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<\/p>\nLa qu\u00edmica es real, los sentimientos est\u00e1n ah\u00ed, la conversaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 en su punto, y la lujuria es imparable. Parece que lo tienes todo... todo menos a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n
He says he\u2019s not ready for a relationship. He\u2019s giving you crumbs and he\u2019s always keeping you at arm\u2019s length.<\/p>\n
He hasn\u2019t let you all in and is keeping his options open.<\/p>\n
On the other hand, he can\u2019t stand the thought of you with somebody else.<\/p>\n
He wants commitment from you, but he can\u2019t offer the same in return. And it\u2019s time you put a stop to it.<\/p>\n
Cut off boyfriend benefits if he\u2019s not your boyfriend.<\/b><\/p>\n
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Yes, I mean sex primarily. You don\u2019t sleep with your friends, now do you?<\/p>\n
If you have greater feelings for him than he has for you, you don\u2019t want him to consider you as something casual.<\/p>\n
Think about it. Why would he be interested in a relationship when he\u2019s getting everything for free?<\/p>\n
El v\u00ednculo emocional que tienes con \u00e9l puede ser tu muerte. <\/b><\/p>\n
Quiz\u00e1 no la muerte real, pero la matanza emocional est\u00e1 garantizada.<\/p>\n
El coraz\u00f3n se rompe con la misma facilidad cuando hay etiquetas que cuando no las hay.<\/p>\n
Pasas tiempo con alguien, las emociones evolucionan, te encari\u00f1as m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de tus sue\u00f1os m\u00e1s salvajes.<\/p>\n
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You text regularly, you hang out often, you have your inside jokes, you know each other\u2019s thoughts and the way you smell in the morning.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s not just about sex; it\u2019s so much more. That\u2019s why the situation you find yourself in hurts just as breaking up would.<\/p>\n
Te encuentras con que quieres m\u00e1s y la realidad es que puede que \u00e9l no tenga m\u00e1s que dar.<\/p>\n
As\u00ed que sea usted quien lleve la voz cantante.<\/p>\n
Tear him down from that pedestal you placed him on if he isn\u2019t ready to treat you like a queen. <\/b><\/p>\n
He is your priority, your number one, the center of your universe, your king, but if he can\u2019t treat you the same, then he\u2019s not worthy of you.<\/p>\n
If he\u2019s not ready to step up and make you completely his, he\u2019s not worthy of your time.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t allow more months or years to pass without being truly happy. <\/b><\/p>\n
La felicidad va y viene de tu vida, pero nunca se queda mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n
You feel like he has power over it and all he\u2019s giving you are mere moments of unbelievable joy, only to spoil them with much larger periods of uncertainty.<\/p>\n
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There are days where there\u2019s nothing he wouldn\u2019t do for you, and then there are others where a text back, a simple \u201cHow are you?\u201d and making plans to see you are too much effort.<\/p>\n
His mind and his heart are inconsistent, and they\u2019re making a mess out of your life. <\/b><\/p>\n
Te da pistas de que las cosas podr\u00edan cambiar. Habla de lo que siente por ti. Habla del futuro y hac\u00e9is planes juntos.<\/p>\n
Then, out of the blue, he\u2019s nowhere to be found. He\u2019s \u201ctoo busy,\u201d he\u2019s with his friends night after night, he has no time for you until it\u2019s convenient for him.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s disrespectful, to say the least, and it has to stop.<\/p>\n
Lo que tienes que recordarte es que te mereces algo mejor de \u00e9l, de la vida, de ti misma.<\/b><\/p>\n
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From yourself primarily because it\u2019s all in your hands. You have to have standards.<\/p>\n
You can\u2019t put up with someone\u2019s crappy behavior and low investments.<\/p>\n
Qui\u00e9rete tanto como te gustar\u00eda que te quisieran y todo encajar\u00e1.<\/p>\n
You deserve things from him if he\u2019s expecting relationship benefits. You deserve to be labeled as his girlfriend.<\/p>\n
Mereces respeto, lealtad y esfuerzo. Mereces m\u00e1s de la mitad de su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n
La vida tambi\u00e9n te debe un par de cosas. Te debe paz en tu coraz\u00f3n y amor en tu vida. S\u00f3lo tienes que alcanzarlos.<\/p>\n
You deserve a committed relationship where all your efforts are reciprocated and you aren\u2019t the only one making them.<\/p>\n
Te mereces que te correspondan y no ser la que ama por dos.<\/p>\n
So, if he isn\u2019t ready to be in a relationship, cut off all the benefits and inform him you\u2019re not ready for a non-relationship either.<\/p>\n
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