{"id":43674,"date":"2019-09-27T14:06:20","date_gmt":"2019-09-27T14:06:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43674"},"modified":"2022-02-11T04:15:05","modified_gmt":"2022-02-11T04:15:05","slug":"asi-es-como-un-narcisista-usa-la-proyeccion-para-llevarte-a-donde-el-quiere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-un-narcisista-usa-la-proyeccion-para-llevarte-a-donde-el-quiere\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como un narcisista utiliza la proyecci\u00f3n para llevarte a donde quiere"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>\u00bfQu\u00e9 es la proyecci\u00f3n?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2018\u2019In the field of psychology, projection \u2013 or psychological projection \u2013 is the denial of subconscious impulses by the human ego. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For instance, someone accusing their partner of cheating when they\u2019re actually the one engaging in the scandalous act is projecting. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A jealous co-worker who accuses everyone else in the office of being jealous is projecting; secretly, they\u2019re jealous of just about everyone with a modicum of success. And so on.\u2019\u2019 <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2013 Unknown<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now that we\u2019ve covered exactly what projection is, let\u2019s discuss how narcissists use this devious tactic to get <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/35-microtacticas-que-utilizan-los-narcisistas-para-controlar-a-sus-victimas\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sus v\u00edctimas<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> justo donde ellos quieren.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Firstly, it\u2019s important to note that narcissists aren\u2019t the only people in the world who use this tactic.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m sure you have engaged in this to some mild degree as well, just like I have and a bunch of other perfectly \u2018normal\u2019 people out there.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43677\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_287942738.jpg\" alt=\"Young Shirtless Handsome Muscular Man Admiring Self\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_287942738.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_287942738-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_287942738-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But the difference is this: You and I don\u2019t make a habit out of doing this and afterward we usually feel a sense of guilt about it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But a narcissist doesn\u2019t. A narcissist uses this on a regular basis and it\u2019s his weapon of choice, which he uses gladly and frequently.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un narcisista utiliza la proyecci\u00f3n para hacer que su v\u00edctima se sienta desvalorizada e inferior. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Es su t\u00e1ctica para dejarlos indefensos e impotentes y sacarles el m\u00e1ximo partido. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And while he\u2019s doing it, there is not an ounce of guilt about it. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00f3lo pura maldad y la satisfacci\u00f3n de verte retorcerte. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Su falta de empat\u00eda y su sentido de la grandiosidad le hacen sentirse superior a ti y su inflado sentido de s\u00ed mismo le hace sentir que tiene todo el derecho a impon\u00e9rtelo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43679\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_507900823.jpg\" alt=\"Joven pensativo con camisa a cuadros sentado y pensando al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_507900823.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_507900823-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_507900823-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Hay muchas razones por las que los narcisistas utilizan la proyecci\u00f3n sobre las personas. Algunas de ellas son las siguientes:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un sentimiento de superioridad.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sentirse con derecho y esperar ser tratado como un rey.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No ser capaz de simpatizar con la gente, por lo que proyecta sus inseguridades en los dem\u00e1s.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Celos hacia los que tienen lo que <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-mierdas-que-hacen-los-hombres-cuando-quieren-romper-contigo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">quieren<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Obsesionarse con las cosas materiales y necesitar tenerlas a toda costa.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La necesidad de ser admirado, temido y respetado.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un fuerte impulso de intimidar a quienes se atreven a desafiarles.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><i>Y aqu\u00ed est\u00e1n todas las formas en que un narcisista utilizar\u00e1 la proyecci\u00f3n para manipularte, llevarte a donde \u00e9l quiere y c\u00f3mo puedes ponerle fin.<\/i><\/p>\n<h2>1. Te llamar\u00e1 la atenci\u00f3n culpabiliz\u00e1ndote<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43680\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_313676516.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato en primer plano de un barbudo brutal\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_313676516.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_313676516-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_313676516-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un narcisista te llamar\u00e1 la atenci\u00f3n por varias razones. La primera raz\u00f3n puede ser el hecho de que \u00e9l quiere que hagas algo por \u00e9l. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En lugar de ped\u00edrtelo como una persona normal, va a utilizar la culpabilizaci\u00f3n para que lo hagas con seguridad.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La otra raz\u00f3n puede ser que quiere que te sientas atacada y esta es la mejor manera de conseguirlo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes they just feel like doing it out of boredom or pure malice and there\u2019s nothing you can do about it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you don\u2019t respond, he\u2019s going to get really frustrated and resort to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/si-el-hace-estas-8-cosas-hes-un-abusador-verbal-disfrazado-de-un-hombre-de-verdad\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">abuso verbal<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esto es lo que debe hacer<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: After a while, it\u2019s going to become easy to recognize the patterns and see his behavior for what it is<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un intento desesperado de degradarte para aumentar su ego. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you don\u2019t take the bait and instead resist the urge to respond, he\u2019s going to have nothing left to do but find other ways to feed his ego and leave you be.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Imitar\u00e1 tu comportamiento<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43681\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1038042187.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre atractivo en la calle con traje elegante brit\u00e1nico.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1038042187.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1038042187-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1038042187-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Since a narcissist feels zero empathy, all he can do is observe you and learn how to behave like you and trick you into thinking he\u2019s got emotions that aren\u2019t really there. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Es su forma de pasar desapercibido y fingir ser un tipo corriente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is all successful for a while, because he is an expert at mimicking other people\u2019s behavior and hiding behind a facade but after a while, he\u2019s going to need to take the mask off and show his true colors and that\u2019s when his whole ploy will start <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/leer-el-mundo-que-se-desmorona\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">desmoron\u00e1ndose<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esto es lo que debe hacer<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Mantente alerta. Mant\u00e9n los ojos bien abiertos y t\u00f3mate todo con humor. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sooner or later, everybody\u2019s true colors rise to the surface. And he is no exception. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One day, he\u2019ll get tired of pretending and you\u2019ll see exactly what he\u2019s doing.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. Te calumniar\u00e1<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43682\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_131365946.jpg\" alt=\"perfil de hombre guapo sobre fondo gris\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_131365946.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_131365946-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_131365946-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si un narcisista emplea esta t\u00e1ctica de proyecci\u00f3n, debe tener fuertes sentimientos de desprecio hacia ti, sin que t\u00fa tengas la culpa, por supuesto. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Assassinating one\u2019s character is a deeply personal matter that stems from feelings of powerful jealousy and hate.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He is either trying to get even with you for whatever reason he tells himself or he wants to gain people\u2019s sympathy through slandering you and showing you in a deeply negative light.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esto es lo que debe hacer<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Firstly, don\u2019t go into anxiety mode. He is clearly desperate if he\u2019s going after you this way. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Secondly, don\u2019t forget that those who know you won\u2019t doubt you for one second. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Y si esto ocurre en tu lugar de trabajo, habla inmediatamente con tu supervisor y pide que se tomen medidas.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jugar\u00e1 descaradamente la carta de la v\u00edctima<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43683\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1078277615.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre pensativo mirando por la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1078277615.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1078277615-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1078277615-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque disfruta utilizando esta carta para explotar a personas ingenuas y de buen coraz\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A un narcisista le encanta golpear donde m\u00e1s duele. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Y sabe que la gente siempre sentir\u00e1 l\u00e1stima por quienes parecen ser v\u00edctimas de cualquier tipo de injusticia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Y la otra raz\u00f3n es pintar una falsa imagen de ti como una figura malvada...<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">alguien que le ha hecho mal y a quien hay que castigar. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/disfrutan-los-narcisistas-besando\/\">Los narcisistas disfrutan<\/a> ridiculizar a la gente y conseguir que alguien le vea como una v\u00edctima es un verdadero ejemplo de ello.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esto es lo que debe hacer<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Don\u2019t worry about the opinions of unimportant people. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And don\u2019t offer your help to somebody you don\u2019t know unless they\u2019re clearly in grave need of it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Respond only to those you know well and avoid getting in a narcissist\u2019s web of lies and deceit.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-43685\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Birthday-Ideas-For-Husband_-25-Unique-Ways-To-Make-Him-Feel-Special-And-Loved-3-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"As\u00ed es como un narcisista utiliza la proyecci\u00f3n para llevarte a donde quiere\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Birthday-Ideas-For-Husband_-25-Unique-Ways-To-Make-Him-Feel-Special-And-Loved-3-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Birthday-Ideas-For-Husband_-25-Unique-Ways-To-Make-Him-Feel-Special-And-Loved-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Birthday-Ideas-For-Husband_-25-Unique-Ways-To-Make-Him-Feel-Special-And-Loved-3.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is projection? \u2018\u2019In the field of psychology, projection \u2013 or psychological projection \u2013 is the denial of subconscious impulses by the human ego. For instance, someone accusing their partner of cheating when they\u2019re actually the one engaging in the scandalous act is projecting. A jealous co-worker who accuses everyone else in the office of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":43684,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43674","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_191929109.jpg",800,602,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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