{"id":44993,"date":"2019-10-14T20:36:08","date_gmt":"2019-10-14T20:36:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44993"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:57:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:57:47","slug":"lee-esto-cada-vez-que-tengas-ganas-de-mandarle-un-mensaje-aunque-sepas-que-no-debes-hacerlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lee-esto-cada-vez-que-tengas-ganas-de-mandarle-un-mensaje-aunque-sepas-que-no-debes-hacerlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Lee esto siempre que tengas ganas de mandarle un mensaje, aunque sepas que no debes hacerlo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quiz\u00e1 hayas visto su foto en las redes sociales y al instante hayas empezado a rebobinar todos esos momentos felices que vivisteis juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps the teddy bear he gave you is still on your bed and every time you look at it, you can\u2019t help but feel instant warmth through your whole body.<\/p>\n<p>O tal vez le hayas visto hoy paseando por la calle con esa sonrisa suya tan especial que te chifla.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44996\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5048282891.jpg\" alt=\"dulce chica mensajes de texto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5048282891.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5048282891-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5048282891-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>His grin instantly forces you to start thinking about his life and whether he\u2019s already met someone new because he seems happy and content.<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe you want to text him because you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/5-senales-de-que-solo-te-manda-mensajes-cuando-esta-aburrido-o-se-siente-solo\/\">sentirse aburrido o solo<\/a> y echas de menos tus antiguas y largas conversaciones hasta que te quedas dormido.<\/p>\n<p>Or perhaps you\u2019ve had a couple of drinks and now you\u2019re convinced that breaking up with him was a total mistake; you want to turn back time to the moment of your first meeting and change everything.<\/p>\n<p>Sea cual sea el motivo, tienes unas ganas irrefrenables de mandarle un mensaje, preguntarle por su vida, hablar de lo que tuvisteis y, tal vez, convencerle de que romper fue un error.<\/p>\n<p>It seems almost impossible to resist the temptation and write a simple \u201cHey,\u201d only to receive another \u201cHey\u201d in return and wait for the conversation to finally start flowing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44997\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1734513771.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sorprendida en la cama mirando el m\u00f3vil\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1734513771.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1734513771-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1734513771-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A simple \u201cHey\u201d from him would mean so much to you because it would make you feel as if nothing has changed.<\/p>\n<p>Te har\u00eda sentir como en los viejos tiempos, cuando esperabas ansiosamente su respuesta y, en cuanto la ve\u00edas, tu impaciencia era sustituida al instante por una gran sonrisa.<\/p>\n<p>Quieres volver a sentir esa felicidad.<\/p>\n<p>You want to feel that same smile on your face, because it\u2019s the only thing that can make you feel better in the moment.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pero, \u00bfes realmente inteligente enviarle un mensaje?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> \u00bfMerece la pena enviarle un mensaje de texto con una sonrisa que ir\u00e1 seguida de miles de l\u00e1grimas y una confusi\u00f3n infinita?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Is it really smart to text him even though you know you shouldn\u2019t?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfAunque algo dentro de ti te diga que tu relaci\u00f3n, situaci\u00f3n-relaci\u00f3n o casi-relaci\u00f3n termin\u00f3 hace mucho tiempo, incluso antes de que rompierais oficialmente?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The main reason you want to text him is not because you think he\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-pensamientos-que-todo-hombre-tiene-cuando-conoce-a-la-elegida\/\">el \u00fanico adecuado para ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because you want to revive the memories you once had.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44998\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_12829567811.jpg\" alt=\"chica en el caf\u00e9 enviando mensajes de texto a su novio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_12829567811.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_12829567811-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_12829567811-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because you feel lonely at the time and you think that texting them will help you feel alive again, forget about everything, and cheer you up.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You don\u2019t want to text him because you think that he\u2019s the one for you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i> You want to text him because you want to convince yourself that this is the truth, even though you know it\u2019s not.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quieres enviarle un mensaje porque su presencia signific\u00f3 el mundo para ti y una vez te sentiste segura en sus brazos.<\/p>\n<p>Os re\u00edais juntos, hac\u00edais el amor y disfrutabais pasando tiempo juntos.<\/p>\n<p>You were like one and now you\u2019re missing that part of you.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t really miss him, you\u2019re missing how you felt when you were with him.<\/p>\n<p>Echas de menos esa sensaci\u00f3n de calidez cuando te abrazaba y la forma en que te besaba.<\/p>\n<p>But, sometimes even the strongest of relationships don\u2019t last a lifetime.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, we realize too late that we\u2019re not meant to be together for some reason and that breaking up is the only smart thing to do.<\/p>\n<p>Reconociste todo esto hace mucho tiempo y por eso decidiste seguir adelante.<\/p>\n<p>Y ahora quieres enviarle un mensaje s\u00f3lo porque algo te ha recordado su existencia; algo te ha refrescado la memoria de momentos felices pasados juntos.<\/p>\n<p><b>And this is completely normal. It\u2019s totally okay to feel lonely, to doubt your decisions, and to have the uncontrollable urge to text him.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44999\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_7785381581.jpg\" alt=\"mujer solitaria tumbada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_7785381581.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_7785381581-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_7785381581-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b> But, for your own good, you shouldn\u2019t do it!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t do it because you know that texting him will not change anything.<\/p>\n<p>Sabes que enviarle mensajes s\u00f3lo prolongar\u00e1 tu sufrimiento, prolongar\u00e1 los d\u00edas de tu curaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Sabes que enviarle un mensaje ser\u00eda s\u00f3lo un segundo de falsa felicidad que ha muerto hace mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/cuanto-mas-lo-persigas-mas-dano-te-haces\/\">You don\u2019t want to hurt yourself<\/a> encendiendo la chispa de tu pasado.<\/p>\n<p>You want to live in the moment, focusing on reality and what\u2019s good for you.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to hurt yourself by sending one stupid text to someone who probably didn\u2019t even deserve it.<\/p>\n<p><b>You know that he isn\u2019t the one you\u2019re meant to be with!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sabes que si le das un poco de tiempo y te esfuerzas por no caer en la tentaci\u00f3n de enviarle mensajes de texto durante un ratito, \u00a1se habr\u00e1 ido para siempre de tu mente!<\/p>\n<p>And you will be the happiest person in the world because you\u2019ll finally be free from your own thoughts.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45000\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14725137201.jpg\" alt=\"chica feliz al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14725137201.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14725137201-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14725137201-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll be the happiest person in the world because one day you will meet someone whom you\u2019re meant to be with, and when that happens, you\u2019ll thank God that you didn\u2019t text him!<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/30-cosas-mucho-mejores-que-hacer-en-lugar-de-enviarle-mensajes-de-texto\/\">30 cosas mucho mejores que enviarle mensajes de texto<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-44995\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Geheime-Zeichen-Dass-Er-Dich-Zur\u00fcckhaben-Will-Aber-Angst-Hat9-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Lee esto siempre que tengas ganas de mandarle un mensaje, aunque sepas que no debes hacerlo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Geheime-Zeichen-Dass-Er-Dich-Zur\u00fcckhaben-Will-Aber-Angst-Hat9-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Geheime-Zeichen-Dass-Er-Dich-Zur\u00fcckhaben-Will-Aber-Angst-Hat9-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Geheime-Zeichen-Dass-Er-Dich-Zur\u00fcckhaben-Will-Aber-Angst-Hat9.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Perhaps you\u2019ve seen his photo on social media and you instantly started rewinding all those happy moments you had together. Perhaps the teddy bear he gave you is still on your bed and every time you look at it, you can\u2019t help but feel instant warmth through your whole body. Or maybe you saw him&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":44994,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44993","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5196664422.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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