{"id":44391,"date":"2019-10-07T11:10:19","date_gmt":"2019-10-07T11:10:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44391"},"modified":"2022-01-28T11:55:01","modified_gmt":"2022-01-28T11:55:01","slug":"4-cosas-que-deberias-haber-recordado-antes-de-romperle-el-corazon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-cosas-que-deberias-haber-recordado-antes-de-romperle-el-corazon\/","title":{"rendered":"4 cosas que deber\u00edas haber recordado antes de romperle el coraz\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando haces da\u00f1o a alguien, no piensas en las consecuencias de tus actos.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t think about whether it\u2019s the right thing to do and whether you should be a little more considerate in your words and deeds.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying you should remain in a loveless relationship just for the sake of the other person.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, hay una gran diferencia entre romper con tu pareja y romperle el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44393\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11961875741.jpg\" alt=\"Vista lateral mujer joven mirando hacia otro lado \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11961875741.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11961875741-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11961875741-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s exactly what you did to your ex-girlfriend: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-acabas-de-romperla\/\">aplastaste su coraz\u00f3n<\/a> en un mill\u00f3n de pedazos.<\/p>\n<p>Usted eligi\u00f3 ser un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/9-pasos-tomar-tratar-novio-egoista\/\">imb\u00e9cil ego\u00edsta<\/a> who doesn\u2019t give a damn about her feelings and only looks after his own well-being.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, you planned that you\u2019ll get out of all of this unharmed while her pain was none of your business.<\/p>\n<p>Pues ah\u00ed te equivocaste.<\/p>\n<h2>1. It won\u2019t make you feel any better<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44394\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_10604491611.jpg\" alt=\"Dolor desagradable\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_10604491611.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_10604491611-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_10604491611-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the first things you should have kept in mind before you decided to hurt this girl is that causing someone else pain doesn\u2019t heal yours.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t make you a badass or a player, and it\u2019s definitely not something you should be proud of.<\/p>\n<p>Humiliating someone else won\u2019t wipe out your insecurities and it won\u2019t boost your fragile ego.<\/p>\n<p>Thinking that you\u2019re above this girl won\u2019t make you think more of yourself and it certainly won\u2019t give you the self-confidence you desperately try to build in all the wrong ways.<\/p>\n<p>It won\u2019t make you more appealing to other girls, nor will it cause envy in other guys.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, todo el mundo te ver\u00e1 como el imb\u00e9cil que realmente eres.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly \u2013 sooner or later, you\u2019ll start seeing yourself as a selfish person who doesn\u2019t care about other people\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Before you know it, you\u2019ll regret the fact that you were a jerk toward the last person who deserved it.<\/p>\n<h2>2. It\u2019s your loss<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44395\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_13067085761.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre solitario y deprimido en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_13067085761.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_13067085761-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_13067085761-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando abandonaste a esta chica, pens\u00f3 que perderte era lo peor que le pod\u00eda pasar.<\/p>\n<p>She was convinced she\u2019d never recover and the devastating pain would haunt her for as long as she breathes.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, es obvio que ambos olvidaron que en realidad fuiste t\u00fa quien lo perdi\u00f3 todo, mientras que ella gan\u00f3 much\u00edsimo.<\/p>\n<p>After all, she lost a man who never cared for her for real \u2013 a man who didn\u2019t deserve her unconditional love.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, perdiste a tu mejor amigo y amante, todo en uno.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re sentenced to a life without the only person you could trust, the only woman who was ready to make sacrifices for your sake, and the girl who <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/he-terminado-de-quererte-mas-de-lo-que-me-quiero-a-mi-misma\/\">te quer\u00eda m\u00e1s que a s\u00ed misma<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQui\u00e9n es el verdadero perdedor?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQui\u00e9n tiene m\u00e1s posibilidades de pasar el resto de sus d\u00edas arrepinti\u00e9ndose de sus elecciones y qui\u00e9n tiene m\u00e1s probabilidades de encontrar su \"felices para siempre\"?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfUn hombre sin escr\u00fapulos que es incapaz de amar?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfO una chica con un coraz\u00f3n desinteresado que sabe luchar por lo que ama?<\/p>\n<h2>3. You won\u2019t break her<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44396\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5200667741.jpg\" alt=\"Hermosa mujer despreocupada \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5200667741.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5200667741-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5200667741-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Despite all odds, when you crushed this girl\u2019s heart, you didn\u2019t manage to crush her entire being as well.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, s\u00f3lo la hiciste m\u00e1s fuerte y m\u00e1s dura.<\/p>\n<p>Como ves, esta chica consigui\u00f3 reconstruirse a s\u00ed misma y pegar de nuevo su coraz\u00f3n destrozado.<\/p>\n<p>Consigui\u00f3 salir de este dolor con m\u00e1s fuerza que nunca y lo utiliz\u00f3 en su propio beneficio.<\/p>\n<p>I know you hoped that she\u2019d spend the rest of her life missing you and begging you to come back.<\/p>\n<p>That she\u2019d forever remain hurt, in tears, and never really get over you.<\/p>\n<p>Well, you thought wrong. Obviously, you forgot everything she\u2019s capable of and how much she can take.<\/p>\n<p>And that is your biggest defeat: the fact that you\u2019re completely forgotten and that you haven\u2019t left a permanent mark on this girl, despite giving her a massive heartache.<\/p>\n<h2><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/a-todos-los-tramposos-por-ahi-el-karma-es-una-perra\/\">4. El karma es una perra<\/a><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44397\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14926155291.jpg\" alt=\"Joven inquieto bebedor alcoh\u00f3lico \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14926155291.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14926155291-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14926155291-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00faltimo que esta chica tiene en mente es vengarse.<\/p>\n<p>No matter what you might expect, she doesn\u2019t plan on getting even with you.<\/p>\n<p>However, this doesn\u2019t mean your sins are pardoned.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re absolved and forgiven or that you won\u2019t pay for all of your misdeeds.<\/p>\n<p>This girl isn\u2019t a bitch, but karma is. And that is something you should\u2019ve remembered before acting like a jerk.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Te aseguro que la vida te har\u00e1 pasar por la misma angustia que le causaste a esta chica.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll feel all the humiliation, all the trauma, and all the pain she felt.<\/p>\n<p>Y s\u00f3lo entonces ver\u00e1s la magnitud de tus actos.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo entonces te dar\u00e1s cuenta de lo mala persona que eres en realidad y te arrepentir\u00e1s de todo lo que hiciste.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-44398\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Diese-Wichtige-Lektion-Wird-Jedes-Sternzeichen-Diesen-Oktober-Lernen2-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"4 cosas que deber\u00edas haber recordado antes de romperle el coraz\u00f3n\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Diese-Wichtige-Lektion-Wird-Jedes-Sternzeichen-Diesen-Oktober-Lernen2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Diese-Wichtige-Lektion-Wird-Jedes-Sternzeichen-Diesen-Oktober-Lernen2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Diese-Wichtige-Lektion-Wird-Jedes-Sternzeichen-Diesen-Oktober-Lernen2.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you hurt someone, you don\u2019t think of the consequences of your actions. You don\u2019t think about whether it\u2019s the right thing to do and whether you should be a little more considerate in your words and deeds. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying you should remain in a loveless relationship just for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":44392,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44391","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5809748771.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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