{"id":44903,"date":"2019-10-14T11:57:31","date_gmt":"2019-10-14T11:57:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44903"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:17:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:17:59","slug":"estoy-soltera-porque-quiero-5-cosas-que-solo-un-hombre-de-verdad-puede-dar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estoy-soltera-porque-quiero-5-cosas-que-solo-un-hombre-de-verdad-puede-dar\/","title":{"rendered":"Estoy soltera porque quiero 5 cosas que s\u00f3lo un hombre de verdad puede dar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Despu\u00e9s de haber salido con tantas causas perdidas, realmente empec\u00e9 a creer que hab\u00eda algo realmente mal en m\u00ed. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfEra mi aspecto, mi forma de hablar o mi extra\u00f1o sentido del humor?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo puede una persona tener tan mala suerte cuando se trata de hombres? <\/span><\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que ten\u00edan en com\u00fan todos esos fracasados no era otro que yo. Esa fue la conclusi\u00f3n a la que llegu\u00e9 tras mi \u00faltima relaci\u00f3n de mierda.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y ahora puedo decir sinceramente que ya no me culpo a m\u00ed mismo. <\/span><\/p>\n

I <\/span>aguantar <\/span><\/a>much less than I should have because I didn\u2019t believe that one man could fulfill all of my (perfectly reasonable) needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

But you know what? Just any man can\u2019t. But <\/span>un hombre de verdad<\/span><\/a> \u00a1Puedo!<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

And as rare of a species as they seem these days, I\u2019m sure that somewhere there\u2019s a man who won\u2019t find my needs and wants too much to ask for.<\/span><\/p>\n

A man who will happily provide me with everything I need (emotionally) and not complain that I\u2019m being overbearing.<\/span><\/p>\n

A man who won\u2019t run away when it gets hard and who will be there in person<\/span>\u2014<\/span>no s\u00f3lo por texto. Hasta ahora<\/span>\u2014<\/span>no ha habido suerte. <\/span><\/p>\n

And this is why I choose to be single. And I\u2019m totally okay with that.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need a man who\u2019ll only make me half happy. I don\u2019t need a man who needs ME to take care of him. <\/span><\/p>\n

In a relationship, it goes both ways and I\u2019m done taking on the mother role to immature boys who can\u2019t take care of themselves, let alone a woman.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hasta que encuentre a un hombre que pueda proporcionarme estas 5 cosas que toda mujer deber\u00eda tener de su pareja, elijo permanecer felizmente soltera.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Quiero un hombre que crea en la comunicaci\u00f3n abierta<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

This honestly doesn\u2019t seem too much to ask. It\u2019s like when did conversation go out of style? <\/span><\/p>\n

Sigh… I really need a man who will communicate with me about the good stuff AND the bad. It\u2019s easy to have a conversation when it\u2019s all peachy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Necesito un hombre que me llame por mi mierda en vez de enfurru\u00f1arse en silencio y ech\u00e1rmelo en cara m\u00e1s adelante. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s childish AF! Be a man and tell me what\u2019s wrong. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dime cu\u00e1ndo tienes un problema con algo que he hecho y demu\u00e9strame que te importo estando dispuesto a trabajar con nosotros.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Quiero un hombre que se responsabilice de sus actos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Hora<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to play the \u2018blame game\u2019. I don\u2019t want to have to wonder if I\u2019ll be hearing a bunch of ridiculous excuses when you do something wrong. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not the end of the world, so talk to me and own up to your shit!<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll love you twice as much if you can be a man and admit when you\u2019re at fault. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll appreciate it more than you know if you can say you\u2019re sorry to my face and mean it! <\/span><\/p>\n

Being honest when it\u2019s hard is what relationships are all about. Take responsibility for your actions and we won\u2019t have a problem!<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Quiero un hombre de confianza y leal<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Be my safe harbor. Be my rock when I have no one to turn to. Don\u2019t take my trust <\/span>por sentado.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make me regret opening up to you. That\u2019s not easy for me, you know?<\/span><\/p>\n

If you tell me you\u2019re going to do something, do it. If you promise me you\u2019ll pick me up for our date night, do it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make me think I can\u2019t trust you. The one person I should be able to trust with my life is you! And I do. So don\u2019t make me question your loyalty.<\/span><\/p>\n

If I realize that I can trust you with anything, our relationship is going to blossom. I promise I\u2019ll be the same with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Devu\u00e9lveme el favor y podremos ser esa pareja a la que todos aspiran parecerse.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quiero un hombre con empat\u00eda y compasi\u00f3n<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"cita<\/p>\n

I really need you to understand when I\u2019m going through something and know how to be there for me. <\/span><\/p>\n

I need a man who can hold my hand even though I may seem like I don\u2019t want it (hint: I always do!).<\/span><\/p>\n

Si me ocurre algo doloroso, necesito que est\u00e9s ah\u00ed en todo momento. No porque sientas que tienes que hacerlo, sino porque quieres. <\/span><\/p>\n

Necesito que <\/span>\u00e1mame lo suficiente<\/span><\/a> to be sad when I\u2019m sad. I don\u2019t mean this to come out the wrong way but I think you know what I mean.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando amas a alguien, su felicidad es tu felicidad y su tristeza es tu tristeza. Y esto es lo que yo anhelo m\u00e1s que nada. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sentirme verdaderamente desconsolado cuando sufro. Se me rompe el coraz\u00f3n cuando alguien a quien quiero est\u00e1 sufriendo. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfEs mucho pedir de un hombre?<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Quiero un hombre que sea emocionalmente maduro y comprensivo<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

La madurez emocional es un rasgo que nunca he encontrado en un hombre. As\u00ed que s\u00f3lo puedo so\u00f1ar con encontrar uno as\u00ed. Pero lo tomo como una buena se\u00f1al. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todos los chicos con los que sal\u00ed antes eran m\u00e1s que inmaduros, \u00a1y ahora s\u00e9 qu\u00e9 buscar!<\/span><\/p>\n

And when I find it, I\u2019ll know that I\u2019ve found myself a real man. A man who doesn\u2019t get irrationally mad if I want to go out with my friends. <\/span><\/p>\n

A man who won\u2019t throw a fit if he sees me talking to a guy friend.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un hombre que me apoye y conf\u00ede en m\u00ed. Un hombre que sepa que mi coraz\u00f3n late por \u00e9l y por nadie m\u00e1s. <\/span><\/p>\n

Alguien que sea lo suficientemente maduro para no dejar que los celos tontos arruinen lo que tenemos. Y este hombre est\u00e1 ah\u00ed fuera en alguna parte. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know this. And I\u2019ll remain single until I meet somebody exactly like that.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Estoy<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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