{"id":43871,"date":"2020-10-01T13:37:25","date_gmt":"2020-10-01T13:37:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43871"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:39:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:39:09","slug":"no-dejes-que-el-hombre-correcto-pague-por-lo-que-hizo-el-equivocado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-dejes-que-el-hombre-correcto-pague-por-lo-que-hizo-el-equivocado\/","title":{"rendered":"No dejes que el hombre correcto pague por lo que hizo el equivocado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando un hombre te hace mucho da\u00f1o, no s\u00f3lo te rompe el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n te causa profundos traumas emocionales, graves problemas de confianza y acaba con tu fe en el amor. Ver\u00e1s, un coraz\u00f3n roto se cura tarde o temprano.<\/p>\n

As much pain your ex caused you, you will eventually get over it and it you will forget about him, despite that being the last thing you expect while you’re still going through a break- up.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., the problem isn\u2019t about fixing a crushed heart.  <\/b>El mayor problema es deshacerse de las cicatrices que quedan.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cuando un hombre te hiere gravemente, empiezas a pensar que cualquier otro que se cruce en tu camino ser\u00e1 <\/b>exactamente como \u00e9l<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

Crees que representa a todo el sexo masculino y que todos te tratar\u00e1n como \u00e9l lo hizo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Este era el hombre en el que pod\u00edas confiar tu vida, el hombre que conoc\u00eda todos tus puntos d\u00e9biles y el hombre que te prometi\u00f3 un futuro juntos.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n fue el hombre que te dej\u00f3 colgada, que acab\u00f3 utilizando tus vulnerabilidades y que te dej\u00f3 en el pasado, como si nunca hubieras formado parte de su vida.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Al mismo tiempo te ense\u00f1\u00f3 algunas lecciones importantes de la vida<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Te ayud\u00f3 a aprender a no depositar nunca tu confianza ilimitada en otra persona (y menos en un hombre), a no entregar nunca a otro tu coraz\u00f3n entero y a retener siempre una parte de ti misma.<\/p>\n

Te ense\u00f1\u00f3 a ser precavido y cuidadoso, a. A actuar sin coraz\u00f3n porque es la \u00fanica forma de protegerte.<\/p>\n

Este tipo te ense\u00f1\u00f3 a construir muros alrededor de tu coraz\u00f3n, muros que mantendr\u00e1n alejados a todos los posibles intrusos.<\/b><\/p>\n

Te ense\u00f1\u00f3 a ser como \u00e9l y te convenci\u00f3 de que era la \u00fanica forma de salvarte de otro terremoto emocional.<\/b><\/p>\n

You decided to go through life without allowing your heart to guide you and without ever taking other people\u2019s feelings into consideration.<\/p>\n

You decided that you would rather break someone else\u2019s heart than to allow your heart to get broken once more.<\/p>\n

Bueno, d\u00e9jame decirte que este no es el camino a seguir. De hecho, probablemente sea una de las decisiones m\u00e1s tontas que hayas tomado nunca.<\/p>\n

\"Ledsen<\/p>\n

First and foremost, by acting like this, you\u2019re only showing your ex that he wonmade it.<\/p>\n

Consigui\u00f3 dejar un impacto tan grande en tu vida y personalidad que cambi\u00f3 tu juego de citas para siempre y te convirti\u00f3 en la mujer que nunca fuiste.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t destroy your chance for happiness when he left you.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, if you really start to measure all men according to him, you\u2019ll never find true love.<\/b><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 deber\u00edas culpar de sus fechor\u00edas a un tipo cualquiera que no tiene nada que ver con tu ex?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 tendr\u00eda que pagar por sus pecados? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 tu pasado arruinar\u00eda tu futuro?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 esta relaci\u00f3n destruir\u00eda todas las posibles relaciones futuras?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 dudas de todo lo que este tipo dice y hace s\u00f3lo porque un imb\u00e9cil viol\u00f3 tu confianza?<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 esperas que te haga da\u00f1o, aunque no muestre signos de toxicidad, s\u00f3lo porque tuviste la desgracia de tratar con un imb\u00e9cil manipulador?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 permitir\u00eda que su <\/b>carga emocional<\/b><\/a> que te agobie y que tus demonios del pasado te persigan para siempre?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 tratar\u00edas a alguien como te trataron a ti, a pesar de saber cu\u00e1nto duele?<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014\u2013I\u2019m not advising you to blindly believe everyone you meet or to do the things you know are not wise.<\/p>\n

No te estoy diciendo que seas tonto o que no pienses tus movimientos antes de actuar.<\/p>\n

Instead, I\u2019m just asking you to give someone else a chance to love you and to show you that there exist men who are much better than your ex ever was. <\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m begging you to give yourself a chance to find happiness without your past at your feet.<\/b><\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t deprive yourself of love and especially don\u2019t do it for the sake of the guy who doesn\u2019t deserve to even cross your mind. <\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t show him that he won and instead be strong enough to annul everything he\u2019s done to you!<\/b><\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When one man hurts you badly, he doesn\u2019t only break your heart. He also causes you deep emotional traumas and, severe trust issues and he kills your faith in love. You see, a broken heart heals sooner or later. As much pain your ex caused you, you will eventually get over it and it you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121437,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43871","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Dont-Let-The-Right-Man-Pay-For-What-The-Wrong-One-Did-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43871","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43871"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43871\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121437"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43871"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43871"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43871"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}