{"id":44917,"date":"2019-10-14T12:17:39","date_gmt":"2019-10-14T12:17:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44917"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:59:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:59:21","slug":"7-impactantes-razones-por-las-que-perseguimos-a-quien-no-podemos-tener","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-impactantes-razones-por-las-que-perseguimos-a-quien-no-podemos-tener\/","title":{"rendered":"7 impactantes razones por las que perseguimos a quien no podemos tener"},"content":{"rendered":"

Remember the times when you were a kid and you wanted something so badly but your parents said you couldn’t have it? <\/span><\/p>\n

Y entonces lo deseaste a\u00fan m\u00e1s. Estabas decidido a hacer cualquier cosa con tal de conseguir eso que tanto ansiabas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pues bien, el mundo de los adultos funciona seg\u00fan el mismo principio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nosotros <\/span>enamorarse<\/span><\/a> con los que nos perjudican, los que <\/span>nos env\u00edan se\u00f1ales contradictorias<\/span><\/a> or those who are not interested in us and we simply can\u2019t stop chasing them no matter what. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuanto m\u00e1s nos rechazan, m\u00e1s los deseamos.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 nos enamoramos de quien no podemos tener?<\/span><\/p>\n

Hay varias razones que explican este fen\u00f3meno y todas ellas tienen su origen en nuestro subconsciente, nuestro tipo de personalidad y nuestras experiencias anteriores. <\/span><\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, these reasons are quite shocking because they reveal the core of our true personality and some things that we seem to lack in our life but didn\u2019t know about!<\/span><\/p>\n

1. We\u2019re excited about the thrill of the chase<\/h2>\n

\"Incre\u00edble<\/p>\n

Sometimes we crave those we cannot have just because we\u2019re excited about the thrill of the chase. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nos encanta la expectaci\u00f3n y el misterio, y nos encanta ser los que luchan por conquistar a alguien.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nos gusta buscar formas de seducirlas y convencerlas de que somos la persona adecuada para ellas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y a veces, cuando conseguimos convencerles y finalmente <\/span>caiga para nosotros<\/span><\/a>desaparecemos de su vida, en busca de otra persecuci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Satisfar\u00e1 nuestro ego<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Nuestro ego es algo tramposo porque puede enga\u00f1arnos para que hagamos cosas que nunca pensamos hacer. <\/span><\/p>\n

A veces, nuestro ego puede enga\u00f1arnos para que deseemos a quienes no podemos tener s\u00f3lo porque pensamos que estar con ellos nos har\u00e1 sentir mejor y satisfar\u00e1 nuestro ego.<\/span><\/p>\n

Creemos que el juego de persecuci\u00f3n y nuestros esfuerzos por ganarlos es lo que nos har\u00e1 sentir superiores una vez que los consigamos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nuestro ego nos enga\u00f1a haci\u00e9ndonos creer que necesitamos conseguir algo (ganar a esa persona en concreto) para sentirnos bien con nosotros mismos.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Creemos que ser aceptados por ellos nos aportar\u00e1 un valor a\u00f1adido<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Nos dirigimos a personas concretas con cualidades y caracter\u00edsticas que admiramos y pensamos que ser aceptados por ellas nos aportar\u00e1 un valor a\u00f1adido. <\/span><\/p>\n

Creemos que estar con ellos influir\u00e1 en los dem\u00e1s para que nos vean de otra manera, mejor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Basically, we\u2019re looking for a shortcut of self-acceptance which is usually built over years.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Luchamos contra la baja autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Ansiamos a los que no podemos tener porque luchamos contra nuestra baja autoestima y conquistar a alguien que no podemos tener es como escalar una monta\u00f1a y sentirnos verdaderos ganadores una vez que por fin llegamos a la cima.<\/span><\/p>\n

La sensaci\u00f3n de \u00e9xito y de ser merecedor de algo o de alguien es alimento para nuestra autoestima y por eso nos enga\u00f1amos a nosotros mismos creyendo que ansiar y luchar por aquello que no podemos tener es lo \u00fanico que nos ayudar\u00e1 a aumentar el nivel de nuestra confianza.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/span>C\u00f3mo aumentar su confianza en s\u00ed mismo y tener m\u00e1s \u00e9xito en la vida y en las citas<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

5. Nos atrae lo desconocido<\/h2>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

Nos atraen por naturaleza las cosas desconocidas y misteriosas que hay que descifrar o con las que hay que esforzarse para comprender. <\/span><\/p>\n

We are attracted to things that we don\u2019t know much about and we are thirsty for every juicy detail about them. <\/span><\/p>\n

Our desire to be with someone we can\u2019t have becomes stronger than our reason.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. We want to prove to ourself and others that we\u2019re worthy of being with them<\/h2>\n

\"Estilo<\/p>\n

A veces s\u00f3lo queremos demostrarnos a nosotros mismos y a los dem\u00e1s que podemos hacerlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Queremos demostrar que podemos conquistar a quienes no podemos tener y que somos totalmente dignos de estar con ellos. <\/span><\/p>\n

We believe that we deserve them and that is why we don\u2019t stop that easily, no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Queremos cumplir una fantas\u00eda<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"Tierno<\/p>\n

Los que no podemos tener forman parte de nuestra fantas\u00eda. <\/span><\/p>\n

We dream about having a perfect life with them and we\u2019ve promised ourself that we\u2019ll do anything in order to achieve it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Imaginamos qu\u00e9 se sentir\u00eda al besarlas, hacer el amor con ellas y hacer de todo con ellas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se convierten en nuestro refugio seguro, lejos de nuestra dolorosa o aburrida realidad.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Remember the times when you were a kid and you wanted something so badly but your parents said you couldn’t have it? And then you wanted it even more. You were determined to do anything just to get that one thing you craved so much. Well, the adult world works on the same principle. We…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":44930,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44917","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/featured2-2.jpg",800,542,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44917","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44917"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44917\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44930"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44917"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44917"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44917"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}