{"id":44705,"date":"2020-05-09T20:44:24","date_gmt":"2020-05-09T20:44:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44705"},"modified":"2022-09-02T09:01:50","modified_gmt":"2022-09-02T09:01:50","slug":"por-que-mi-ex-me-ignora-6-maneras-de-hacer-que-vuelva-a-fijarse-en-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-mi-ex-me-ignora-6-maneras-de-hacer-que-vuelva-a-fijarse-en-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me ignora mi ex? 6 maneras de hacer que vuelva a fijarse en ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know this won’t make you feel a whole lot better right now, but the reasons why tu ex novio <\/a>is ignoring you could very well be the things that you’re doing completely inadvertently!<\/p>\n

Perm\u00edtanme que me explaye. First, it’s important to note that sometimes it’s honestly not you<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Guys have this peculiar brain that only the male species can truly comprehend at times and therefore, you shouldn’t be taking it personally at all.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo Dios sabe las cosas extra\u00f1as que se les pasan por la cabeza y por qu\u00e9 deciden comportarse a veces de una manera tan perversa.<\/p>\n

But we’re not here to delve into that, because that\u2019s a topic only a true professional can psycho-analyze (if you catch my drift).<\/p>\n

What I’m here to do is discuss things that you can actually control and change.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cosas que afectan a la <\/b>posibles razones<\/b> por qu\u00e9 tu ex puede estar ignor\u00e1ndote, c\u00f3mo puedes conseguir que hable contigo <\/b>cara a cara<\/b> y, en \u00faltima instancia, obtener su <\/b>novio de vuelta<\/b>!<\/b><\/p>\n

Recuperar a un ex no es una misi\u00f3n tan dif\u00edcil si juegas bien tus cartas.<\/p>\n

A trav\u00e9s de mensajes de texto, redes sociales<\/a>y un uso inteligente de la regla de no contacto, puedes cambiar completamente las tornas y evitar los malvados juegos mentales en tu camino para conseguir que deje de ignorarte.<\/p>\n

Once you’ve thoroughly read this article, you’ll have a very different outlook on his behavior and what exactly brought you two here.<\/p>\n

Perhaps, you’ll finally stop being ”the ex girlfriend” and climb your way back to his mind and heart.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, in order to get a clear perspective on things, guys simply need some time and space to figure out the real reasons behind this possibly big mistake they’re making.<\/p>\n

Claro, usted tambi\u00e9n ha contribuido a esta ruptura, pero como individuos, ambos podr\u00edan utilizar este tiempo sabiamente como una manera de hacer un examen de conciencia y darse cuenta de lo que ambos realmente quieren.<\/p>\n

Los errores m\u00e1s comunes tras la ruptura<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esta es la parte crucial. Despu\u00e9s de la ruptura<\/a>, it’s important NOT to do any of the following activities that I’m about to list here.<\/p>\n

All of these will make you seem desperate, needy, and clingy, and I know that’s the last thing you want to have happen.<\/p>\n

Los chicos pueden sentir estas cosas a kil\u00f3metros y kil\u00f3metros de distancia.<\/p>\n

They know when you’ve reached your breaking point and will do pretty much anything to get their attention.<\/p>\n

And they’re not fans of it! Never let your ex-partner see the effect this breakup has had on you.<\/p>\n

La primera vez que sepas de \u00e9l despu\u00e9s de la ruptura puede ser decisiva, as\u00ed que hazlo con clase (pero con descaro) y deja las llamadas desesperadas para m\u00e1s tarde, cuando tu cabeza est\u00e9 en un lugar mejor.<\/p>\n

These are the most common reasons guys don’t want to give you una segunda oportunidad<\/a> despu\u00e9s de tomarte un descanso porque pintan una imagen inquietantemente equivocada de ti.<\/p>\n

Cuidado con esto:<\/p>\n

1. Excederse con los mensajes de texto<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The relationship is over (for now). He doesn’t want to be with you right now, and you need to respect it and learn to accept it as your new reality.<\/p>\n

Don’t overdo it with the texting! Don’t keep bothering him and proving to him that he was right to break up with you.<\/p>\n

Show him you’re mature enough to accept this and once you’ve gathered your thoughts, you can work out a plan on how to tr\u00e1elo de vuelta<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Pero enviarle demasiados mensajes, demasiado pronto, va a conseguir el efecto contrario.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 querr\u00edas enviarle mensajes a un ex novio? Respeta lo que quiere tu ex y dale un respiro a tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

No tener contacto despu\u00e9s de la ruptura es la mejor manera de sanar y, finalmente, estar listo para enfrentarse a \u00e9l de nuevo.<\/p>\n

2. Declarar excesivamente tu amor<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cari\u00f1o, s\u00e9 que es un asco y entiendo cu\u00e1nto duele, y te lo digo desde el lugar m\u00e1s genuino de mi coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Gritar tu amor a los cuatro vientos una vez terminada la relaci\u00f3n es la forma m\u00e1s contraproducente de recuperar a tu ex.<\/p>\n

If your ex says he needs enough time, please don’t make it harder on both of you.<\/p>\n

Incluso si todav\u00eda siente algo por ti, esto s\u00f3lo va a hacer que la decisi\u00f3n sea mucho m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Puede que sea una persona nueva en tu vida y si sigues asfixi\u00e1ndole con tu amor, bien podr\u00eda ser la \u00faltima vez.<\/p>\n

This is real life; it’s not a movie. He isn\u2019t magically going to change his mind if you keep being persistent. <\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantese lo siguiente: Qu\u00e9 <\/i>hago hago<\/i> si realmente quiero que <\/i>\u00e1mame<\/i>? <\/i><\/p>\n

\u00bfSigo empuj\u00e1ndole al l\u00edmite con mi persistencia, o le doy <\/i>tiempo suficiente<\/i> \u00bfy rezar para que al final me elija a m\u00ed?<\/i><\/p>\n

<\/i>And I believe you’ll know what to do.<\/p>\n

3. Hablar mal de \u00e9l con tus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En general, criticar a la gente es lo que menos me gusta. Creo que el karma arreglar\u00e1 esa mierda (con el tiempo).<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s sencillo que puedes hacer es guardarte para ti los malos pensamientos.<\/p>\n

Why? Because during your moments of anger and bitterness, you\u2019re extremely likely to share things that you know you shouldn’t and probably over-exaggerate. One day, you will come to regret this, but then it will llegar demasiado tarde<\/a>.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que lo mejor es no hablar mal de \u00e9l con nadie porque ser\u00e1 cuesti\u00f3n de tiempo que se entere.<\/p>\n

Y una vez que eso ocurra, puedes despedirte de tu reconciliaci\u00f3n. La gente comete errores, y eso os incluye tanto a ti como a tu ex.<\/p>\n

Mantened vuestros problemas personales en privado y solucionadlo entre vosotros.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me ignora mi amigo? 20 razones y soluciones<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

6 maneras de conseguir que tu ex deje de ignorarte<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Now that we’ve covered the basic mistakes girls tend to to after the breakup, you’re ready to actually start doing something about it.<\/p>\n

When your ex ignores you, the smartest thing to do is to lay low for a while, until you’ve figured out what you want and the best way to get it. The point of this is for him to see you as a new person.<\/p>\n

Una mujer dispuesta y preparada para trabajar en sus problemas y respetar la santidad de una relaci\u00f3n. Una mujer por la que merezca la pena luchar.<\/p>\n

And when he sees you the next day (and all the following casual run-ins that will likely occur), he needs to see that breaking up with you was the biggest mistake he’s ever made. In other words, you need to haz que se arrepienta de haberte perdido<\/a>. <\/p>\n

Y seguir las 6 reglas siguientes es la forma exacta de conseguirlo.<\/p>\n

1. Respeta sus l\u00edmites<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si dice que necesita espacio y tiempo para resolver las cosas, d\u00e1selo.<\/p>\n

If he shares with you a painful reason for his sudden pulling away, try to put yourself in his shoes, and understand where he’s coming from.<\/p>\n

Try to flip the situation. Let’s say you were the one who initiated the breakup.<\/p>\n

Eras t\u00fa quien ten\u00eda que recomponerse y encontrar una salida a tu dif\u00edcil situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe parecer\u00eda bien que tu ex pareja te acosara a preguntas?<\/p>\n

\u00bfLe har\u00eda parecerle m\u00e1s atractivo o quiz\u00e1s se sentir\u00eda m\u00e1s distante de \u00e9l que nunca?<\/p>\n

I think you get the gist! Prove to him you’re an understanding ex girlfriend, and don’t pry!<\/p>\n

Respect his wishes and give him his much needed time. If it’s destinado a ser<\/a> between you two, eventually it’s going to happen \u2013 don’t rush it.<\/p>\n

2. Explora tu nueva independencia<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En mi opini\u00f3n, la cualidad m\u00e1s atractiva que puede tener una persona es la capacidad de encontrar al menos una pizca de bien en cada situaci\u00f3n de mierda.<\/p>\n

It’s no easy task, but if you’re adamant, you’re going to succeed! And right now, you get to explore the lengths of your newfound independence!<\/p>\n

Puedes hacer lo que quieras y con quien quieras.<\/p>\n

Go out to that new club you’ve been DYING to go to (but never did because it’s mostly for singles) and dance the night away with hot strangers.<\/p>\n

Sleep in on the weekends knowing you’ve got nobody to see now, therefore no reason to annoy yourself with setting the alarm!<\/p>\n

Take a trip by yourself. Find new hobbies. Explore the parts of yourself that you’ve been neglecting for months!<\/p>\n

Once you understand how enriching and profound this can be, you’re going to thrive in your independence and learn to appreciate life more than ever!<\/p>\n

And once your ex sees you living your best life with NO regrets, he’s going to want to reconnect with you! And it’s completely up to you how you handle it from then on.<\/p>\n

3. Disfruta de tiempo de calidad con tus amigos comunes<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Es una forma segura de llamar su atenci\u00f3n y no parecer desesperado.<\/p>\n

If you’ve got friends in common, that’s the perfect opportunity to subtly let him know how easy, breezy, and chill you are!<\/p>\n

Mu\u00e9strale que solt\u00f3 una captura total<\/a> pas\u00e1ndolo LO MEJOR posible con tus amigos, \u00a1y aseg\u00farate de sacar alguna que otra foto!<\/p>\n

They are for sure going to talk to him eventually and you can bet your ass he’s going to ask about you.<\/p>\n

And all they’ll have to say is that you’ve been absolutely thriving and they’re enjoying this new, awesome girl you’ve become since the breakup. He will then have two options.<\/p>\n

Either to keep playing it cool and pretend that he doesn’t care, OR he’ll actually admit to himself what an ass he was for letting you go and shoot you a text, asking you to meet up.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo aseg\u00farate de estar tan despreocupado y relajado como siempre una vez que eso ocurra.<\/p>\n

You want him to notice you at your best! And then \u2013 the ball is in his court.<\/p>\n

And I just hope he’s smart enough not to let you go twice.<\/p>\n

4. ”Accidentally” run into him<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This is the guy you’ve been dating for a while, right? So you pretty much know him to his core.<\/p>\n

Therefore, running into him ”by accident” should be a piece of cake! You pretty much know everything there is to know about him, and it’s almost too easy.<\/p>\n

Sabes d\u00f3nde sale y d\u00f3nde va a por comida. Tal vez podr\u00edas dar un paseo por el barrio cuando sepas que suele ir por all\u00ed y, por supuesto, \u00a1con tu mejor aspecto!<\/p>\n

If you know where he’s going to be the following weekend (courtesy of mutual friends) go get your girls and make a night of it!<\/p>\n

Deja que te vea completamente feliz, sin preocupaciones y de muy buen humor.<\/p>\n

Haz como si te hubieras olvidado por completo de que \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n va a ese sitio y empieza a hablar con total despreocupaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Se trata de que tenga la oportunidad de verte y hablar contigo en un ambiente sin estr\u00e9s y cuando haya pasado el tiempo suficiente.<\/p>\n

That way, he’ll have had time to figure his shit out and seeing you could resolve all of his doubts!<\/p>\n

5. Empezar a ver a un chico nuevo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Of course, this shouldn’t be anything serious and meaningful. Just a cute guy to spend some time with and get your fix when you’re in need.<\/p>\n

After all, you’re only human. But the trick here is to get your ex to somehow find out in order to gauge his reaction.<\/p>\n

See, when a guy lets you go, he doesn’t really know what he just gave up until he sees you in the company of another man.<\/p>\n

Pues dale esa oportunidad. Da a conocer tu peque\u00f1a aventura, pero nunca seas demasiado llamativo. <\/p>\n

Puede que le parezca bien, pero lo m\u00e1s probable es que se ponga celoso y empiece a cuestionarse su decisi\u00f3n de ignorarte.<\/p>\n

One thing is for sure, though: you’ll have his attention, and that’s a great start.<\/p>\n

6. Utiliza las redes sociales en tu beneficio<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

Since you two are currently not together, he doesn’t really have an insight into your life anymore.<\/p>\n

And in the beginning that’s totally okay, for the sake of both of you healing.<\/p>\n

But after a while, you’ll both be wondering what the other one is up to. And therein comes social media!<\/p>\n

If you want him to know where you are and what exciting thing you’re doing today, be sly about it and post a cute pic with a location of course on Instagram, or tweet about that new place you just went to that’s absolutely bananas.<\/p>\n

That’s the easiest way for him to see what you’ve been up to and casually run into you \u2013 if he wants to, of course.<\/p>\n

But even if he doesn’t, at least he’ll know you’re still enjoying your life and that you’ve been doing fantastic after the breakup!<\/p>\n

Ver tu cara con regularidad podr\u00eda hacer que empiece ech\u00e1ndote de menos<\/a> \u00a1y eso podr\u00eda llevarle a mandarte un mensaje!<\/p>\n

You never know what might happen, so never count anything out. Use the tools you have to get your ex to stop ignoring you and you’ll know you did your best! Either way, you’ll be just fine, trust me.<\/p>\n

You’ve survived worse things, and you’ll certainly get through this, no matter the outcome!<\/p>\n

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