El chantaje emocional tambi\u00e9n puede darse fuera de una relaci\u00f3n sentimental, aunque no es tan frecuente. <\/span><\/p>\n In this article, I\u2019m going to discuss ways in which men emotionally blackmail their women to get them where they want them.<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s important to note that even though a person may be an emotional blackmailer, that does not necessarily make them the worst person in the world. <\/span><\/p>\n S\u00ed, est\u00e1n equivocados por lo que hacen, pero hay diferentes tipos que var\u00edan en gravedad.<\/span><\/p>\n Some people use this tactic without even being aware. They know you really well so they always know where to \u201chit\u201d. <\/span><\/p>\n They don\u2019t necessarily always mean to cause pain, merely get their desired outcome (in a disturbing way nonetheless!)<\/span><\/p>\n \u00bfCu\u00e1les son los factores que influyen en el chantaje emocional?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n Miedo.<\/span><\/p>\n Fear is an occurrence that happens when you feel threatened and immediately engage \u2018\u2019fight or flight\u2019\u2019 response to help you protect yourself in dangerous situations. <\/span><\/p>\n Even more so, when you feel a loved one is threatened, there is most likely nothing you wouldn\u2019t do for them.<\/span><\/p>\n Fear isn\u2019t always about being in actual physical danger.<\/span><\/p>\n Manipuladores emocionales<\/span><\/a> know how to instil fear in you just enough to make you do whatever they want, even though they wouldn\u2019t actually cause you physical harm. They know fear itself is plenty enough.<\/span><\/p>\n Obligaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n Para sentirnos parte de un grupo o una comunidad, siempre sentimos cierta obligaci\u00f3n hacia quienes nos rodean. Es una necesidad natural de todos ser incluidos y formar parte de algo, as\u00ed que inconscientemente alimentamos esa necesidad, que a veces excede lo que se considera normal.<\/span><\/p>\n A manipulator who knows you well will use this need against you by telling you if the roles were reversed, he\u2019d do that thing for you in a heartbeat. <\/span><\/p>\n He might even threaten to leave you if you decline because he\u2019ll try to make you see how bad that makes you look. <\/span><\/p>\n Y su obligaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l como <\/span>tu pareja<\/span><\/a> se impondr\u00e1 a cualquier sentido com\u00fan.<\/span><\/p>\n Culpabilidad.<\/span><\/p>\n La culpa es una motivaci\u00f3n muy poderosa para hacer pr\u00e1cticamente cualquier cosa. Un hombre que te chantajea emocionalmente utilizar\u00e1 el sentimiento de culpa para sacar lo mejor de ti. <\/span><\/p>\n He\u2019ll make you appear as a bad girlfriend if you don\u2019t indulge him. He will try to guilt-trip you for working a lot or for simply being happy.<\/span><\/p>\n However you turn it, you\u2019re the one who\u2019s being selfish and causing him pain, just by living your life the way you always have. <\/span><\/p>\n If things aren\u2019t his way, he\u2019ll make you pay for it by instilling this horrible sense of guilt that you shouldn\u2019t be feeling. <\/span><\/p>\n And this will make you do stuff for him that deep down you know isn\u2019t okay.<\/span><\/p>\n Let\u2019s not forget that we\u2019re talking about a man who knows you almost as well as you know yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n Sabe c\u00f3mo apretarte las clavijas y c\u00f3mo calmarte. Sabe lo que te causar\u00e1 dolor y lo que te pondr\u00e1 ansioso.<\/span><\/p>\n Y as\u00ed es como sus palabras te afectar\u00e1n profundamente. Te amenazar\u00e1 con marcharse, con no darte afecto o con callarte. <\/span><\/p>\n He knows that it\u2019ll affect you badly because he\u2019s familiar with your emotional states.<\/span><\/p>\n El chantaje emocional puede ser muy da\u00f1ino para una persona porque viene de alguien a quien quieres y que est\u00e1 utilizando tu vulnerabilidad y tu debilidad para conseguir algo de ti.<\/span><\/p>\n Un chantajista emocional experimentado sabr\u00e1 que esto te har\u00e1 sufrir como ninguna otra cosa. <\/span><\/p>\n The thought of hurting himself because of something you supposedly did will haunt you forever. And he\u2019ll use it for as long as you keep falling for it.<\/span><\/p>\n \u00c9ste incluye tanto la culpa como el miedo. Culpa por ser quien le causa dolor y miedo a alguien. <\/span>que amas<\/span><\/a> ser perjudicado. <\/span><\/p>\n So the next time you tell him you want to leave or something similarly serious, he\u2019ll use this against you.<\/span><\/p>\n You\u2019ll be the one culpable for his downfall and since he knows that\u2019s not something you can live with, he\u2019s sure you\u2019ll never really leave.<\/span><\/p>\n Este tipo har\u00e1 que todo lo malo que pase sea culpa tuya. <\/span><\/p>\n You didn\u2019t allow him to take your credit card and get a new suit for his job interview? Now it\u2019s your fault he\u2019s out of a job (utter BS).<\/span><\/p>\n O puede simplemente sugerirte que, a menos que hagas algo, \u00e9l sufrir\u00e1 las consecuencias. <\/span><\/p>\n Har\u00e1 que todo sea diez veces m\u00e1s grave y dram\u00e1tico de lo que realmente es con el fin de hacerte sentir culpable al m\u00e1ximo.<\/span><\/p>\n The worst part is that if you don\u2019t do it, he\u2019ll imply you don\u2019t really love him. Because if you did, there\u2019s nothing you\u2019d ever say no to, right? NOT.<\/span><\/p>\n This is the least severe method. With this, he isn\u2019t actually doing you as much emotional harm as with the previous three methods. <\/span><\/p>\n De esta manera te seducir\u00e1 decir s\u00ed a algo<\/a> prometi\u00e9ndote algo a cambio que, o bien no es un trato justo, o bien no va a suceder en absoluto.<\/span><\/p>\n![\"Mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_635030279.jpg\")
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<\/p>\n1. Castig\u00e1ndote<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Amenazando con hacerse da\u00f1o<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Haci\u00e9ndote sentir culpable<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. <\/span>Prometi\u00e9ndote algo exagerado<\/span><\/h2>\n
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