{"id":43848,"date":"2020-09-15T12:14:08","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T12:14:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43848"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:06:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:06:24","slug":"el-amor-verdadero-nunca-te-haria-reemplazable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-amor-verdadero-nunca-te-haria-reemplazable\/","title":{"rendered":"El amor verdadero nunca te har\u00eda reemplazable"},"content":{"rendered":"

En el mundo actual de las citas, todo sucede a una velocidad incre\u00edble.<\/p>\n

You meet someone new, you give them some short time to impress you, and if you don\u2019t like them, you move on to the next victim.<\/p>\n

No existe tal cosa como luchando por una relaci\u00f3n<\/a> tener \u00e9xito, esforz\u00e1ndose o llegando a un compromiso.<\/p>\n

Nada de adaptarse a la otra persona ni de encontrar un t\u00e9rmino medio.<\/p>\n

It seems as if most people forgot that healthy relationships aren\u2019t built overnight and that they require a lot of hard work. <\/b><\/p>\n

Como si todo el mundo perdiera la paciencia para poner un poco de energ\u00eda en las cosas antes de esperar el resultado final. <\/b><\/p>\n

Today, things are pretty simple: if a guy doesn\u2019t like something about you (even if we\u2019re talking about little things), he will immediately dump you and go on a hunt for a new girl who can give him exactly what he\u2019s looking for at that moment.<\/p>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, el mercado de las citas es enorme, y \u00e9l piensa que quedarse a tu lado ser\u00eda una p\u00e9rdida de tiempo cuando podr\u00eda estar saltando de una relaci\u00f3n a otra, en busca de una mujer que cumpla cada uno de sus imposibles est\u00e1ndares.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 iba a molestarse en conquistarte cuando hay numerosas chicas a las que podr\u00eda tener en un abrir y cerrar de ojos, sin esforzarse lo m\u00e1s m\u00ednimo?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 iba, por ejemplo, a pasarse semanas o incluso meses esperando a que te sintieras lo suficientemente c\u00f3moda a su alrededor como para tener sexo con \u00e9l cuando puede tener suerte en el primer club nocturno al que entre esta noche?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 iba a poner toda su energ\u00eda en cortejarte cuando puede conseguir lo que quiere de una forma mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de otra persona?<\/p>\n

So naturally, if you\u2019re involved with a guy like this, you can\u2019t help yourself from feeling threatened and insecure.<\/p>\n

You keep on comparing yourself with other girls, making sure you\u2019re always the one who captures his undivided attention.<\/p>\n

En pocas palabras: when you\u2019re involved with a guy like this, you live in constant fear that you might be replaced with a newer, shinier model, if the opportunity arises.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not here to blame other women for this situation.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

After all, everyone has the right to do whatever they want, and we\u2019re no one to judge.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m just pointing out the fact that en las citas modernas, es casi imposible sentirse especial y \u00fanico con la persona que tienes al lado, lo cual es bastante triste y decepcionante.<\/b><\/p>\n

En cambio, te sientes constantemente desechable y reemplazable. <\/b><\/p>\n

Pues d\u00e9jame decirte una cosa: el amor verdadero nunca te har\u00e1 sentir as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

It will never give you the need to compete, to hide your flaws or to pretend you\u2019re someone you\u2019re not just for the other person to like you more. <\/b><\/p>\n

You see, when a guy loves you, he doesn\u2019t think of you as a perfect woman.<\/p>\n

He isn\u2019t blind, and he sees your imperfections very well.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, \u00e9l te ama, no a pesar de tus defectos<\/a>, but because of them and because he knows you wouldn\u2019t be the same without them.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

He loves you for who you are, just the way you are, and he wouldn\u2019t change a thing about you, even if he had the chance to.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you: your man is aware that there exist girls who might be prettier, smarter or more interesting than you.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, nunca se le ocurrir\u00eda hacer un movimiento con ninguna de ellas porque t\u00fa eres la \u00fanica que le importa de verdad.<\/p>\n

When a real man loves you, he chooses you every day, and he doesn\u2019t make you question his feelings for a second.<\/p>\n

Instead, he uses every opportunity to prove that you\u2019re the only woman he could ever be with.<\/p>\n

When a real man loves you, he never fails to remind you that you\u2019re one of a kind and that he would rather be alone with you than with anyone else.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY qu\u00e9 mejor prueba de su honesta devoci\u00f3n necesitas?<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t look at you as if you\u2019re a piece of meat or a toy he\u2019ll play with for a while, until he gets bored and decides to throw it away.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

En cambio, te respeta lo suficiente como para no humillarte haci\u00e9ndote sentir desechable. <\/b><\/p>\n

En lugar de alimentar tus inseguridades, refuerza constantemente tu confianza asegur\u00e1ndose de que siempre sepas lo querida y deseada que eres.<\/p>\n

En lugar de compararte con sus ex u otras chicas, se asegura de que sepas que no tienes competencia en su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Suena demasiado bien para ser verdad, \u00bfverdad?<\/b><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that this type of man really does exist\u2014you just have to be pretty damn lucky to run into one. <\/b><\/p>\n

So, the next time someone tells you to settle for modern dating practices or says that you\u2019re asking for too much (when you just want basic respect and appreciation), remember what amor verdadero<\/a> deber\u00eda sentirse as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Recuerda lo que te mereces y permanece soltero hasta que lo consigas.<\/p>\n

\"El<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

In today\u2019s dating pool, everything happens at an incredible speed. You meet someone new, you give them some short time to impress you, and if you don\u2019t like them, you move on to the next victim. There is no such things as fighting for a relationship to succeed, putting in effort or reaching a compromise….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":118392,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43848","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/True-Love-Would-Never-Make-You-Replaceable-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43848","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43848"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43848\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118392"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}