{"id":44076,"date":"2020-05-02T13:21:45","date_gmt":"2020-05-02T13:21:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44076"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:13:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:13:04","slug":"5-senales-no-tan-evidentes-de-que-tienes-profundos-problemas-de-confianza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-no-tan-evidentes-de-que-tienes-profundos-problemas-de-confianza\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales no tan evidentes de que tienes problemas profundos de confianza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La consecuencia m\u00e1s com\u00fan de haber sido herido o traicionado en el pasado son los problemas de confianza.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s normal for you to stop believing in people after someone you cared for the most broke your heart.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, el mayor problema es cuando suprimes estos problemas y no eres consciente de que los tienes.<\/p>\n<p>Here are 5 hidden symptoms of deeply rooted trust issues you probably don\u2019t even notice.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">You don\u2019t give chances to new people<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95512\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste mirando por la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the first signs that you\u2019re not aware that you have problems with trusting others is the fact that you don\u2019t let anyone new in.<\/p>\n<p>Te niegas a dar a alguien nuevo la oportunidad de conocerte mejor o de formar parte de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>When you come to think about it, you\u2019ve been hanging out with the same people for as long as you can remember.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this is a good thing and probably a sign that you\u2019re a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/friendship\/esto-es-lo-que-realmente-significa-ser-un-amigo-leal\/\"> amigo leal <\/a> , but it doesn\u2019t mean nobody else deserves a shot with you.<\/p>\n<p>Esto se aplica especialmente a los hombres nuevos que intentan seducirte.<\/p>\n<p>Before you even get to know them better, you find a million excuses why they don\u2019t deserve your attention.<\/p>\n<p>If this is something you can relate to, it\u2019s clear that you\u2019re scared of exiting your zone of comfort.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re afraid of giving your heart to someone who is unfamiliar to you because, by doing so, you\u2019re also giving them a chance to hurt you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Huyes de las relaciones<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95513\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-alone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en el suelo sola\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-alone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another symptom of suppressed trust issues lies in the fact that with time, you\u2019ve developed a habit of escaping relationships as soon as things become serious.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not talking here about romances only, I\u2019m talking about all types of relationships one can have in life.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you see that you\u2019re becoming too close with someone, you instantly start distancing yourself from them.<\/p>\n<p>The moment you realize that your romantic relationship is getting somewhere and it\u2019s time to take it to the next level, you back out.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, esto no es algo que se haga voluntaria y conscientemente.<\/p>\n<p>En cambio, lo haces sin ser consciente; lo haces para protegerte de un peligro potencial.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O te vuelves extremadamente posesivo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95514\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste de mente profunda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por otro lado, algunas personas que tienen profundos problemas de confianza hacen algo completamente opuesto: se convierten en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/como-dejar-de-ser-pegajoso-y-necesitado-8-maneras-de-hacerlo\/\"> extremadamente pegajoso <\/a> cuando se trata de sus seres queridos.<\/p>\n<p>If this is something you\u2019ve caught yourself doing, know that you are actually scared of losing the ones who are important to you.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t trust that they love you back and won\u2019t break your heart.<\/p>\n<p>Crees que la \u00fanica forma de evitarlo es seguir todos sus movimientos y mantenerlos lo m\u00e1s cerca posible de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Una cosa est\u00e1 clara: cuando se trata de personas con problemas de confianza, no hay t\u00e9rmino medio.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, \u00a1ninguna de estas dos opciones es saludable!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You can\u2019t live in the moment<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95515\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"preocupada mujer sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Obsesivo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/pensar-demasiado-arruina-la-relacion\/\"> pensando demasiado <\/a> es uno de los efectos secundarios de los problemas de confianza.<\/p>\n<p>Simplemente tiene la necesidad de mantener todo y a todos en su vida bajo control.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitas tener todo tu futuro planeado, hasta el m\u00e1s m\u00ednimo detalle.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, that means that you\u2019re responsible, which is amazing.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, al mismo tiempo, te impide disfrutar del momento presente.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you\u2019re constantly worried about what might happen next and in what way someone might hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, todo esto hace que te sientas abrumado, estresado y ansioso.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Siempre supones lo peor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95516\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-balcony-floor.jpg\" alt=\"mujer deprimida sentada en el suelo del balc\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-balcony-floor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-balcony-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-balcony-floor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No s\u00f3lo eso, sino que tambi\u00e9n espera el peor escenario posible en todo momento.<\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que conoces a un chico nuevo (o incluso a un nuevo amigo), ya le ves traicion\u00e1ndote y apu\u00f1al\u00e1ndote por la espalda.<\/p>\n<p>You think that it would be easier for you to deal with the disappointment if it doesn\u2019t hit you unprepared.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, esta forma de pensar hace que te pierdas muchas cosas, por no hablar de que llena tu vida de negatividad innecesaria.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95511\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5-Not-So-Obvious-Signs-You\u2019re-Compressing-Deep-Trust-Issues-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 se\u00f1ales no tan evidentes de que tienes problemas profundos de confianza\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5-Not-So-Obvious-Signs-You\u2019re-Compressing-Deep-Trust-Issues-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5-Not-So-Obvious-Signs-You\u2019re-Compressing-Deep-Trust-Issues-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The most common consequence of being hurt or betrayed in the past are trust issues. It\u2019s normal for you to stop believing in people after someone you cared for the most broke your heart. However, the bigger problem is when you suppress these issues and are completely unaware of having them. Here are 5 hidden&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":95517,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44076","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5-Not-So-Obvious-Signs-You\u2019re-Compressing-Deep-Trust-Issues.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44076","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44076"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44076\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95517"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44076"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44076"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44076"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}