{"id":45162,"date":"2019-10-16T14:57:58","date_gmt":"2019-10-16T14:57:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45162"},"modified":"2022-01-13T01:00:30","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T01:00:30","slug":"4-banderas-rojas-tempranas-el-infierno-tiene-problemas-de-compromiso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-banderas-rojas-tempranas-el-infierno-tiene-problemas-de-compromiso\/","title":{"rendered":"4 se\u00f1ales de alarma de que tendr\u00e1 problemas de compromiso"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfTe gustar\u00eda tener una varita m\u00e1gica que te dijera qu\u00e9 chico nunca se comprometer\u00e1 contigo desde el principio? <\/span><\/p>\n

Who is an immature boy who doesn\u2019t deserve your attention?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfUna bola de cristal que predice el futuro y te aconseja que corras para salvar tu vida antes de que te enamores perdidamente de un hombre y antes de que sea demasiado tarde para que lo dejes emocionalmente indemne?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, you\u2019ve come to the right place. <\/span><\/p>\n

No, we\u2019re not giving you magic tricks to see the future but we\u2019re giving you these early signs that a man will never become boyfriend material and that he\u2019ll probably have commitment issues in the future.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. He’s never had a relaci\u00f3n seria<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

As\u00ed pues, hay chicos que nunca tuvieron la suerte de encontrar a alguien digno de su amor y devoci\u00f3n sinceros. <\/span><\/p>\n

Guys who simply didn\u2019t have happiness in love.<\/span><\/p>\n

And those men deserve a shot as well. Their unsuccessful relationship history doesn\u2019t make them broken or unworthy of your love.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, if a guy only had meaningless flings and casual affairs in the past, it\u2019s time to rethink who is to blame. <\/span><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it<\/span>\u2014<\/span>it is practically impossible that he kept running into girls who didn\u2019t want anything serious and that something like this is in no way his fault.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should believe everything you hear but if a guy is known to be a player who likes to fool around, who is just looking for ways to get into girls\u2019 pants, it is definitely a red flag that he is someone you should be extra careful around.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Hace planes en el \u00faltimo momento<\/h2>\n

\"Guapo<\/p>\n

Cuando conoces a un tipo que vive el momento, piensas que es espont\u00e1neo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te enamoras de su esp\u00edritu cari\u00f1oso, de la forma en que te relaja, del hecho de que es f\u00e1cil de llevar y de que es emocionante estar con \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te gusta que sea imprevisible y que nunca sepas ad\u00f3nde te llevar\u00e1 la noche. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cada vez que te llama para decirte que est\u00e9s lista en quince minutos, la expectaci\u00f3n te da mariposas y te sientes m\u00e1s joven que nunca.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bueno, odio reventar tu burbuja pero todo esto pueden ser se\u00f1ales tempranas de un hombre con problemas de compromiso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Es obviamente impulsivo y toma decisiones en el \u00faltimo momento (lo que parece genial al principio de una relaci\u00f3n, pero te dar\u00e1 muchos quebraderos de cabeza en el futuro).<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Utiliza t\u00e9rminos vagos respecto a vuestra relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

The things which many women fail to notice when they\u2019re starting a new relationship are the terms their guy is using when he is talking about them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bueno, esto es algo a lo que definitivamente deber\u00edas prestar atenci\u00f3n si quieres saber hacia d\u00f3nde va esto.<\/span><\/p>\n

Does he call your relationship \u2018a relationship\u2019 or \u2018a thing\u2019? <\/span><\/p>\n

When he\u2019s talking to his friends, does he refer to you as <\/span>su novia<\/span><\/a> or a girl he\u2019s seeing?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfTe pide una cita o s\u00f3lo salir? \u00bfMenciona a otras chicas delante de ti o s\u00f3lo se centra en ti?<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, you can\u2019t expect a guy to make things official right from the first date. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si llev\u00e1is un tiempo vi\u00e9ndoos y sigue utilizando t\u00e9rminos vagos e indefinidos cuando se trata de ti y de vuestra relaci\u00f3n<\/a>una cosa est\u00e1 clara<\/span>\u2014<\/span>no tiene intenci\u00f3n de comprometerse pronto.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. He isn’t consistent<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Another early red flag that he\u2019ll have commitment issues in the future is a guy\u2019s inconsistency. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando se trata de este hombre, nunca sabes a qu\u00e9 atenerte.<\/span><\/p>\n

Is he crazy over you? Or he couldn\u2019t care less?<\/span><\/p>\n

One day, he acts like you\u2019re the love of his life and as if he couldn\u2019t imagine not having you by his side and the very next, his behavior drastically changes and he starts treating you like crap, ignoring you or even disappearing for a couple of days.<\/span><\/p>\n

Probablemente esperas que esto cambie una vez que los dos llev\u00e9is vuestra relaci\u00f3n al siguiente nivel. <\/span><\/p>\n

That he\u2019ll <\/span>que se ponga las pilas<\/span><\/a> una vez que hag\u00e1is las cosas oficiales y se entregue completamente a ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bueno, tengo que decepcionarte y acabar con todas tus esperanzas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si un hombre act\u00faa as\u00ed desde el principio, es muy probable que no tenga madera de novio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Actually, he probably ghosts you or acts like a jerk the moment he feels that he is letting you in and that he\u2019s becoming emotionally dependent on you.<\/span><\/p>\n

And that is something he can\u2019t take, due to his phobia.<\/span><\/p>\n

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