{"id":44979,"date":"2019-10-14T18:20:31","date_gmt":"2019-10-14T18:20:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44979"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:06:29","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:06:29","slug":"5-secretos-alucinantes-que-tu-narcisista-espera-que-nunca-descubras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-secretos-alucinantes-que-tu-narcisista-espera-que-nunca-descubras\/","title":{"rendered":"5 secretos alucinantes que tu narcisista espera que nunca descubras"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m sure you\u2019d love to hear a few things that will come in really handy when tratar con <\/a>narcisistas en el futuro, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019ve got them.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re familiar with the fact that all narcissists use manipulation and tricks to fool even the smartest person in the room.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ve got a tactic in place for every situation they get themselves into.<\/p>\n

Todos sabemos que conf\u00edan en su capacidad para interpretar un papel (y poderosamente bien) que se ajuste a todas y cada una de las personas que tienen en el punto de mira para la manipulaci\u00f3n actual.<\/p>\n

Se adaptan f\u00e1cilmente a quien enga\u00f1an para sacar lo mejor de ellos y luego dejarlos tirados.<\/p>\n

\"encantadora<\/p>\n

Pero hay algunos things you didn\u2019t know about narcissists<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Cosas que desear\u00edan que nunca supieras.<\/p>\n

Porque esos secretos son los que les permiten llegar muy lejos en sus juegos sin ser detectados en absoluto.<\/p>\n

Estos secretos son las claves de su juego.<\/p>\n

And now you\u2019ll have a way out the next time a narcissist plagues your life and tries to get his way with you.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil descubrirlos, llamarles la atenci\u00f3n y hacer que se sientan vulnerables y expuestos.<\/p>\n

Que es exactamente lo que hacen a todas sus v\u00edctimas.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying it\u2019s going to be a piece of cake every single time, but it\u2019s definitely going to make them question everything they thought they knew.<\/p>\n

Juega su juego<\/a> \u00a1aprendiendo estos 5 secretos que tu narcisista nunca quiso que supieras!<\/p>\n

1. Hacerse el tonto har\u00e1 que se quite la m\u00e1scara mucho m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Enfrentarse a un narcisista manipulador acabar\u00e1 de forma dolorosa para ti.<\/p>\n

Conocen su oficio demasiado bien como para dejar que nadie les pille desprevenidos.<\/p>\n

But I\u2019ve got something better for you anyway. Play dumb.<\/p>\n

Act as if you were the na\u00efve girl he wishes you were.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him see that there\u2019s more to you than meets the eye.<\/p>\n

The more he thinks you\u2019re dumb and na\u00efve, the less he\u2019s going to try to cover up his real self, and this will give you an incredible insight into who he really is.<\/p>\n

He is not going to try to hide himself if he believes you\u2019re not smart or paying attention.<\/p>\n

Meanwhile, you\u2019ll be observing in silence and watching his every move, studying his tricks and learning what sets him off.<\/p>\n

Play the slow game and eventually you\u2019ll end up knowing him better than he knows himself.<\/p>\n

2. Keep a record of his misdeeds \u2013 being found out is their biggest fear<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Un narcisista es un depredador. Y todos los depredadores temen ser descubiertos y que sus fechor\u00edas salgan a la luz.<\/p>\n

This is why it\u2019s important that you document every form of abuse he puts you through.<\/p>\n

Intenta hacerlo de la forma m\u00e1s discreta posible.<\/p>\n

Saca una foto de un morat\u00f3n si te ha hecho alguno.<\/p>\n

Graba en secreto sus arrebatos violentos y manipuladores con tu tel\u00e9fono escondido en el bolsillo.<\/p>\n

Film him from a safe distance if he\u2019s engaged in a misdeed you believe could be used against him.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him know about this and when the time comes, use all of this evidence in the best way you see fit, and get rid of him once and for all with solid evidence even his evil charm can\u2019t get him out of.<\/p>\n

3. Permanecer indiferente es su mayor man\u00eda<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

They feed off their victims\u2019 reaction. It gives them fuel to keep going and work at their tricks twice as hard.<\/p>\n

Pero lo que les vuelve completamente locos es no obtener la reacci\u00f3n que esperaban.<\/p>\n

Es realmente su mayor man\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Mant\u00e9n la calma ante sus estupideces.<\/p>\n

Mantente en silencio cuando \u00e9l quiera clara y desesperadamente que reacciones impulsivamente.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction of doing exactly what he planned you\u2019d do.<\/p>\n

Y luego ver c\u00f3mo se rasca la cabeza (figuradamente) con incredulidad.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll leave him speechless for a second.<\/p>\n

And the more you do this, the less he\u2019ll need you because you\u2019ll no longer be of use to him.<\/p>\n

And just like that you\u2019ll win the battle.<\/p>\n

4. Make him see you don\u2019t think of yourself as inferior to him<\/h2>\n

\"se\u00f1ora<\/p>\n

Los narcisistas tratan a sus parejas sentimentales como seres humanos inferiores.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t even see you as a person, to him you\u2019re an object.<\/p>\n

Y se siente con derecho a hacer lo que quiera contigo.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que cuando le muestres que conoce tu valor<\/a> despite his verbal abuse and all forms of manipulation, he\u2019ll see that he\u2019s doing a bad job.<\/p>\n

See, he wants you to feel like you\u2019re nothing.<\/p>\n

Necesita hacerte ver como un ser humano inferior para que caigas bajo su hechizo.<\/p>\n

But showing him you\u2019re still the confident woman with your morals intact makes him a failure.<\/p>\n

In his eyes, it will paint him in a negative light and he\u2019ll be faced with his shortcomings, much to your delight and relief.<\/p>\n

5. Do not fall for their fake remorse \u2013 it\u2019s NEVER real<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Los narcisistas pueden desarmar incluso a las fuerzas del orden con su impecable actuaci\u00f3n de ser humilde y verdaderamente arrepentido de sus actos.<\/p>\n

Incluso pueden llorar a demanda.<\/p>\n

Y pueden hacer creer a cualquiera su lado blando y fr\u00e1gil.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s crucial you know it\u2019s nothing but a performance.<\/p>\n

Y deber\u00edas nunca caigas en<\/a> it. He\u2019ll say the right words and even shed a tear \u2013 let him.<\/p>\n

Hazle creer que lo has comprado.<\/p>\n

But secretly know that it\u2019s all just a vicious, evil ploy created to play the victim card.<\/p>\n

Imag\u00ednate lo cruel y carente de emociones que debe ser una persona para llorar a demanda cuando las situaciones lo exigen y luego ir a hacer exactamente la misma mierda con una sonrisa fanfarrona en la cara...\".<\/p>\n

Da miedo.<\/p>\n

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