{"id":44474,"date":"2020-04-07T17:00:16","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T17:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44474"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:49:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:49:53","slug":"7-cosas-que-pasan-cuando-quieres-a-alguien-mas-de-lo-que-te-quieren-a-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-que-pasan-cuando-quieres-a-alguien-mas-de-lo-que-te-quieren-a-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cosas que pasan cuando quieres a alguien m\u00e1s de lo que te quieren a ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

El amor es algo hermoso, pero simplemente amar a alguien<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean your relationship will be successful.<\/p>\n

Al pensar \u00fanicamente en el amor, a menudo olvidamos un segundo t\u00e9rmino que est\u00e1 estrechamente relacionado (si no interconectado) con el amor.<\/p>\n

Ese t\u00e9rmino es saldo<\/i>\u00a1! El equilibrio es el ingrediente m\u00e1gico responsable de establecer una relaci\u00f3n sana y feliz.<\/p>\n

Y cuando quieres a alguien m\u00e1s de lo que te quiere a ti, no hay equilibrio en esas relaciones porque la mayor\u00eda de las cosas y sentimientos recaen sobre tus hombros.<\/p>\n

Te conviertes en el que manda en una relaci\u00f3n, y cuando eso ocurre, b\u00e1sicamente ya no est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n. Te conviertes en el capit\u00e1n de un barco que est\u00e1 destinado a hundirse.<\/p>\n

Si a\u00fan crees que siempre habr\u00e1 una persona que ame m\u00e1s, pi\u00e9nsalo otra vez.<\/p>\n

Esta creencia se la inventan los que necesitaban encontrar una excusa para seguir en esa relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Esto no es la norma, y no es algo que deber\u00eda ser.<\/p>\n

Loving someone more than they love you is like being on a dead-end street, and here\u2019s what happens when you find yourself in such a relationship!<\/p>\n

1. El amor no se reparte por igual<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Cuando amas a alguien m\u00e1s de lo que te ama, el amor no es igualitario. Hay un enorme desequilibrio en la forma de expresar el amor.<\/p>\n

Como les quieres m\u00e1s, les dices m\u00e1s cosas bonitas y les haces m\u00e1s cumplidos que rara vez o nunca te devolver\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

And since you love them more, you don\u2019t hold grudges if they forget to say \u2018I love you\u2019 or do something nice for you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t see it as something that shouldn\u2019t be, and that is where you lose the balance in a relationship.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 7 maneras de crear una relaci\u00f3n equilibrada con tu pareja<\/a><\/p>\n

2. Hacen planes y toman decisiones sin ti<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando quieres a alguien m\u00e1s de lo que \u00e9l te quiere a ti, siempre forma parte de todos tus planes y decisiones.<\/p>\n

Siempre les pides un consejo porque te importa lo que piensan sobre ciertos asuntos. Pero, \u00bfhace tu pareja lo mismo por ti?<\/p>\n

Cuando quieres a alguien m\u00e1s de lo que \u00e9l te quiere a ti, se siente libre para hacer planes y tomar decisiones sin ti.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t care whether you\u2019ll agree with their decision, and they don\u2019t include you in all of their future plans.<\/p>\n

3. They are not interested in your personal life as much as you\u2019d want them to be<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Los que aman menos en una relaci\u00f3n tambi\u00e9n se interesan menos por tu vida personal.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t really bother that much (as much as you\u2019d want them to) about what is happening in your life, whether someone or something bothers you, and how you are feeling about certain things.<\/p>\n

A menudo te sientes solo<\/a> as if you\u2019re in a relationship with yourself because they seldom ask you about any of your personal things.<\/p>\n

And because you love them more, you often don\u2019t notice this, and even if you do, you accept it as something normal that happens in any relationship.<\/p>\n

4. Dan por sentado tu amor<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Es f\u00e1cil ser leal y cari\u00f1oso cuando quieres a alguien m\u00e1s de lo que te quieren a ti.<\/p>\n

Y es f\u00e1cil dar a alguien por sentado cuando sabes que te quiere m\u00e1s que t\u00fa a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Esta promesa de que siempre les querr\u00e1s independientemente de lo que te digan o hagan es lo que hace que den por sentado tu amor.<\/p>\n

Cuando no hay equilibrio en una relaci\u00f3n, siempre habr\u00e1 alguien que se sienta m\u00e1s seguro que el otro.<\/p>\n

Y el que se sentir\u00e1 m\u00e1s seguro para hacer lo que quiera es el que ama menos.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Si no puedes hablar con \u00e9l de estas 5 cosas, tu relaci\u00f3n no tiene futuro<\/a><\/p>\n

5. La mayor parte del esfuerzo de la relaci\u00f3n recae sobre tus hombros<\/h2>\n

\"Adulto<\/p>\n

Cuando quieres a alguien m\u00e1s de lo que te quiere a ti, todo el esfuerzo de la relaci\u00f3n empieza a recaer sobre tus hombros.<\/p>\n

Te conviertes en el m\u00e1s responsable en una relaci\u00f3n, te conviertes en el que se preocupa constantemente por ciertas cosas y, lo m\u00e1s importante, te conviertes en el que hace la mayor parte del esfuerzo.<\/p>\n

Con el tiempo, dejas de esperar que hagan algo bueno por ti porque te has acostumbrado a su inactividad.<\/p>\n

Cuando amas a alguien m\u00e1s de lo que \u00e9l te ama a ti, t\u00fa te conviertes en el activo y \u00e9l en el pasivo.<\/p>\n

6. You have to constantly compete with friends (or family) for your partner\u2019s time<\/h2>\n

\"Novia<\/p>\n

Loving someone less than you are loved back means doing whatever you want and whenever you want because you\u2019re not worried about pasar suficiente tiempo con su pareja<\/a>.  <\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve noticed that you have to constantly compete with your partner\u2019s friends or family to spend time with them, then you know your relationship lacks balance, and you\u2019re the one who loves more in a relationship.<\/p>\n

7. Siempre pones excusas por su comportamiento<\/h2>\n

\"Hip<\/p>\n

Loving someone more than you are loved back means always making excuses for their behavior because of one simple reason\u2014because you love them A LOT.<\/p>\n

Y esa es la raz\u00f3n principal por la que te quedas atascado en un callej\u00f3n sin salida.<\/p>\n

Cuanto m\u00e1s excuses su comportamiento, m\u00e1s te dar\u00e1n por sentado.<\/p>\n

Amar a alguien m\u00e1s de lo que te ama es siempre temporal, pero amarse por igual es eterno.<\/p>\n

Es la \u00fanica receta para un amor y una relaci\u00f3n incondicionales y duraderos.<\/p>\n

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Love is a beautiful thing, but simply loving someone doesn\u2019t mean your relationship will be successful. By solely thinking about love, we often forget a second term which is closely connected (if not interconnected) with love. That term is balance! Balance is the magic ingredient that is responsible for establishing a healthy and happy relationship….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":89213,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44474","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/7-Things-That-Happen-When-You-Love-Someone-More-Than-They-Love-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44474","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44474"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44474\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/89213"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44474"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44474"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44474"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}