{"id":44214,"date":"2019-10-03T12:23:33","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T12:23:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44214"},"modified":"2022-02-10T12:27:26","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T12:27:26","slug":"nunca-cambiara-para-un-hombre-a-menos-que-estas-5-cosas-empiecen-a-suceder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-cambiara-para-un-hombre-a-menos-que-estas-5-cosas-empiecen-a-suceder\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca cambies por un hombre a menos que ocurran estas 5 cosas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/4-razones-por-las-que-desenamorarse-da-mas-miedo-que-enamorarse\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enamorarse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> significa pasar mucho tiempo con esta nueva persona. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Y pasar mucho tiempo con alguien hace que, sin darnos cuenta, imitemos su comportamiento y sus h\u00e1bitos, incluso en las cosas m\u00e1s insignificantes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Este cambio no es algo que deba preocuparle. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Como seres humanos, estamos constantemente aprendiendo y explor\u00e1ndonos como individuos y descifrando todo esto del amor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is perfectly normal to start speaking similarly to your partner after a while because after all, he\u2019s the one you spend the majority of your time with.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And it\u2019s totally fine if some of his habits rub off on you. It\u2019s something you don\u2019t have a lot of power over. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And for as long as it\u2019s not something that\u2019s causing you any unhappiness or unpleasantness, you\u2019re in the clear.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But if your man is subtly asking you to change in a way that isn\u2019t something you\u2019re okay with, you should definitely feel free to say no.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44219\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_525424825-1.jpg\" alt=\"Chica solitaria cerca de la ventana pensando en algo. Reflejo melanc\u00f3lico de la chica en la ventana.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_525424825-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_525424825-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_525424825-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si quiere que cambies cosas de ti con las que est\u00e1s perfectamente contenta, deber\u00edas hablar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are amazing exactly the way you are. And if your man cannot accept you in all of your adorable messiness, maybe he\u2019s not the one for you after all?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because a person who loves you unconditionally and irrevocably embraces all of you \u2013 flaws and all. A person who loves you, only pushes you to become an even better version of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nunca te pedir\u00e1n a prop\u00f3sito que cambies por motivos ego\u00edstas. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/solo-un-hombre-de-verdad-puede-manejar-una-mujer-alfa\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un hombre de verdad <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aprecia y acepta a una mujer por lo que es, \u00a1no por lo que \u00e9l quiere que sea!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So if you\u2019re thinking about changing for a man, don\u2019t do it unless these 5 things start happening:<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Never change for a man unless you feel like it\u2019s making you grow as a person<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44222\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1415910188.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de cerca de una mujer joven incre\u00edble con el pelo rojo y pecas sonriendo con los ojos cerrados, mientras que ser abrazado por la espalda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1415910188.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1415910188-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1415910188-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todo el mundo tiene una idea diferente de lo que significa crecer y madurar. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So you\u2019re the only one who can decide whether being with him is making you grow or not. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">T\u00fa eres el \u00fanico que sabe el efecto que tiene en ti y en tus pensamientos internos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No tiene sentido mentirse a uno mismo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re feeling yourself become more compassionate, open-minded and kind, that\u2019s a good sign that his presence is helping you improve as a person. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you feel more liberated and more secure in yourself, you\u2019re with <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/ten-fe-en-que-dios-te-enviara-a-la-persona-adecuada-en-el-momento-oportuno\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la persona adecuada.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If him being near you makes you feel like you no longer care about the BS that used to bother you, it means you\u2019ve hit the boyfriend jackpot! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cualquier persona cuya mera presencia tenga un efecto tan tranquilizador y fortalecedor en ti es una gran persona a la que debes estar cerca.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Never change for a man unless you\u2019re learning about new and amazing things<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44224\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_718707103.jpg\" alt=\"Vista lateral de mujer morena complacida con gafas sentada en un banco y leyendo un libro en un parque.\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_718707103.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_718707103-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_718707103-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is something extraordinary about people who are able to expand our horizons and help us learn so many amazing new things in a fun and kind way\u2014not in that conceding \u2018\u2019told you so\u2019\u2019 way that makes you feel dumb.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sino m\u00e1s bien de una forma que te ayude a ver lo interesado y curioso que eres por el mundo que te rodea. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Y cuando esa persona es capaz de ayudarte a descubrir esa nueva faceta tuya que tiene un profundo af\u00e1n por el conocimiento, debes quedarte a su lado pase lo que pase.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life is all about learning and discovering. Whether it\u2019s about yourself or about the world around you, it makes no difference. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu mente est\u00e1 abierta y tu alma anhela nuevas experiencias, est\u00e1s con una buena persona.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nunca cambies por tu hombre a menos que signifique perder tus malos h\u00e1bitos (poco saludables)<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44226\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_437021746.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de una joven empresaria sonriente con gafas sentada en su lugar de trabajo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_437021746.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_437021746-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_437021746-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re a smoker, your partner might ask you to reconsider it. If you like to drink a lot, your partner might ask to cut down just a little bit. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And he would be totally within his rights to do that. Why? Because it\u2019s for your own good.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu hombre te quiere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-maneras-de-deshacerte-de-tus-habitos-toxicos-en-las-relaciones-de-pareja\/\">perder h\u00e1bitos t\u00f3xicos<\/a> que no mejoran en absoluto su vida, sino que disminuyen la calidad de la misma, deber\u00eda considerar seriamente la posibilidad de escucharle.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tiene buenas intenciones. Quiere que vivas una vida larga y feliz. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Y si fumas 2 paquetes de cigarrillos al d\u00eda y bebes sin importar el d\u00eda de la semana que sea, deber\u00edas hacerle caso y simplemente reducir la cantidad. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ll be thankful later, I promise.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nunca cambies por un hombre a menos que eso te haga abordar el conflicto de una forma sana<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44227\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_755719375.jpg\" alt=\"Apasionada pareja rom\u00e1ntica en su\u00e9teres est\u00e1n pasando tiempo juntos antes de A\u00f1o Nuevo en casa. Tierna pareja abraz\u00e1ndose sobre el fondo de guirnalda brillante.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_755719375.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_755719375-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_755719375-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Usted es <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/si-no-te-hubiera-roto-el-corazon-no-serias-quien-eres-ahora\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">qui\u00e9n eres<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. And the way you\u2019ve always done things is the way you\u2019re probably always going to do them. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pero cuando se trata de discutir con tu pareja, siempre hay algo que aprender en ese frente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner has taught you a new and possibly healthier way to approach conflict, that\u2019s actually a great thing. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si \u00e9l te ha ayudado a entender que en esta relaci\u00f3n hay dos personas, ambas con el mismo derecho a opinar, deber\u00edas quedarte con \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No hay mucha gente que te ayude a luchar con ellos de forma m\u00e1s productiva. Pero bromas aparte.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">t would be so easy just proving you wrong and diminishing you. But if instead he helps you see other points of view, maybe he\u2019s one of the good ones after all?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;5. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Never change for a man unless your friends tell you how much happier you seem since you\u2019ve been with him<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44228\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_510773548.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja rom\u00e1ntica saliendo de noche en un pub\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_510773548.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_510773548-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_510773548-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hay algunos cambios que est\u00e1n perfectamente bien implementar si esta persona realmente hace tu mundo m\u00e1s brillante. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all \u2013 compromise is key to any good relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if you\u2019ve had friends tell you multiple times how much happier and healthier you seem ever since you started seeing him, trust them! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Siempre te dir\u00e1n c\u00f3mo son las cosas. As\u00ed que si te pide que pases un poco m\u00e1s de tiempo con \u00e9l antes de salir con tus chicas, quiz\u00e1 puedas ceder.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If it\u2019s a tiny little thing that does no harm to anyone (on the contrary!) don\u2019t even think about it. Trust your gut and trust your friends. That way \u2013 you can do no wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-44234\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Never-Change-For-A-Man-Unless-These-5-Things-Start-Happening-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Nunca cambies por un hombre a menos que ocurran estas 5 cosas\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Never-Change-For-A-Man-Unless-These-5-Things-Start-Happening-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Never-Change-For-A-Man-Unless-These-5-Things-Start-Happening-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Never-Change-For-A-Man-Unless-These-5-Things-Start-Happening-1.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Falling in love means spending a huge amount of time with this new person. And spending a lot of time with someone makes us unknowingly mimic their behaviour and habits, even in the littlest ways. This change is not something you should worry about. As human beings, we are constantly learning and exploring ourselves as&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":44229,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44214","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_713378380.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44214","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44214"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44214\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44229"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44214"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44214"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44214"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}