba ocupado haciendo todo esto, ignoraba la \u00fanica verdad que deber\u00eda estar escrita en las paredes de todos los rincones del mundo:<\/p>\n Cuando deja de perseguir a los tipos equivocados<\/a>...\u00a1el adecuado te encontrar\u00e1! <\/b>S\u00ed.<\/p>\n Cuando deja de perder el tiempo esperando a que empiecen a tratarte como te mereces<\/a>, you will open the doors to the right one to whom you\u2019ll be number one priority.<\/p>\n Esta es la \u00fanica verdad hermosa que deber\u00eda guardarse siempre en un compartimento especial de nuestro cerebro.<\/p>\n Chasing someone who doesn\u2019t give a damn about you will only result in you getting more and more hurt.<\/p>\n It\u2019s the only logical conclusion of which I\u2019ve been ignorant for years.<\/p>\n Why in the world would we ever think that if stay determined in chasing someone, that they\u2019d somehow suddenly change their mind and finally notice us, our efforts, our tears?<\/p>\n \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 elegir\u00edamos vivir en esta ilusi\u00f3n cuando en el fondo de nuestra alma sabemos que nada cambiar\u00e1 jam\u00e1s?<\/b><\/p>\n Because of fear. We fear that we\u2019ll never find someone better and we think that this is how things are supposed to be.<\/p>\n We think that we deserve to be treated poorly because no one has convinced us to believe otherwise. We believe that we\u2019re not digno de amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n We blindly chase those who are wrong for us because we\u2019re convinced that we\u2019ll never find someone who will treat us the way we deserve.<\/p>\n Pero, la verdad es que, cuando dejemos de hacerlo, \u00a1nos encontrar\u00e1 el adecuado!<\/p>\n Cuando dejes de perder el tiempo esperando a que te llamen, la persona adecuada llamar\u00e1 a tu puerta.<\/b><\/p>\n When we\u2019re only focused on chasing things that are bad for us, we\u2019re multiplying our chances to receive more shit in our lives.<\/p>\n Every time we wait for their call, we\u2019re deliberately hurting ourselves by wasting our time on someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate ours.<\/p>\n Pero, cuando finalmente dejamos de hacerlo, nos liberamos de toda toxicidad y energ\u00eda negativa.<\/p>\n We start seeing things differently. We start noticing those who were in the shadows the entire time \u2013 the right ones.<\/p>\n Y lo \u00fanico que tienes que hacer para darles la bienvenida a tu vida es dejar de perseguir a los equivocados.<\/p>\n The only thing you need to do is to stop paying attention to those who wrong you, stop anticipating their calls, stop waiting for them to notice you, stop hanging on in the hopes that they\u2019ll change!<\/p>\n Because the more you chase them, the more you\u2019re going to hurt yourself! The more you chase them, the longer you\u2019ll stay away from true happiness!<\/b><\/p>\n The more you chase the wrong ones, the more power you\u2019re giving them.<\/p>\n Cuanto m\u00e1s los persigas, m\u00e1s se darte por sentado<\/a>. \u00bfY por qu\u00e9 lo aguantar\u00edas?<\/p>\n \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 dejas que alguien interfiera en tu felicidad y te ponga en rid\u00edculo?<\/p>\n Why would you let someone keep you living in fear and the hope that they\u2019ll eventually change?<\/p>\n \u00a1Te mereces que te traten como a una dama!<\/i><\/p>\n Te mereces sonre\u00edr hasta que te duela la cara en lugar de estar constantemente sec\u00e1ndote las l\u00e1grimas.<\/i><\/p>\n Te mereces que te cuiden, no sentirte desatendida.<\/i><\/p>\n You deserve to be someone\u2019s dream instead of just an option! <\/i>Te mereces experimentar la verdadera felicidad.<\/i><\/p>\n As\u00ed que deja de perder el tiempo persiguiendo a los tipos equivocados, para que el correcto<\/a> \u00a1puede encontrarte!<\/b><\/p>\n Cuando decidas ser el due\u00f1o de tu propia felicidad, dar\u00e1s la bienvenida a muchas posibilidades en tu vida.<\/p>\n When you decide to stop chasing those who do you wrong, you\u2019ll make space for the right ones to find you.<\/p>\n When you stop accepting bad things, you\u2019ll start receiving the great ones. 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