{"id":45219,"date":"2019-10-16T22:33:44","date_gmt":"2019-10-16T22:33:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45219"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:51:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:51:53","slug":"hay-5-tipos-diferentes-de-trampas-pero-esta-es-la-peor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hay-5-tipos-diferentes-de-trampas-pero-esta-es-la-peor\/","title":{"rendered":"Hay 5 tipos diferentes de enga\u00f1o, pero \u00e9ste es el peor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sinceramente, no hay nada que se pueda decir que pueda aliviar el dolor de la infidelidad.<\/p>\n

Deja una marca permanente en ti y te afecta m\u00e1s de lo que te gustar\u00eda.<\/p>\n

The most common question people have after being cheated on is “Why?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 esta persona en la que se supon\u00eda que confiabas m\u00e1s que en nadie decide hacerte da\u00f1o de esta manera?<\/p>\n

What goes through their mind as they\u2019re about to engage in this shameful act with another person?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just hard to imagine your amado<\/a> durmiendo al lado de alguien que no fueras t\u00fa, y sin embargo, ocurri\u00f3.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re left dealing with it as best you know how.<\/p>\n

Pregunt\u00e1ndote c\u00f3mo has llegado a este punto y por qu\u00e9 te ha tenido que pasar a ti. Pero la gente enga\u00f1a por varias razones.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Y a menudo, no tiene nada que ver contigo.<\/p>\n

Not that it\u2019s any consolation (nor should it be), but it\u2019s important that you know that being cheated on says absolutely nothing about you, and everything sobre tu pareja.<\/a><\/p>\n

Ellos son los que se aprovecharon de tu confianza y decidieron ponerte en rid\u00edculo.<\/p>\n

Son los que hicieron lo que nunca debieron hacer y te hirieron sin medida.<\/p>\n

Para ayudarte a tener una idea clara de por qu\u00e9 la gente enga\u00f1a y c\u00f3mo llega a ese punto, aqu\u00ed tienes 5 tipos de enga\u00f1o que se producen y el \u00faltimo es el peor. <\/p>\n

1. Enga\u00f1o situacional<\/h2>\n

\"gran<\/p>\n

Este tipo de enga\u00f1o ocurre cuando uno est\u00e1 comprometido con su pareja y probablemente la quiere mucho, pero siempre que surge una oportunidad, esta persona la aprovecha y enga\u00f1a.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say you\u2019re in a relationship with Mark.<\/p>\n

Now, he loves you and is a devoted partner, but whenever he goes on a business trip, he\u2019s in a situation where he gets to choose if he\u2019s about to cheat on you with his colleague or stay faithful.<\/p>\n

Y Mark elige la infidelidad.<\/p>\n

He knows he\u2019s far from home; he\u2019s in a perfect situation to do this and not be found out.<\/p>\n

Cuando llega a casa, te da toneladas de atenci\u00f3n y amor porque sabe que te ha enga\u00f1ado y lo m\u00e1s probable es que siga haci\u00e9ndolo mientras la situaci\u00f3n sea ideal.<\/p>\n

2. Enga\u00f1ar por necesidad de aprobaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Hay personas m\u00e1s inseguras que otras.<\/p>\n

Y quiero decir, MUCHO m\u00e1s inseguro.<\/p>\n

They are in a relationship, everything seems to be going fine, the sex life is great, but it isn\u2019t enough for them.<\/p>\n

This person needs to feel validated. No matter what you say, they don\u2019t feel suficientemente bueno<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Necesitan que los dem\u00e1s los consideren buenos.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s why they seek other opportunities to have sex \u2013 they need to feel good about themselves.<\/p>\n

This may seem silly, but it\u2019s a reality for some.<\/p>\n

Not everybody is confident and proud of their abilities, so they seek outside validation, and this time \u2013 at your expense.<\/p>\n

3. Enga\u00f1o debido a un v\u00ednculo emocional roto con su pareja<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Esto de ninguna manera pinta una imagen de ti.<\/p>\n

Si hay problemas en una relaci\u00f3n, deben discutirse y solucionarse.<\/p>\n

And if fixing doesn\u2019t seem to help, you break up.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t end up cheating.<\/p>\n

Pero algunos s\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Some people feel emotionally disconnected from their partner and have a strong urge to have that connection with somebody else, even if it\u2019s not you.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1n comprometidos con tu relaci\u00f3n y desean que funcione, pero necesitan sentirse conectados de la forma en que ya no se sienten contigo.<\/p>\n

So they cheat. They try to fill that void that has started to plague their heart and make excuses to convince themselves they\u2019re doing the right thing.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo necesitan volver a sentirse queridos. Y en lugar de hablar de ello contigo, buscan la satisfacci\u00f3n emocional en otra parte.<\/p>\n

4. Enga\u00f1o causado por la incapacidad de amar<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Algunas personas no pueden amar como t\u00fa y yo.<\/p>\n

They wish they could and they desperately try, but it just doesn\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

They form a relationship and they convince themselves that this is love. But deep down, they know it isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t want to herirte<\/a>Pero tambi\u00e9n necesitan averiguar si son capaces de sentir amor, as\u00ed que se acuestan con otras personas para intentar sentir algo.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t resist the urge to find the thing everyone else has.<\/p>\n

This is not a personal thing. They don\u2019t even see the extent of the damage they do to you.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que quieren es descubrir qu\u00e9 es el amor y sentirlo en su coraz\u00f3n como t\u00fa puedes hacerlo.<\/p>\n

Y al mantener relaciones sexuales con tantas personas como sea posible, se est\u00e1n abriendo a esa posibilidad.<\/p>\n

5. Enga\u00f1o vengativo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Este es el m\u00e1s hiriente, porque viene de un lugar t\u00f3xico.<\/p>\n

La gente enga\u00f1a para ser vengativa.<\/p>\n

Se sienten rencorosos y quieren que te sientas como supuestamente les has hecho sentir a ellos.<\/p>\n

Puede que cometieras un error en el pasado que ellos nunca superaron.<\/p>\n

Puede que hayan mentido diciendo que estaban de acuerdo con algo, cuando en realidad nunca lo estuvieron, y ahora han decidido pegarte el doble de fuerte.<\/p>\n

Some people are just toxic and hurtful and don\u2019t deserve to be with someone with an open mind and heart.<\/p>\n

Their mantra is \u201can eye for an eye\u201d and they take it way too far.<\/p>\n

Estos son la peor clase de tramposos porque su \u00fanico prop\u00f3sito es hacerte todo el da\u00f1o que puedan, sin importarles lo inhumanos que les hace.<\/p>\n

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Honestly, there isn\u2019t anything one can say that could possibly alleviate the pain of infidelity. It leaves a permanent mark on you and affects you more than you would like it to. The most common question people have after being cheated on is “Why?\u201d Why would this person you were supposed to trust more than…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":45220,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45219","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_6809168951.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45219","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45219"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45219\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45220"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45219"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45219"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45219"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}