{"id":43552,"date":"2019-09-26T18:29:20","date_gmt":"2019-09-26T18:29:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43552"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:12:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:12:18","slug":"6-cosas-que-debes-tener-en-cuenta-cuando-esperes-su-respuesta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-que-debes-tener-en-cuenta-cuando-esperes-su-respuesta\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cosas que debes tener en cuenta cuando esperes su respuesta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le has mandado un mensaje hace unas horas, unos d\u00edas (o quiz\u00e1 un mes) y todav\u00eda no te ha contestado.<\/p>\n

The longer you\u2019re waiting, the more anxious you\u2019re becoming, and you feel like there\u2019s nothing you can do about it but me siento frustrado y muy confuso<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Y probablemente no sea la primera vez que le ocurre.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re in a relationship, if he\u2019s your ex, if you\u2019ve just started dating or you haven\u2019t even met yet (in person), there will always come a moment when you will wait next to your cell phone waiting for his reply.<\/p>\n

There will always come a moment when you will think that you\u2019re not good enough or worthy enough of his time, and whenever you start feeling like this, please keep in mind the following 6 things that will help you go through the waiting phase!<\/p>\n

1. \u201cSoy digno<\/a>!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Every time you start feeling like you\u2019re asking for too much and that you\u2019re not worthy of being texted back, delete those thoughts immediately.<\/p>\n

Remember that you\u2019re a worthwhile human being and other people\u2019s actions don\u2019t define your worth.<\/p>\n

Que no te conteste no tiene nada que ver con tu verdadero valor.<\/p>\n

No te lo tomes como algo personal, porque hay muchas razones por las que no te ha contestado.<\/p>\n

Maybe he forgot, maybe he was stuck in a place where he didn\u2019t have a signal or maybe he\u2019s lost his phone.<\/p>\n

Or maybe he\u2019s a manipulative asshole only playing hard to get.<\/p>\n

Sea lo que sea, sigue sin tener nada que ver contigo.<\/p>\n

If he was prevented from texting you back, you will surely be notified about it in the future, and if he\u2019s an asshole, even better.<\/p>\n

No volver\u00e1s a saber de \u00e9l ni a verlo.<\/p>\n

2. \u201cInstead of waiting, I choose to live my life now.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really easy to lose yourself when it comes to esperando a que alguien te devuelva el mensaje.<\/a><\/p>\n

Pero, en lugar de esperar, \u00a1deber\u00edas elegir vivir tu vida ahora!<\/p>\n

Sal con tus amigos, t\u00f3mate tu(s) bebida(s) favorita(s), relee tu libro preferido, escucha m\u00fasica inspiradora, dibuja, baila o lo que m\u00e1s te apetezca.<\/p>\n

Lo peor que puedes hacer es esperar junto al m\u00f3vil, porque eso es una receta para perder la cabeza y pensar demasiado.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 malgastas tus valiosos segundos esperando a que te responda cuando puedes tener las dos cosas?<\/p>\n

You can have the time of your life while \u201cimaginarily\u201d waiting for him to text you back. (And you will certainly not miss anything.)<\/p>\n

3. \u201cIt\u2019s probably a stupid or simple reason, and I\u2019m overthinking it.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

If you think he\u2019s not texting you back because he no longer likes you, because he\u2019s thinking about breaking up with you or perhaps because he\u2019s cheating on you<\/a>pi\u00e9nsatelo otra vez.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1l es la probabilidad de que lo que crees que est\u00e1 ocurriendo sea realmente cierto?<\/p>\n

There are thousands of possible reasons, and most of the time it\u2019s a stupid or simple reason behind him not texting you back.<\/p>\n

Be aware of the fact that you\u2019re probably overthinking it, and there\u2019s no need to torture yourself because, in the end, everything will be alright, and you will probably laugh when you hear why he couldn\u2019t text you back!<\/p>\n

4. \u201cHe has his own life.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombres<\/p>\n

I understand that you\u2019ve probably said a lot of important things to him, and you\u2019re dying to see his reaction, but you need to understand that he has his own life, too (just like you).<\/p>\n

We often forget that the reason why they didn\u2019t text us back is because they have something important going on, that they\u2019re busy, and they simply didn\u2019t have time to deal with texting.<\/p>\n

5. \u201cIt\u2019s normal to need to wait for text messages sometimes.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"<\/p>\n

It\u2019s normal to need to wait for text messages sometimes (if it\u2019s a reasonable amount of waiting).<\/p>\n

When we impatiently wait for something to happen, seconds turns into hours, and that is why you probably have the feeling that it\u2019s taking him forever to reply.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to stay patient, and remind yourself that it\u2019s normal to wait for a text message sometimes.<\/p>\n

And if he never replies, then screw him! You\u2019re better off without him anyway.<\/p>\n

6. \u201cNo matter what happens \u2013 it\u2019s going to be OK!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"<\/p>\n

No matter what happens, if he eventually texts you back or not, it\u2019s going to be OK, and there\u2019s nothing to worry about.<\/p>\n

As already said, if he texts you back and apologizes for letting you wait too long for his reply \u2013 perfect.<\/p>\n

If he still hasn\u2019t texted you back and you\u2019re convinced that he won\u2019t, it\u2019s perfect again because you know that he\u2019s an asshole, and he definitely doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

Pase lo que pase, seguir\u00e1s siendo la misma mujer fuerte y guapa que eras, as\u00ed que respira hondo (deja de mirar el m\u00f3vil) y vive tu vida como una jefa.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 7 cosas que hacer cuando no te contesta<\/a><\/p>\n

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So, you texted him a few hours ago, a few days ago (or maybe a month), and he still hasn\u2019t texted you back. The longer you\u2019re waiting, the more anxious you\u2019re becoming, and you feel like there\u2019s nothing you can do about it but feel frustrated and confused as hell. And this is probably not…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":43553,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43552","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1196509285_800x.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43552","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43552"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43552\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43553"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43552"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43552"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43552"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}