{"id":44411,"date":"2019-10-07T13:23:59","date_gmt":"2019-10-07T13:23:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44411"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:18:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:18:32","slug":"despues-de-todo-lo-que-paso-se-siente-tan-bien-estar-sin-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/despues-de-todo-lo-que-paso-se-siente-tan-bien-estar-sin-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Despu\u00e9s de todo lo que pas\u00f3, se siente tan bien estar sin ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Recuerdo estar sentada en mi cama, pensando en todo lo que pas\u00f3 entre nosotros.<\/p>\n

I remember feeling guilty for destroying such a \u2018perfect\u2019 relationship.<\/p>\n

Durante mucho tiempo, pens\u00e9 que yo era la culpable de todo lo malo que ocurr\u00eda.<\/p>\n

For a long time, I couldn\u2019t imagine my life without you and I guess that is why I was so stubbornly looking for answers and reasons for our break-up.<\/p>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t accept the fact that I would no longer see your face but now I\u2019m happy to say that it actually feels so good to be without you!<\/p>\n

It took me a while to finally open my eyes and realize how stupid I was to think that I wouldn\u2019t survive without you.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica raz\u00f3n por la que estaba convencida de que mi vida acabar\u00eda con nuestra ruptura es porque you made me believe that I\u2019m weak<\/a> \u00a1y que necesito que seas mi salvador!<\/p>\n

But guess what? I don\u2019t need you and, in fact, I realized that I never did.<\/b><\/p>\n

Had someone told me that I would feel such bliss and happiness in my soul once you were gone, I wouldn\u2019t have believed them.<\/p>\n

Had someone told me that I would feel so much stronger after everything that happened, I wouldn\u2019t have believed them.<\/p>\n

I wouldn\u2019t have believed them because I didn\u2019t want to believe.<\/p>\n

I was just running in circles, thinking that I\u2019d lost a big part of my soul once you were gone.<\/p>\n

Pero la verdad es que acabo de aprender una valiosa lecci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que no fuiste ni m\u00e1s ni menos que una lecci\u00f3n que me cost\u00f3 muchas l\u00e1grimas, esperas y perdones.<\/p>\n

\"Atractivas<\/p>\n

Y despu\u00e9s de todo eso, \u00a1qu\u00e9 bien sienta estar sin ti!<\/p>\n

Se siente tan bien no esperar tu llamada, se siente tan bien no esperar tus excusas y se siente tan bien no hacerte mi \u00fanica prioridad.<\/p>\n

Me siento tan bien pensando en m\u00ed mismo para variar y no importarme una mierda ninguna de tus gilipolleces.<\/b><\/p>\n

It feels so good to know that every time I waited for you to call or text me, you were teaching me not to waste my time on those who don\u2019t deserve it.<\/i><\/p>\n

Se siente tan bien saber que cada vez que me hac\u00edas llorar, me acercabas deliberadamente a quien me har\u00e1 sonre\u00edr.<\/i><\/p>\n

Sienta tan bien saber que cada vez que esperabas que me creyera tus chorradas, me estabas ense\u00f1ando que <\/i>s\u00f3lo los hombres de verdad se esfuerzan por tratar a sus mujeres con respeto<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

And I\u2019m sorry to tell you this but you\u2019re definitely not one of them and you never will be.<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Real men don\u2019t treat their women like shit and then expect them to stay.<\/p>\n

Luchan por ellos desde el primer hasta el \u00faltimo segundo y nunca se rinden, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

And it feels so good to finally realize that you\u2019re not that kind of man and you never will be.<\/p>\n

It feels so good to finally open my eyes and see the real truth that your heart doesn\u2019t have the capacity and it\u2019s simply not capable of loving anyone.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica persona a la que podr\u00e1s amar es a ti mismo y cuando por fin te des cuenta, ser\u00e1 demasiado tarde.<\/p>\n

Cuando te des cuenta, probablemente estar\u00e9 en alg\u00fan lugar lejos de ti y nunca tendr\u00e9 la oportunidad de ver tu cara de arrepentimiento.<\/p>\n

Pero.., <\/b>el karma es una perra<\/b><\/a>\u00bfverdad?<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

After everything that happened, it would be a shame if you didn\u2019t learn your lessons as well, just like I learned mine.<\/p>\n

And trust me, once you feel a taste of your own medicine, you will be delighted because no matter how bitter the truth is, it\u2019s the only thing that heals.<\/p>\n

No matter how painful our lessons are, they are the only things that can help us open our eyes and continue our cruise through life in a more balanced sea and with the person with whom we\u2019re meant to be.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

So, after everything that happened, I thank you for helping me realize that you were just a passenger through my journey called life and that one day I\u2019ll finally meet the one who will stay and teach me what love really is.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: As\u00ed es como aprend\u00ed a vivir sin ti<\/a><\/p>\n

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