{"id":44678,"date":"2019-10-09T14:26:23","date_gmt":"2019-10-09T14:26:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44678"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:13:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:13:49","slug":"es-usted-el-objetivo-de-un-sociopata-10-formas-de-averiguarlo-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-usted-el-objetivo-de-un-sociopata-10-formas-de-averiguarlo-2\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfEs usted el objetivo de un soci\u00f3pata? 10 maneras de averiguarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Normalmente, cuando pienso en un soci\u00f3pata, mi mente se dirige inmediatamente a pel\u00edculas de terror y programas de televisi\u00f3n sobre asesinos en serie. <\/span><\/p>\n

But the frightening truth is, you\u2019ve probably encountered a sociopath more than once, without even being aware of it. Freaky, huh?<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s a scary thought thinking that your next-door neighbor could be a sociopath in disguise or that <\/span>tu ex-novio<\/span><\/a> podr\u00eda muy bien tener graves tendencias soci\u00f3patas y que t\u00fa NO ten\u00edas ni idea durante todo el tiempo que estuvisteis juntos.<\/span><\/p>\n

But it\u2019s perfectly plausible. Sociopaths learn to blend in and go about their lives unnoticed for the most part. <\/span><\/p>\n

Su encanto es lo que les ayuda a enga\u00f1arte tan bien y eso es lo que realmente me asusta personalmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you think you may have been involved with a sociopath? Or do you perhaps feel like you\u2019re being pursued (romantically) by one right now but are too scared to actually believe it?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

If your gut feeling is trying to tell you something, my advice is to listen to it. Don\u2019t wait until it\u2019s <\/span><\/i>demasiado tarde<\/span><\/i><\/a>! <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Your gut feeling is there for a reason and I\u2019m sure it hasn\u2019t failed you so far.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed tienes 10 se\u00f1ales de que puedes ser el blanco de un soci\u00f3pata. No debes ignorarlas de ninguna manera. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lee atentamente y haz lo mejor para ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Es capaz de cautivar al p\u00fablico m\u00e1s duro<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Escribiendo<\/p>\n

Los soci\u00f3patas saben utilizar la adulaci\u00f3n para halagar a la gente a su mayor placer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sabe encontrar el equilibrio perfecto para no exagerar y presionar lo justo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve noticed him charm the pants off the most difficult people to impress. And not many can do that. <\/span><\/p>\n

And this is what\u2019s making you wonder if there\u2019s more to the story than what he\u2019s letting on. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, ten cuidado; el encanto s\u00f3lo es indicativo de un soci\u00f3pata, no es algo seguro. Hay m\u00e1s signos en los que fijarse.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Deja de lado tus sentimientos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Problemas<\/p>\n

Sociopaths don\u2019t care about anyone\u2019s feelings because they lack empathy. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you express your dissatisfaction with a situation or inform him that he\u2019s causing you sadness, he\u2019s going to disregard it.<\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care and he most probably won\u2019t try to hide it, unless he\u2019s using it as leverage. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if you keep pushing him to feel something, he\u2019s going to put all the blame on you for trying to make him appear a certain way.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Sometimes you get the feeling he doesn\u2019t even believe the shit he\u2019s saying<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

The things he\u2019ll tell you and promise you will seem so implausible that you\u2019ll get the feeling he knows it as he\u2019s saying it but he just keeps going at it. <\/span><\/p>\n

He can lie his ass off, and while he\u2019s convincing for the most part, sometimes you just know he\u2019s not buying his own shit.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Mentir est\u00e1 en su naturaleza<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

Ser un mentiroso viene como parte del paquete con un soci\u00f3pata. <\/span><\/p>\n

It can be anything from those little white lies you wouldn\u2019t think twice about to those severe, problematic lies about relevant things.<\/span><\/p>\n

Le pillaste en una mentira muchas veces, pero siempre ten\u00eda la excusa perfecta con la que te tragabas todo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero ahora que lo piensas, \u00bfqui\u00e9n miente tanto y <\/span>se sale con la suya<\/span><\/a> cada vez con tanta facilidad?<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Nunca puedes estar enfadada con \u00e9l<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Disfrutando<\/p>\n

Y esto se debe a su pericia manipuladora. Siempre sabe qu\u00e9 decir para tranquilizarte, para que pienses que has exagerado o para que le des otra oportunidad. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019s perfect at that. And even though you\u2019re aware of it, you just fall for it every time. Staying mad at him is almost impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. He\u2019s ALWAYS there (you can\u2019t escape him)<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t go anywhere without him. He\u2019s somehow always there. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quiere acompa\u00f1arte all\u00e1 donde vayas con la excusa de no poder saciarse de ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

But it\u2019s become a bit creepy. You can\u2019t shake the feeling he\u2019s somehow observing you, studying you and controlling you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You want to be able to go somewhere (anywhere!) without him but you can\u2019t and this is causing you major anxiety and fear.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. He\u2019s flaky and you can\u2019t count on him<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

Casi nunca hace lo que promete. Casi nunca viene cuando te asegura que lo har\u00e1. <\/span><\/p>\n

There is always a prior engagement he couldn\u2019t say no to. There is always something at work that he just can\u2019t escape.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero la verdad es, <\/span>he just doesn\u2019t care enough<\/span><\/a> para estar a tu lado. <\/span><\/p>\n

He needs you to be there by his side but when it comes to you, he\u2019ll always make excuses and do as he pleases.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. He\u2019s always in-between jobs<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

This man can\u2019t hold on to a job to save his life. Sociopaths are most often unemployed due to getting fired because of their temper. <\/span><\/p>\n

He can blow up very easily and he doesn\u2019t know how to control himself when that happens.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sociopaths want everything their way or no way and they don\u2019t respond well to criticism. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por eso nunca duran en un trabajo m\u00e1s de unas pocas semanas. El hecho de que estallen con tanta facilidad les hace imposible trabajar a las \u00f3rdenes de nadie.<\/span><\/p>\n

9. You\u2019re always the one to blame<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Marido<\/p>\n

Whatever he messes up, he\u2019ll find a way to pin it on you. If he has trouble with his attitude (which he does), he\u2019ll make you guilty for putting him in that situation. <\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever you get yelled at, you\u2019ll have had it coming because you\u2019re a bad partner and making him behave this way, when in fact it\u2019s in his nature, as is his need to assign blame.<\/span><\/p>\n

10. Se siente con derecho a lo que es suyo<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Fue<\/p>\n

Sociopaths don\u2019t care about what\u2019s his and what\u2019s yours. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he\u2019s dating you or courting you, he feels entitled to your money and possessions. And he\u2019ll have no problem letting you know.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll ask to take your credit card or expect you to pick up the check at a restaurant. <\/span><\/p>\n

He won\u2019t feel obliged to partake in any expenses and this is the final sign that you are in fact dealing with a legit sociopath.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\u00bfEs<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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