{"id":45207,"date":"2019-10-16T21:43:54","date_gmt":"2019-10-16T21:43:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45207"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:52:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:52:31","slug":"5-formas-en-que-la-infidelidad-emocional-es-mas-desgarradora-que-la-fisica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-formas-en-que-la-infidelidad-emocional-es-mas-desgarradora-que-la-fisica\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneras en que la infidelidad emocional es m\u00e1s desgarradora que la f\u00edsica"},"content":{"rendered":"

Estoy bastante seguro de que cuando oyes la palabra \"infidelidad\" lo primero que te viene a la cabeza es una aventura sexual, \u00bfestoy en lo cierto?<\/p>\n

Y en cierto modo, es comprensible.<\/p>\n

Mantener relaciones sexuales con una persona que no es tu pareja puede considerarse la forma definitiva de enga\u00f1o y una dif\u00edcil de superar.<\/p>\n

But here\u2019s what I\u2019m struggling to understand.<\/p>\n

How come we live in a world where physical touch (at times completely innocent and purely platonic) can be considered more damaging than sharing your innermost thoughts and feelings with a person who\u2019s not tu pareja<\/a>?<\/p>\n

How is seeing your partner touch another person more infuriating to you than, let\u2019s say, finding out they have formed an extremely close friendship with another woman who can potentially detach him from you?<\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019m not implying that physical cheating is something you should EVER condone.<\/p>\n

All I\u2019m trying to say is that emotional infidelity can be just as heartbreaking, if not more!<\/p>\n

Usted es la persona con la que su pareja deber\u00eda compartir su parte m\u00e1s vulnerable.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

You are the one he should vent to and air his frustrations with when he\u2019s at his lowest.<\/p>\n

Si ha encontrado otra mujer<\/a> que en cierto modo le proporciona todo el apoyo emocional que una persona puede necesitar, \u00bfd\u00f3nde te deja eso a ti?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo afecta esto a tu relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

What\u2019s important to understand here is that finding out there\u2019s another woman who is giving your partner everything he needs (other than sex) that he should be getting from you can create a wedge between you.<\/p>\n

Y con el tiempo, podr\u00eda darse cuenta de que ya no pertenece a tu lado<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And you can\u2019t even be mad because it\u2019s not like he had sex with her or anything, right?<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s the hardest part about being emotionally cheated on.<\/p>\n

Estos son los 5 ejemplos m\u00e1s hirientes de c\u00f3mo la infidelidad emocional puede ser m\u00e1s da\u00f1ina que la f\u00edsica.<\/p>\n

1. Est\u00e1s perdiendo poco a poco el n\u00facleo de tu relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Su relaci\u00f3n sol\u00eda basarse en la confianza, la honestidad y la total transparencia.<\/p>\n

Os respetabais, compart\u00edais absolutamente todo el uno con el otro y os quer\u00edais a pesar de todo.<\/p>\n

Y ahora sigues viendo excusas de \u00e9l para no estar m\u00e1s cerca de ti.<\/p>\n

You know he\u2019s lying but you don\u2019t confront him because there is nothing actually going on, right? Only there is.<\/p>\n

Ahora comparte con ella sus pensamientos y temores m\u00e1s \u00edntimos.<\/p>\n

Ahora pasa cada vez m\u00e1s tiempo manteniendo conversaciones profundas con ella y conectando a todos los niveles.<\/p>\n

La forma en que sol\u00eda estar conectado contigo.<\/p>\n

Y ahora, tu conexi\u00f3n se est\u00e1 marchitando y la que tienes con ella est\u00e1 prosperando.<\/p>\n

2. You constantly feel that you\u2019re competing with her and losing the battle<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You just can\u2019t keep up anymore.<\/p>\n

Parece ser todo lo que tu pareja necesita y quiere.<\/p>\n

Incluso la menciona todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t even see how torturous this is for you.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t understand that by constantly mentioning her, he is making you feel less and less significant.<\/p>\n

Es contigo con quien deber\u00eda pasar la noche del s\u00e1bado, acurrucado en el sof\u00e1 con una botella de vino y una pel\u00edcula, no con ella.<\/p>\n

And yet, somehow, he\u2019s not by your side.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re supposed to be okay because they\u2019re \u2018just friends\u2019.<\/p>\n

You keep feeling like you\u2019re in a competition with her and you seem to be losing battle after battle.<\/p>\n

Puede que \u00e9l no se d\u00e9 cuenta ahora, pero al pasar tanto tiempo de calidad con ella, est\u00e1 enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote<\/a> en cierto modo una mujer nunca deber\u00eda ser enga\u00f1ada.<\/p>\n

3. You are slowly realizing that you don\u2019t know him the way she does<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Las cosas que t\u00fa (y s\u00f3lo t\u00fa) sol\u00edas saber de \u00e9l ya no son s\u00f3lo tuyas.<\/p>\n

Ahora, ella tambi\u00e9n los conoce.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re so close that suddenly she knows his embarrassing vacation story from last year.<\/p>\n

Now she knows that he didn\u2019t learn how to swim until high school, which used to be a secret only you knew.<\/p>\n

Cada peque\u00f1a cosa que hac\u00eda que vuestra relaci\u00f3n fuera bonita y especial es ahora tambi\u00e9n suya.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo no ve que esto es doloroso para ti?<\/p>\n

How does he not understand that just because there is no physical intimacy it doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s not wrong?<\/p>\n

Deber\u00eda saberlo y, en el fondo, probablemente lo sepa.<\/p>\n

4. His head is always in the clouds and you know it\u2019s not because of you<\/h2>\n

\"satisfecho<\/p>\n

Siempre vuelve a casa con una sonrisa reluciente en la cara.<\/p>\n

Whenever he\u2019s texting, you can just see how chipper he is.<\/p>\n

He may try to downplay it but it\u2019s too obvious.<\/p>\n

Sometimes you\u2019ll be calling his name and it\u2019s like he\u2019s not even there.<\/p>\n

Physically he is but in his mind, he\u2019s probably having the time of his life with her.<\/p>\n

And you don\u2019t even want to bring him back to real life because you know he\u2019d rather be with her.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s the most hurtful part.<\/p>\n

Ya no eres la raz\u00f3n de su sonrisa.<\/p>\n

Ya no eres la persona con la que se pasa horas al tel\u00e9fono hablando de todo y de nada.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s her. She\u2019s the one making him happy and she\u2019s the one he goes to.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa no.<\/p>\n

 5. It makes you feel you\u2019re not enough<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de haber pasado por todo lo anterior, te sientes in\u00fatil.<\/p>\n

It makes you feel like you don\u2019t have what it takes para mantener a un tipo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you did, he wouldn\u2019t go to another woman, would he?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re left feeling deserted and insufficient.<\/p>\n

La persona con la que compartiste la conexi\u00f3n emocional m\u00e1s profunda se ha desprendido de ti un d\u00eda tras otro.<\/p>\n

Viste c\u00f3mo suced\u00eda y no pudiste hacer nada.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY qu\u00e9 se supone que debes pensar ahora? \u00bfC\u00f3mo debes sentirte?<\/p>\n

Su aventura emocional te hizo sentir que no eras lo suficientemente buena y \u00e9l no puede ni empezar a comprender cu\u00e1nto da\u00f1o te hizo y cu\u00e1nto tiempo te va a llevar recuperarte de esto.<\/p>\n

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I\u2019m pretty sure that when you hear the word \u2018infidelity\u2019 the first thing that comes to your mind is a sexual affair, am I right? And in a way, it is understandable. Having sex with a person who is not your partner can be seen as the ultimate form of cheating and one that is…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":45208,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45207","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14930964111.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45207","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45207"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45207\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45208"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45207"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45207"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45207"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}