{"id":43632,"date":"2019-09-27T12:26:12","date_gmt":"2019-09-27T12:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43632"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:08:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:08:38","slug":"nunca-envies-mensajes-de-texto-a-tu-ex-de-mierda-pero-si-lo-haces-enviale-uno-de-estos-5-textos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-envies-mensajes-de-texto-a-tu-ex-de-mierda-pero-si-lo-haces-enviale-uno-de-estos-5-textos\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca env\u00edes mensajes de texto a tu ex de mierda, pero si lo haces, env\u00edale uno de estos 5 mensajes de texto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Now, let\u2019s be honest. How many times have you thought of texting your (shitty) ex to tell him everything that\u2019s on your mind and make him feel sorry for not treating you right?<\/p>\n

Demasiadas veces, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

But at the last second, you decided not to do so because you didn\u2019t have any idea of what to specifically text him because all the words in your head were screaming and you couldn\u2019t pick out the right ones.<\/p>\n

Al d\u00eda siguiente, el impulso de enviarle un mensaje de texto apareci\u00f3 de nuevo y se hizo a\u00fan m\u00e1s fuerte que antes y aunque ya le\u00edste toneladas de art\u00edculos que enfatizan the importance of the \u2018no contact\u2019 rule<\/a>, you still can\u2019t help but imagine what a relief it would be to make him feel at least a bit of pain that he caused you.<\/p>\n

Te entiendo perfectamente porque una vez fui t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Estaba sentada junto a mi m\u00f3vil, escribiendo y borrando mensajes de texto repetidamente.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t decide which one to send or whether should I send one at all.<\/p>\n

Y entonces, me arm\u00e9 de valor y escrib\u00ed un mensaje perfectamente razonable que le hizo sentirse como una mierda y le hizo darse cuenta de lo gilipollas que era conmigo.<\/p>\n

En ese momento, sent\u00ed que por fin hab\u00eda cerrado el caso y pod\u00eda seguir viviendo mi vida tranquilamente.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, si quieres hacer sentir lo mismo a tu ex de mierda y encontrar tu paz interior, considera enviarle uno de estos 5 textos:<\/p>\n

1. En haz que se arrepienta de haberte dado por sentada<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Querida ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda que supieras que era consciente de todas las mierdas que me hiciste, pero aun as\u00ed me qued\u00e9. <\/i><\/p>\n

I stayed because I\u2019m not a coward who gives up at the first obstacle.<\/i><\/p>\n

I believe that there is good in all of us and I wanted to believe that you\u2019d change. But you never did.<\/i><\/p>\n

And even though you replaced my smile with tears, you left me waiting for hours and you broke my heart, I\u2019m still happy with myself that I stayed.<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m happy that I still see good in others and at the same time, I\u2019m sad for you because you\u2019ll never be able to do the same.<\/i><\/p>\n

2. To show him that you\u2019ve never been happier (without him)<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Querida ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

Mientras caminaba por la calle, me fij\u00e9 en tu restaurante favorito y decid\u00ed pedir algo como en nuestros viejos tiempos, pero esta vez solo.<\/i><\/p>\n

Antes, nunca me habr\u00eda atrevido a hacer algo as\u00ed porque siempre ten\u00eda miedo de sentirme sola y de que todo me recordara a nosotros.<\/i><\/p>\n

I was surprised that this didn\u2019t happen! I\u2019ve realized that <\/i>I\u2019ve actually never been happier<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie, the first few days I felt horrible but today I can say for sure that this was the best decision of my life and I\u2019ve never felt calmer or more blissful in my life. <\/i><\/p>\n

Gracias.<\/i><\/p>\n

3. To remind him of all the shitty things he\u2019s said or done to you<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Querida ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

As I\u2019m writing this, you\u2019re probably devising a plan of how to destroy another innocent human being like you did to me.<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably devising the perfect plan of how to steal another human being\u2019s happiness and feed on their selfless love and innocence.<\/i><\/p>\n

I will not tell you not to do it because I know you\u2019d never listen to me but I want you to imagine how it feels to be broken inside, how it feels to be left on your own knowing that tears and sleepless nights are the only friends you have.<\/i><\/p>\n

Can you imagine how it feels to be convinced that you\u2019re <\/i>indigno de amor<\/i><\/a> and that you don\u2019t deserve better treatment than a toxic one?<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00bfSe imagina un coraz\u00f3n desgarr\u00e1ndose en miles de pedacitos que se dispersan por todas partes?<\/i><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what you did to me and that\u2019s what you\u2019ll probably to do someone else again. <\/i><\/p>\n

But before doing it, think about these words that might save another innocent human\u2019s life.<\/i><\/p>\n

4. Para hacerle saber que ahora otra persona te trata como te mereces<\/h2>\n

\"Caballero<\/p>\n

Querida ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

I have to admit to you that I was scared that I\u2019d never meet anyone else like you.<\/i><\/p>\n

Pensaba que eras lo mejor que me hab\u00eda pasado y que nadie podr\u00eda reemplazarte jam\u00e1s.<\/i><\/p>\n

Pens\u00e9 todo eso a pesar de que me trataste como un pedazo de mierda.<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve realized that I was blind and a fool to believe that I deserved the treatment you gave me. <\/i><\/p>\n

Vaya si me equivoqu\u00e9. \u00bfY sabes c\u00f3mo me di cuenta?<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve realized it because someone else is treating me the way I deserve.<\/i><\/p>\n

Someone else is showing me what real love really is and I have to admit that I\u2019ve never been happier in my life.<\/i><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, gracias por no tratarme bien porque por fin veo la diferencia entre un hombre que es digno de estar en mi vida y uno que no lo es.<\/i><\/p>\n

5. Para hacerle saber que fue s\u00f3lo un error<\/a> en forma de dolorosa lecci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

Querida ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

En el momento en que rompimos, pens\u00e9 que mi mundo se derrumbaba ante mis propios ojos.<\/i><\/p>\n

Supongo que necesitaba algo de tiempo para darme cuenta de que no eras m\u00e1s que un error y una dolorosa lecci\u00f3n que necesitaba aprender para abrir los ojos y darme cuenta de que todo ese tiempo, <\/i>I\u2019d been taking my own happiness for granted<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

No importa lo raro que suene, quiero darte las gracias por toda la mierda que me hiciste porque eso en realidad me hizo m\u00e1s fuerte y m\u00e1s valiente de lo que era antes. <\/i><\/p>\n

Gracias.<\/i><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Puedes perdonarle, pero no dejes que vuelva a tu vida<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Nunca<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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