{"id":45170,"date":"2020-09-16T15:58:00","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T15:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45170"},"modified":"2021-12-20T18:11:08","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T18:11:08","slug":"5-impactantes-razones-por-las-que-nunca-debes-obligar-a-un-hombre-a-comprometerse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-impactantes-razones-por-las-que-nunca-debes-obligar-a-un-hombre-a-comprometerse\/","title":{"rendered":"5 impactantes razones por las que nunca debes obligar a un hombre a comprometerse"},"content":{"rendered":"

Salir con alguien que tiene fobia al compromiso es horrible. Es doloroso, estresante y emocionalmente devastador a largo plazo.<\/p>\n

However, what\u2019s even worse is not accepting the reality and refusing to see that your man doesn\u2019t want to commit to your relationship.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s forcing a man to commit and try to become the man he clearly isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Love can’t be forced<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Let me tell you the bitter truth you\u2019re trying to run away from: you can\u2019t make someone love you.<\/p>\n

Love and relationships can\u2019t be forced, as hard as you try to make them happen.<\/p>\n

Puede ser la mejor novia <\/a> ever, the most passionate lover, and the most caring friend this guy\u2019s ever had, but if he thinks that you\u2019re not the one for him and if he doesn\u2019t feel that special connection with you, sadly, everything is in vain. <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, I\u2019m not saying this man doesn\u2019t like you. He probably even cares for you deeply.<\/p>\n

However, he obviously doesn\u2019t consider you worthy of him losing his freedom, abandoning his old ways, and completely changing his lifestyle.<\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t have to do with your worth as a woman and it doesn\u2019t have to mean that every man will feel the same way about you.<\/p>\n

There is just a possibility that this particular guy doesn\u2019t love you enough to commit to you.<\/p>\n

And you shouldn\u2019t be the one trying to change his mind because it\u2019ll get you nowhere. So, if he doesn’t text you back<\/a> por a\u00f1os o te trate como te mereces, d\u00e9jalo en paz. <\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo puede ser contraproducente<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Human\u2019s psychology is a tricky thing: usually, the more someone is chasing us, the more we\u2019re trying to escape.<\/p>\n

That is exactly what is happening with a man you\u2019re trying to force into commitment: the more you\u2019re trying to tie him up, the more he feels suffocated and tries to free himself from what he sees as emotional chains.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed pues, una de las principales razones para no forzar nunca a un hombre a comprometerse contigo es el hecho de que tus acciones probablemente s\u00f3lo tendr\u00e1n un efecto contraproducente.<\/p>\n

This way, you probably won\u2019t get even the commitment levels this guy was ready to give you on his own.<\/p>\n

En su lugar, pondr\u00e1 todo su empe\u00f1o en huir para salvar la vida e intentar liberarse de cualquier obligaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Instead of enjoying his time with you, he\u2019ll be relieved by having his personal space far away from you.<\/p>\n

He’s obviously not ready<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Cuando un hombre se niega a comprometerse <\/a> significa que no est\u00e1 preparado para hacerlo y eso es algo que debes respetar.<\/p>\n

\u00c9stos son sus l\u00edmites y sus fronteras personales y no es aceptable que t\u00fa le lleves al l\u00edmite.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t take this the wrong way, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should wait an eternity until he comes to his senses and chooses you, but you can\u2019t expect good results from a guy who is not emotionally ready to become the man you need him to be.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, puedes aceptar la situaci\u00f3n o marcharte a tiempo.<\/p>\n

You don’t want a man who doesn’t want you back<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

The most crucial reason why you should never force someone to commit to you is because it is \u2013 let\u2019s be honest \u2013 desperate and needy.<\/p>\n

I hate to be the one to break it to you, but this man obviously doesn\u2019t want you as much as you want him.<\/p>\n

If you have to force him into taking this step, it\u2019s clear that you two have different perceptions of your relationship \u2013 that it means a lot more to you than it does to him and that you\u2019re the one who loves more.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfrealmente quiere ser el \u00fanico que lo intenta?<\/p>\n

El \u00fanico que intenta construir una relaci\u00f3n y llevarla al siguiente nivel, con su nulo esfuerzo.<\/p>\n

Would you really be happy beside a guy, knowing that you forced him to commit to you, and knowing that\u2019s something he\u2019d probably never do on his own?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQue alcanz\u00f3 sus objetivos mediante el chantaje emocional o la manipulaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

Hay otros peces en el mar<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Another reason why you should never force anyone to commit is the fact that there are many other men around you who\u2019d probably give you exactly what you need.<\/p>\n

You just fail to see it because you\u2019re blinded by the desire to make this one completely yours.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not advising you to jump from one relationship to another, but if this guy you\u2019re currently seeing can\u2019t meet your emotional needs or wants different things, move on to someone else you\u2019ll be compatible <\/a> con.<\/p>\n

Why waste so much energy on trying to modify someone when you can find a man you\u2019re actually looking for right around the corner?<\/p>\n

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Dating a commitment phobe is awful. It\u2019s painful, stressful, and emotionally devastating in the long run. However, what\u2019s even worse is not accepting the reality and refusing to see that your man doesn\u2019t want to commit to your relationship. It\u2019s forcing a man to commit and try to become the man he clearly isn\u2019t. Love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":118407,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45170","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5-Shocking-Reasons-Why-You-Should-Never-Force-A-Man-To-Commit-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45170","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45170"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45170\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118407"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45170"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45170"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45170"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}