{"id":44566,"date":"2020-10-08T14:18:48","date_gmt":"2020-10-08T14:18:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44566"},"modified":"2022-01-30T21:17:04","modified_gmt":"2022-01-30T21:17:04","slug":"una-vez-que-deje-de-perseguirlo-vino-a-por-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-vez-que-deje-de-perseguirlo-vino-a-por-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuando dej\u00e9 de perseguirle, vino a por m\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfQu\u00e9 demonios ha pasado? Me parec\u00eda que un d\u00eda lo pas\u00e1bamos genial y al siguiente estaba perdido y asustado. Dec\u00eda que todo iba demasiado r\u00e1pido y que era abrumador.<\/p>\n

Dijo que se sent\u00eda perdido. Hab\u00eda perdido la noci\u00f3n de qui\u00e9n era y de lo que quer\u00eda. As\u00ed que me pregunt\u00f3 si pod\u00eda darle tiempo para averiguar qu\u00e9 era eso.<\/p>\n

I said I would give him all the time he needed but everything inside of me screamed NO.  I didn\u2019t want us to be apart. <\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t need any time. I knew what I wanted, he was what I wanted and I had absolutely no doubt about it. But what was I supposed to do?  <\/b>\u00bfObligarle a quedarse? Esa no era una opci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

Habr\u00eda hecho cualquier cosa por \u00e9l, habr\u00eda movido monta\u00f1as para hacerle feliz, habr\u00eda estado dispuesta a hacer concesiones, pero lo \u00fanico que nunca har\u00eda ser\u00eda rogarle que se quedara si \u00e9l quer\u00eda irse. <\/p>\n

Y aunque sus deseos me rompieron el coraz\u00f3n, no tuve m\u00e1s remedio que conced\u00e9rselos.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t physically stop him, I couldn\u2019t run after him, shouting how great I was, how good we had it together, about how many more amazing things lay ahead. <\/b>I couldn\u2019t because it made no sense; he was supposed to know that already.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And if he wasn\u2019t feeling the same way as I did, what option did I have but to let him be and hope deep down that my absence would really make his heart grow fonder. I hoped. But somehow I prepared myself for the worst.<\/p>\n

Intent\u00e9 ser racional con todo el dolor que me recorr\u00eda. <\/b>Sab\u00eda que las cosas pod\u00edan salir de cualquier manera, que \u00e9l podr\u00eda no volver nunca y que yo podr\u00eda perderlo para siempre.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda luchar por nosotros. Quer\u00eda llamarle. Quer\u00eda enviarle un mensaje de texto. Quer\u00eda ir a llamar a su puerta en mitad de la noche y gritarle por ser tan est\u00fapido y desalmado de dejarme ir. <\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que me abrazara, me besara, me calmara y me dijera que no se iba a ir a ninguna parte, que estaba aqu\u00ed para quedarse. Quer\u00eda hacerlo m\u00e1s que nada, pero decid\u00ed ser m\u00e1s fuerte que yo mismo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Record\u00e9 todos los ejemplos de la vida real de mis amigos que hab\u00edan estado en situaciones similares. Persegu\u00edan a sus parejas como si no hubiera nada m\u00e1s en la vida. Enviaban mensajes de texto.<\/p>\n

Enviaron mensajes de texto incluso cuando fueron ignorados. Llamaron hasta que no vieron m\u00e1s sentido o hasta que les cabrearon.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Hicieron b\u00e1sicamente todo lo que se les ocurri\u00f3 para mantenerlos en su vida un poco m\u00e1s, pero eso los distanci\u00f3 a\u00fan m\u00e1s y ya no hab\u00eda vuelta atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Pens\u00e9 que, eligiera el camino que eligiera, corr\u00eda el mismo riesgo de perderlo. <\/b>\u00bfMe echar\u00eda de menos si le dejara solo?<\/a> \u00bfSe dar\u00eda cuenta de que me amaba?<\/p>\n

I really couldn\u2019t answer that. But I chose that path. I chose to respect his wishes and see what happened.<\/p>\n

I felt that if nothing else, I would at least have my dignity if things didn\u2019t work out the way I wished. I decided to behave like we had broken up and that there was nothing I could really do.<\/p>\n

I was so sad that words can\u2019t describe it but I knew there was no other way. I had to grieve for my lost love. I had to put my life back on track and see who I was without him, who I was when he was missing from my life.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que hice exactamente eso. <\/b>Empec\u00e9 a reconstruirme<\/b><\/a>mi vida, mis sue\u00f1os.  <\/b>Claro que no fue nada f\u00e1cil. Tuve mis altibajos.<\/p>\n

Hab\u00eda d\u00edas en los que me quedaba en la cama, completamente despierta, sin poder quit\u00e1rmelo de la cabeza. Hab\u00eda d\u00edas en los que me quedaba dormida en cuanto mi cabeza tocaba la almohada.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I had days when I was unable to move. I had days when I conquered the world. But that\u2019s all part of the process that is life.<\/p>\n

Una vez que por fin hab\u00eda pasado p\u00e1gina y dej\u00f3 de perseguirlo<\/a>, once I had made peace that we were a part of the past, a shocking thing happened\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n

Empez\u00f3 a perseguirme<\/a>. <\/b>He realized that he had just been freaking out. That he had just got scared. But at that point, I was the one who didn\u2019t know what to say.<\/p>\n

I was the one whose heart had been broken into millions of tiny pieces. I was the one who\u2019d had to glue all those pieces back together. I was also the one who still loved him with every broken piece.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why after some time of him being persistent and fighting to get me back, I gave him one more chance. To this day, I haven\u2019t regretted it and I hope I never will.<\/p>\n

\"Cuando<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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