{"id":43665,"date":"2020-06-27T13:22:15","date_gmt":"2020-06-27T13:22:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43665"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:44:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:44:57","slug":"la-verdad-sobre-la-chica-que-siempre-ama-mas-de-lo-que-es-correspondida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-verdad-sobre-la-chica-que-siempre-ama-mas-de-lo-que-es-correspondida\/","title":{"rendered":"La verdad sobre la chica que siempre ama m\u00e1s de lo que es correspondida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siempre he sido esa chica que daba el ciento diez por ciento a alguien que me daba menos del cien por cien. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve always been that girl who had to find a little extra love to compensate for the lack of affection I was given in return.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying I have never been loved, nor am I saying that I can\u2019t be loved.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

But what I\u2019ve come to realize recently is that I always have to be the one who gives more because otherwise I fear I would get <\/span>nada de nada.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

And this is a hard thing to say out loud, which I\u2019m sure anyone who has struggled with this dreadful feeling can understand. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

I would never say this to anyone face-to-face. I\u2019m too ashamed that I feel this way.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But it\u2019s my truth and I have to live with it.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know if there\u2019s something wrong with me that makes me difficult to love completely and irrevocably\u2026 but it sure as hell feels that way at times.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Incluso con mi \u00faltimo novio, me sent\u00ed exactamente as\u00ed. Sab\u00eda que le importaba hasta cierto punto. Sab\u00eda que sent\u00eda algo por m\u00ed. <\/span><\/p>\n

But I just wasn\u2019t enough. I wasn\u2019t <\/span>su prioridad<\/span><\/a>. I was never the one he\u2019d leave wherever he was in an instant and come to be by my side.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yo era m\u00e1s bien una opci\u00f3n decente, pero si hab\u00eda alguien por ah\u00ed que era m\u00e1s guapo y m\u00e1s supermodelo, yo estaba seguro en el segundo plano. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y doli\u00f3 mucho.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero mi problema era que nunca hablaba. <\/span>Nunca dije nada. <\/span><\/p>\n

Simplemente acept\u00e9 aquella situaci\u00f3n de mierda como lo que era porque pens\u00e9 que era mejor que te dieran amor a trozos que estar completamente sola.<\/span><\/p>\n

But the real truth about constantly being the girl who loves more than she is loved back is that she\u2019s <\/span>harto<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

She no longer accepts only half of the attention and half of anyone\u2019s love.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a1Lo quiere todo o nada! Porque, \u00bfadivina qu\u00e9? <\/span><\/p>\n

Esos idiotas que la consideran indigna de toda su atenci\u00f3n son los que tienen problemas.<\/span>\u2014<\/span>NO a ella.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those who treat the people they\u2019re supposed to cherish as an option are the ones who are eventually going to get stung.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s only a matter of time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Durante mucho tiempo he vivido con esa sensaci\u00f3n de picaz\u00f3n dentro de m\u00ed, como si tuviera alg\u00fan defecto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Durante mucho tiempo me sent\u00ed poco guapa, poco inteligente o poco interesante.<\/span><\/p>\n

For too long I accepted far less than I deserve and I know I\u2019m not alone in feeling this way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que hay tantas chicas ah\u00ed fuera que temen el rechazo hasta el punto de aceptar cualquier amor que se les ponga por delante.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

But the truth is that those who refuse to give you everything that you deserve and don\u2019t treat you with the utmost respect are nothing but assholes in disguise who are not worthy of a single tear of yours!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Son ellos los que deber\u00edan sentirse as\u00ed, NO t\u00fa. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Eres una mujer perfectamente buena, amable, inteligente y hermosa que encontrar\u00e1 su final feliz. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

And those jerks are going to end up alone because they can\u2019t give their whole heart to any one person.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

In a way, you should feel sorry for them. So what if that idiot couldn\u2019t give you all of his love?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfY qu\u00e9 si s\u00f3lo aparec\u00eda la mitad de las veces que lo necesitabas? <\/span><\/p>\n

That doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re at fault. It means he\u2019s a no-good type of idiot who couldn\u2019t see a good thing if it stared him right in the face!<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>So don\u2019t worry about him and all those like him.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Ellos son los que un d\u00eda acabar\u00e1n mendigando las migajas de tu amor. Te lo prometo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 no ma\u00f1ana y quiz\u00e1 no hasta dentro de unos a\u00f1os. <\/span><\/p>\n

But when enough time has passed and he is still living that superficial single life that got him nowhere, he\u2019ll come crawling back.<\/span><\/p>\n

But the only difference is that this time, you\u2019ll be the one turning your back on him. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be the one who decides that he isn\u2019t <\/span>suficientemente bueno<\/span><\/a> para TI.<\/span><\/p>\n

And that is going to be one of the most satisfying feelings you\u2019ve ever felt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Looking him straight in the eye with a short and sweet, \u2018\u2019Nope!\u2019\u2019 while showing him the door.<\/span><\/p>\n

And then, you never have to think about him again. Because he\u2019s too big of a wuss to face you ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

The truth is that being a girl who loves more isn\u2019t all that bad when you really think about it.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Porque te ense\u00f1a a tener paciencia y te muestra lo resistente que eres. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You learn to be the best and strongest version of yourself and isn\u2019t that something to be thankful for?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t gone through all that, you wouldn\u2019t be aware of what you\u2019re capable of enduring.<\/span><\/p>\n

If all those jerks hadn\u2019t been such assholes, you probably wouldn\u2019t be able to appreciate the good in your life the way you do now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y eso es lo que te hace mejor que ellos. <\/span><\/p>\n

You learn and grow from this. And them? They stay the same immature boys who can\u2019t appreciate a good woman if their lives depended on it.<\/span><\/p>\n

And ultimately, you\u2019re the only one who comes out of this a winner<\/span>\u2014<\/span>en todos los aspectos que realmente importan.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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