{"id":43759,"date":"2020-05-30T15:36:04","date_gmt":"2020-05-30T15:36:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43759"},"modified":"2022-01-24T14:37:04","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T14:37:04","slug":"nunca-vuelvas-a-mirar-a-tu-ex-alejate-y-dejale-ver-lo-que-perdio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-vuelvas-a-mirar-a-tu-ex-alejate-y-dejale-ver-lo-que-perdio\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca vuelvas a mirar a tu ex: al\u00e9jate y deja que vea lo que ha perdido"},"content":{"rendered":"

Si pudiera darte un consejo rom\u00e1ntico, te dir\u00eda que nunca mires hacia atr\u00e1s, hacia quienes no supieron apreciarte. <\/p>\n

Why? Because if they did, you wouldn\u2019t have to look back in the first place. They\u2019d still be by your side!<\/p>\n

If at this very moment, you\u2019re struggling, know that you\u2019re not alone. Know that I\u2019ve got you.<\/p>\n

I know exactly how shitty it feels suffering over an ex who wasn\u2019t worthy of a single one of your tears.<\/p>\n

This didn\u2019t stop me from crying a river every night I dreamed about his face, and every day I missed having his sense of humor around.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t make me weak, it makes me human.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Y en toda esa miseria, me di cuenta de algunas cosas.<\/i><\/p>\n

En primer lugar, se necesita lo m\u00e1s bajo de lo bajo para llegar a ese lugar saludable y revelador en el que de repente todo empieza a tener sentido<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Cada l\u00e1grima que lloraste, cada pelea que tuviste y cada momento de enfado que te hizo estallar.<\/p>\n

Cada oportunidad perdida de arreglar las cosas y cada trato silencioso que le diste o te dio. <\/p>\n

Con el tiempo, todas esas peque\u00f1as cosas empiezan a pintar el cuadro completo que, en \u00faltima instancia, te muestra que las cosas son exactamente como deber\u00edan ser.<\/p>\n

As hard as it may be to comprehend this now, I promise it\u2019s going to make so much sense in a few short weeks. <\/p>\n

Unfortunately, you need to go through all the stages of grief before getting to that good place \u2013 but it\u2019s going to happen.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m here to tell you is this. If deep down in your heart you KNOW that the breakup was the best decision for you, be proud of yourself and don\u2019t waver.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re a smart ass lady. <\/i><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You know that if the guy cared, he never would\u2019ve left you.<\/i><\/p>\n

If he was worried about how you were, he would\u2019ve called to ask!<\/i><\/p>\n

And if your feelings mattered to him, he would\u2019ve tried to fix it, not break it off!<\/i><\/p>\n

 <\/i><\/b>Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction of looking back. <\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing to see! Your past is there for good reason.<\/p>\n

He served you as a great lesson, and now you\u2019re ready to face your present and your future.<\/p>\n

Lo que s\u00ed puedes hacer es ense\u00f1arle lo que ha perdido.<\/p>\n

Haz que se arrepienta d\u00e1ndote por sentado<\/a> y perderte por ser la mujer segura, fuerte y positiva que eres.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to parade a new man around to show him that. <\/i><\/p>\n

Simplemente vive tu vida como siempre lo has hecho, y todo ello con una sonrisa de confianza en tu rostro.<\/i><\/p>\n

Show him your spirit isn\u2019t broken by remaining a good friend to your girls and dancing the night away, which will show him you are open to new beginnings.<\/i><\/p>\n

Revenge is for the weak. The only way he\u2019ll see what he lost is by you living your authentic life to the best of your ability.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t crush you. You haven\u2019t lost your zest for life.<\/p>\n

Ahora est\u00e1s m\u00e1s abierto que nunca a nuevas oportunidades. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

Because you\u2019ve been burned, and you\u2019re ready to let someone new in.<\/p>\n

Pero esta vez, alguien cuyo amor nunca te dejar\u00e1 herido.<\/p>\n

Nadie puede decir cu\u00e1ndo suceder\u00e1. Eso est\u00e1 en manos de Dios. <\/p>\n

But one thing I do know is that when you believe you deserve the best and never lose faith in yourself, that\u2019s when you\u2019ll do a 180 and start seeing what you never noticed before.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll finally see that you feel so much more liberated now than you ever did con tu ex<\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll finally see that his <\/i>amor t\u00f3xico<\/i><\/a> s\u00f3lo te dio un tercio de lo que mereces y te retuvo.<\/i><\/p>\n

Con \u00e9l, nunca te sentiste tan libre y esperanzada. <\/p>\n

Y ahora todo se siente como una oportunidad para una nueva y mejorada versi\u00f3n de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

And that \u2018 the beginning of your new life.<\/p>\n

A life in which you will never focus on what\u2019s lost, but solely on what\u2019s to come.<\/p>\n

A life in which you know you\u2019ll eventually get your happily-ever after because you freaking deserve it.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s so easy to give up on yourself and cry yourself to sleep every night. <\/p>\n

Pero una mujer fuerte<\/a> knows that being able to pick yourself up and put on a smile when all you want to do is weep is the bravest thing she\u2019s ever done.<\/p>\n

This is a woman who won\u2019t let a toxic ex bring her down.<\/p>\n

She will not shed a single tear for him because it\u2019d be a waste of time. <\/p>\n

And as tempted as she is to look back and wonder what he\u2019s up to, she won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Porque en el fondo sabe que cuanto antes empiece a mirar hacia delante, antes empezar\u00e1 a sanar su coraz\u00f3n y a olvidar su mente.<\/p>\n

And one day, she is simply going to stop caring about where he is and what he\u2019s doing.<\/p>\n

Because her life is going to be so fulfilled and happy \u2013 that nothing toxic will come to her mind!<\/p>\n

Y eso va a ser una victoria personal aparentemente peque\u00f1a, pero tan importante. <\/i><\/p>\n

She\u2019ll no longer care! And to that story, all she will be able to say is \u2013 The End.<\/i><\/p>\n

\"Nunca<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If I could give you one piece of romantic advice, I would tell you to never look back at those who didn\u2019t know how to appreciate you.  Why? Because if they did, you wouldn\u2019t have to look back in the first place. They\u2019d still be by your side! If at this very moment, you\u2019re struggling,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":92635,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Never-Look-Back-At-Your-Ex-\u2013-Walk-Away-And-Let-Him-See-What-He-Lost.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43759","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43759"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43759\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92635"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43759"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43759"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43759"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}