{"id":43822,"date":"2019-10-01T11:01:42","date_gmt":"2019-10-01T11:01:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43822"},"modified":"2022-02-20T23:27:06","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T23:27:06","slug":"5-vinculos-emocionales-que-pueden-marcarte-de-por-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-vinculos-emocionales-que-pueden-marcarte-de-por-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"5 v\u00ednculos emocionales que pueden marcarte de por vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las emociones son como el combustible de nuestra alma y, sin ellas, no nos llamar\u00edamos humanos. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But sometimes our emotions can deceive us and trick us to believe that what we\u2019re doing is good for us.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

We\u2019re all programmed to bond with others, we all have a desire to be liked by others and we all crave to be protected and loved. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y a veces nuestro deseo de experimentar todo esto nos ciega ante la realidad.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes we unknowingly decide to live in an illusion, thinking that our love is real and what we\u2019re feeling is real. <\/span><\/p>\n

Elegimos acercarnos demasiado pronto porque queremos sentir el poder del amor. <\/span><\/p>\n

We want to feel like we\u2019re important to someone and we want it at any cost.<\/span><\/p>\n

But we\u2019re not aware of any of it. We\u2019re just aware of this strong urge for emotional attachment and that is why we choose to do anything to make it happen. <\/span><\/p>\n

We choose to live in an illusion that we\u2019ve <\/span>conocimos a nuestra alma gemela<\/span><\/a> even though we\u2019ve known each other for less than a week.<\/span><\/p>\n

Este tipo de v\u00ednculos emocionales malsanos pueden marcarnos de por vida, y por eso debemos ser conscientes de ellos antes de que sea demasiado tarde.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Estar demasiado cerca demasiado pronto<\/h1>\n

\"Sentimental<\/p>\n

Estar demasiado cerca demasiado pronto significa desarrollar sentimientos por alguien nuevo en un tiempo r\u00e9cord y estar convencido de que es tu alma gemela y que sois el uno para el otro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes this might be the case because it\u2019s possible to meet your soulmate and develop strong feelings for them earlier than usual.<\/span><\/p>\n

But if this happens often, it means it\u2019s an unhealthy emotional attachment because of the strong urge to experience love no matter what. <\/span><\/p>\n

That is why our brain convinces us that that a specific person is our soulmate and that we\u2019re in love with them even though we\u2019ve known them for two days.<\/span><\/p>\n

Este tipo de comportamiento suele proceder de nuestra infancia. <\/span><\/p>\n

If our parents didn\u2019t give us enough love during our childhood, we turn into adults who are thirsty for the feeling of being loved and accepted. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that is why our brain tricks us to believe that we\u2019ve found \u2018the one\u2019<\/a> aunque la realidad sea totalmente distinta.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>7 se\u00f1ales de que tienes un estilo de apego inseguro<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

2. Ser pegajoso en lugar de cari\u00f1oso<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

Ser pegajoso b\u00e1sicamente significa ser necesitado y si sientes que necesitas a esa persona espec\u00edfica en tu vida y no puedes vivir con esa persona, esto no tiene nada que ver con el amor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Este va junto con el anterior.<\/span><\/p>\n

Becoming too close too soon and thinking that you can\u2019t live without that person is an unhealthy attachment style and not true love.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Healthy love is developed over time and it\u2019s not dependent on physical appearance, style or similar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Healthy love consists of getting to know each other\u2019s fears, wishes, dreams and personality and developing your feelings gradually over time.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Sobreidentificaci\u00f3n con extra\u00f1os<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Feliz<\/p>\n

Se trata de personas que se sienten fuertemente unidas a quienes les muestran la m\u00e1s m\u00ednima atenci\u00f3n, como una sonrisa, un cumplido, una oferta de ayuda y cosas similares. <\/span><\/p>\n

When a stranger does something nice for such individuals, they immediately link this with a stranger\u2019s affection for them because they exaggerate the importance of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lo hacen debido a su fuerte necesidad de establecer un v\u00ednculo afectivo por haber sido desatendidos en ese aspecto durante su infancia o m\u00e1s adelante. <\/span><\/p>\n

These individuals tend to develop strong feelings for strangers and they are convinced that they feel the same about them, even though it\u2019s all just an illusion.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Sentirse demasiado vinculado a personas que ostentan alg\u00fan tipo de poder.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

This unhealthy emotional attachment is about wanting something that you yourself don\u2019t have. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s about feeling overly connected to people who hold some kind of power because you idolize them for their certain abilities, good looks and similar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, se vinculan demasiado con los actores porque las masas los perciben como positivos y tienen algo poderoso que los hace dignos a los ojos del p\u00fablico. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estos individuos est\u00e1n convencidos de que pueden recibir amor de ellos y piensan que son las \u00fanicas personas que pueden comprenderles y hacerles <\/span>volver a sentirse digno<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. B\u00fasqueda constante de alg\u00fan tipo de validaci\u00f3n relacional<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Por falta de confianza y amor propio, algunas personas empiezan a perseguir ciegamente las \u00faltimas tendencias, se obsesionan con las estrellas y sus cuerpos perfectos y cosas similares. <\/span><\/p>\n

They start thinking that they should fix all of their \u2018flaws\u2019 and look like their idols to be worthy of love and admiration.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esta actitud hace que acaben en un apego emocional enfermizo por pensar que su cuerpo, su pelo y todo lo dem\u00e1s tiene que ser perfecto y reconocido por los dem\u00e1s como tal y que s\u00f3lo as\u00ed ser\u00e1n dignas de estar con ese alguien al que admiramos y apoyamos.<\/span><\/p>\n

This behavior forces people to pretend that they\u2019re something they\u2019re really not and it destroys their initial personality. <\/span><\/p>\n

La constante <\/span>b\u00fasqueda de la perfecci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a> y la validaci\u00f3n de los dem\u00e1s es un c\u00edrculo vicioso que puede destruir nuestro bienestar y marcarnos de por vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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