{"id":44748,"date":"2019-10-10T17:51:34","date_gmt":"2019-10-10T17:51:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44748"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:11:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:11:12","slug":"esta-vez-tus-disculpas-simplemente-no-son-suficientes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esta-vez-tus-disculpas-simplemente-no-son-suficientes\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta vez tus disculpas no bastan"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ya hemos pasado por esto antes. Me rompes, desapareces de mi vida, me haces sentir que no valgo nada.<\/p>\n<p>Luego vuelves otra vez con tus falsas palabras de disculpa, y te retiro como si no hubiera pasado nada.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Esta vez no.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t apologize for the same thing over and over again. It\u2019s pointless. That apology has no value.<\/p>\n<p>If you were genuinely sorry for something, you would never repeat the same mistake again. You wouldn\u2019t hurt me again and again.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44751\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11830941791.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11830941791.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11830941791-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11830941791-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know you think I will forgive you. Why wouldn\u2019t you think that\u2014I did it so many times before? But you are wrong this time, and I\u2019m going to prove it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There comes a point in every woman\u2019s life when enough is enough. When she can\u2019t handle any more bs. A point in which she realizes that it doesn\u2019t matter how much she loves a man, she has to love herself more.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I do love myself enough not to stay with someone who double-crossed me so many times, who promised me the stars and gave me the dust. I am not falling for your sob stories anymore. I am done with being understanding about your needs, your \u201cbusy schedules\u201d and your painful history.<\/p>\n<p>Take a look around. Each and every one of us has their cross to bear and that doesn\u2019t give us an excuse to treat someone like crap.<\/p>\n<p>So enough with your excuses, I\u2019m sick of hearing them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019ll be stronger than myself this time. I will be stronger than my feelings, than my loneliness because I was so lonely in this whole drama with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44752\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4428868061.jpg\" alt=\"el hombre se arrepiente de lo que hizo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4428868061.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4428868061-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4428868061-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Merezco m\u00e1s que esto, merezco a alguien que no tenga nada importante por lo que disculparse.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Merezco problemas de pareja normales, no tragedias \u00e9picas como las que me hiciste pasar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I deserve someone who won\u2019t look at my heart as a stop along the way from which point he can drop by, make a mess, and leave. I deserve to be someone&#8217;s destination.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Can you get that a simple \u201cI\u2019m sorry\u201d can\u2019t erase everything you put me through?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It can\u2019t take back all those sleepless nights I spent crying and thinking about what I did to deserve your poor treatment. There is nothing you can do to undo the damage you caused.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44753\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5775318521.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rechaza a su novio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5775318521.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5775318521-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5775318521-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know you might not agree with me. I know you always think you didn\u2019t screw up that badly. I know you diminish your mistakes. I know you blame half of it on me. I know you want another chance.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u00bfOtra oportunidad para lo que te pido?<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em>\u00bfHacerme lo mismo otra vez? No, gracias.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Perdiste todas tus oportunidades conmigo. Si lo sintieras de verdad, lo habr\u00edamos resuelto todo con tu primera disculpa hace mucho tiempo. Todo lo que necesitabas hacer era poner tus palabras en acci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>But you didn\u2019t. You just broke me again, and it was worse than the last time.<\/p>\n<p>Your sorry wasn\u2019t honest the first time, and it will never be. That\u2019s why I accept your apology, but I don\u2019t accept you in my life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-44755\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings19-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Esta vez tus disculpas no bastan \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings19-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings19-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings19-1.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019ve been down this road before. You break me, disappear from my life, make me feel like I was worth nothing. Then you come back again with your fake words of apology, and I take you back as nothing happened. Not this time. You can\u2019t apologize for the same thing over and over again. It\u2019s&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":44749,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44748","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_10697247261.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44748","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44748"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44748\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44749"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44748"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44748"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44748"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}