{"id":44846,"date":"2019-10-11T12:55:50","date_gmt":"2019-10-11T12:55:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44846"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:08:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:08:02","slug":"el-fin-de-tu-relacion-no-es-el-fin-de-tu-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-fin-de-tu-relacion-no-es-el-fin-de-tu-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"El final de tu relaci\u00f3n no es el final de tu vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una de las peores cosas que puedes hacerte a ti mismo es dejar de existir como individuo, una vez que pasas a formar parte de una pareja.<\/b><\/p>\n

Es dejar que tu relaci\u00f3n sentimental se convierta en tu \u00fanica preocupaci\u00f3n, en lo \u00fanico que causa tu felicidad o tu tristeza y en lo \u00fanico que te define.<\/span><\/p>\n

Una de las peores cosas que una mujer puede hacerse a s\u00ed misma es dejar de ser mujer una vez que se convierte en novia. <\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s to stop being a daughter, a friend, a career woman and anything else besides a romantic partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando esto sucede y cuando tu relaci\u00f3n se convierte en el centro de tu mundo, no consigues ver todas las cosas bellas que siguen existiendo fuera de ella. <\/span><\/p>\n

You disregard yourself and your life completely for the sake of this relationship\u2019s success.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong<\/span>\u2014<\/span>I\u2019m not saying that trying to make your romance work is a bad thing.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not advising you not to put any effort into your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m just begging you not to allow it to be the only thing that makes you feel alive and the only thing that gives your existence a reason. <\/span><\/p>\n

Porque si lo haces, una vez que tu relaci\u00f3n llega a su fin, lo ves tambi\u00e9n como el final de tu vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eso es exactamente lo que te ocurri\u00f3 tras tu \u00faltima ruptura. <\/b><\/p>\n

And that is exactly why you\u2019re having such a hard time recovering.<\/b><\/p>\n

For you, this was more than just a simple heartbreak. It was a disaster; your life lost all of its meaning and you don\u2019t know how to keep going by yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

De repente, te sientes perdido sin nadie que te gu\u00ede.<\/span><\/p>\n

You feel like you don\u2019t know how to live without your loved one and as if you have to learn to become yourself all over again.<\/span><\/p>\n

En lugar de ver este acontecimiento como una oportunidad para pasar una nueva p\u00e1gina de tu vida, lo ves como un fracaso. <\/span><\/p>\n

En lugar de verlo como un nuevo punto de partida, lo ves como lo peor que podr\u00eda pasarte.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

En lugar de verlo como una bendici\u00f3n, lo ves como una maldici\u00f3n. En lugar de verlo como un nuevo comienzo, lo ves como el final.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y ese es su mayor error. <\/span>Porque realmente hay un nuevo comienzo, despu\u00e9s de cada final.<\/b><\/p>\n

Puede que ahora no lo veas, pero cr\u00e9eme<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you\u2019re not <\/span>roto<\/span><\/a> irreparable. Puedes arreglarte y lo har\u00e1s, y este no es tu final.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever your ex did, he didn\u2019t destroy you<\/span>\u2014<\/span>s\u00f3lo quiere que pienses as\u00ed. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quiere que te rindas y eso es lo \u00faltimo que nunca deber\u00edas pensar en hacer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por favor, cr\u00e9ame que <\/span>pase lo que pase, siempre hay una oportunidad para un nuevo cap\u00edtulo o incluso un libro completamente nuevo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Siempre hay una oportunidad de tomar las riendas y empezar de nuevo.<\/span><\/p>\n

A chance to become the person you\u2019ve always wanted to become.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

La oportunidad de hacer todo aquello para lo que nunca has tenido tiempo y de concentrar toda tu energ\u00eda en ti mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siempre es una oportunidad para empezar a hacerte feliz a ti mismo, sin depender de que otro lo haga por ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

No matter how old you are, how emotionally crushed you are or how much time you wasted on someone, it\u2019s never too late to rebuild and reinvent yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not too late to rise from your painful past and to leave it behind you.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not too late to hope that there exists a light at the end of every tunnel, despite the darkness that is surrounding you right now. <\/span><\/p>\n

Creer que tu felicidad llegar\u00e1 por el camino y tener fe en que la vida resultar\u00e1 como t\u00fa quieres.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s never too late to expect better things and people to come, never too late to love someone new again or to finally start loving yourself. <\/b><\/p>\n

Porque, \u00bfadivina qu\u00e9? El fin de tu relaci\u00f3n no es el fin del mundo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Recuerda: pase lo que pase hoy, ma\u00f1ana siempre es un <\/span>nuevo d\u00eda<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

And it\u2019s your job to make the best of it!<\/span><\/p>\n

\"El<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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