{"id":43594,"date":"2019-09-26T20:32:35","date_gmt":"2019-09-26T20:32:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43594"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:10:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:10:11","slug":"lo-unico-bueno-que-hiciste-por-mi-fue-salir-de-mi-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lo-unico-bueno-que-hiciste-por-mi-fue-salir-de-mi-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"Lo \u00danico Bueno Que Hiciste Por M\u00ed Fue Salir De Mi Vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

A\u00fan recuerdo ese sentimiento de completa desesperaci\u00f3n cuando te marchaste. <\/span><\/p>\n

I thought I was going to die from crying on that first night. I was sobbing, and I couldn\u2019t catch my breath. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hiciste algo m\u00e1s que romperme el coraz\u00f3n. <\/span>me rompi\u00f3 el alma<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

You turned your back on everything that we had built. You gave up on us, and I couldn\u2019t make my peace with that. <\/span><\/p>\n

En aquel momento, pens\u00e9 que hab\u00eda perdido al amor de mi vida, al \u00fanico, y que pasar\u00eda el resto de mis d\u00edas privada del amor verdadero. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was wrong, of course, but I couldn\u2019t grasp that at the time. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

Losing you made me physically ill. I couldn\u2019t eat. I couldn\u2019t sleep. I couldn\u2019t breathe properly. I felt like I was slowly sinking into depression. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was living my life in slow motion, and I thought it would go on forever. I couldn\u2019t believe what had happened. <\/span><\/p>\n

No ten\u00eda sentido para m\u00ed. Me qued\u00e9 atrapada reviviendo aquel momento y todos aquellos recuerdos que compartimos d\u00eda tras d\u00eda. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo te quer\u00eda cerca. Quer\u00eda que me abrazaras, me besaras y me dijeras que todo ir\u00eda bien. <\/b><\/p>\n

Pero nunca fuiste ese tipo, \u00bfverdad?  <\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca supiste c\u00f3mo consolarme y hacerme sentir tranquilo. <\/span><\/p>\n

You never knew how to do that or you never wanted to do that\u2014I don\u2019t know anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

Creo que tard\u00e9 m\u00e1s de un a\u00f1o en empezar a salir del profundo dolor en el que hab\u00eda ca\u00eddo.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Primer<\/p>\n

Por fin me estaba curando. Por fin me quit\u00e9 la venda que hab\u00eda tenido puesta durante toda nuestra relaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

I used to look at you with my eyes full of love. That\u2019s why I never saw you clearly. I never saw the real you. <\/b><\/p>\n

You weren’t as perfect as I made you out to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were so wrong for me, but I couldn\u2019t admit it to myself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eras <\/span>nunca mi persona para siempre<\/span><\/a>nunca fuiste la elegida. Ahora lo s\u00e9. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que el que me abandonaras fue lo mejor que me pudo haber pasado. <\/span><\/p>\n

You covered all the bad things you\u2019d done with beautiful ones, so I would forgive quickly and forget even quicker. <\/b><\/p>\n

Dejaste de esforzarte en cuanto te diste cuenta de que estaba loca por ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todo era m\u00e1s importante que yo, y yo siempre era el \u00faltimo. Nunca fui tu n\u00famero uno. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cancelar nuestros planes en el \u00faltimo minuto, olvidarte de enviar mensajes de texto, olvidarte de llamar, olvidarte por completo de m\u00ed formaban parte de tu rutina habitual. <\/span><\/p>\n

Claro que hab\u00eda d\u00edas en los que me colmabas de amor, afecto y atenci\u00f3n, pero esos d\u00edas eran raros. <\/span><\/p>\n

Me persegu\u00edas cuando sent\u00edas que estaba a punto de rendirme. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Te metiste con mi mente y mis sentimientos todo el tiempo, y yo era tan despistada. <\/b><\/p>\n

I still can\u2019t believe how clueless I was. I basically allowed you to get away with treating me badly. <\/span><\/p>\n

Do you remember all the patronizing stories of how you knew what\u2019s best for me and all those times you made me feel small and insignificant? <\/span><\/p>\n

Sab\u00edas c\u00f3mo sacarme de quicio, y siempre sacabas a relucir las cosas que me molestaban o me hac\u00edan sentir cohibida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever I confronted you, you would turn the tables on me, and I would end up apologizing for the things I hadn\u2019t done. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cada vez que dec\u00eda que esperaba ciertas cosas de ti o te ped\u00eda que me dieras tu apoyo, dec\u00edas que estaba necesitada. <\/span><\/p>\n

Entonces te disculpabas, besabas las heridas que t\u00fa mismo inflig\u00edas en mi coraz\u00f3n, hac\u00edas todo lo posible por demostrarme que te importaba y, antes de que pudiera disfrutar plenamente de la repentina dicha, volv\u00edamos a desmoronarnos. <\/b><\/p>\n

Dicho todo esto, con la imagen clara de ti y de tu comportamiento ante mis ojos, puedo decir sinceramente que el que te fueras de mi vida fue lo mejor que podr\u00edas haber hecho por m\u00ed. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t, I would still be stuck in that vicious circle of emotional abuse I was not even aware of. It took my completely falling apart to build myself up again. <\/span><\/p>\n

I am happy now. Happier than I\u2019ve ever been. Thank you for that. <\/span><\/p>\n

In the end, all I can say is our story wasn\u2019t all in vain. It served its purpose, and now all that\u2019s left to say about you and what we once had is: <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9rase una vez, pens\u00e9 que eras el amor de mi vida. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Ahora s\u00f3lo eres un extra\u00f1o, un recuerdo lejano, una valiosa lecci\u00f3n que s\u00f3lo sirve para recordarme que no vuelva a repetir el mismo error.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\"Lo<\/p>\n

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I still remember that feeling of complete despair when you walked away. I thought I was going to die from crying on that first night. I was sobbing, and I couldn\u2019t catch my breath.  You did more than just break my heart; you broke my soul. You turned your back on everything that we had…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":43599,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43594","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_285613940.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43594","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43594"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43594\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43599"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43594"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43594"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43594"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}