{"id":45334,"date":"2019-10-18T14:22:47","date_gmt":"2019-10-18T14:22:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45334"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:47:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:47:54","slug":"vengate-de-tu-narcisista-con-estos-7-contragolpes-eficaces","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/vengate-de-tu-narcisista-con-estos-7-contragolpes-eficaces\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u00e9ngate de tu narcisista con estos 7 contragolpes eficaces"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019ve ever been <\/span>rota por un narcisista<\/span><\/a>entonces sabr\u00e1s lo profundas que pueden llegar a ser las heridas que te infligen. <\/span><\/p>\n

Saben qu\u00e9 decir y c\u00f3mo actuar para que te enamores de ellos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y una vez que te tienen bajo control, s\u00f3lo puedes esperar salir de all\u00ed con vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know what it\u2019s like to be manipulated and taken advantage of better than most people do.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know what it\u2019s like fighting for your sanity and well-being and what it takes to run from a person with narcissistic tendencies. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a1Felicidades!<\/span><\/p>\n

Algunas personas son capaces de olvidarse de todo para empezar de cero y centrarse en el futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

But some people just can\u2019t forget about the ordeal the narcissist put them through.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to put these things behind you because it took a toll on your psyche. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te destruy\u00f3 mental y f\u00edsicamente y fingir que nunca ocurri\u00f3 es casi imposible.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still struggling with <\/span>las secuelas de salir con un narcisista<\/span><\/a>, I\u2019ve got a solution for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed encontrar\u00e1s las mejores formas de vengarte de tu narcisista y darle donde m\u00e1s le duele.<\/span><\/p>\n

These are 7 extremely effective counterblows for your narcissist, to show him you haven\u2019t forgotten what he did and you\u2019re here to take back your life!<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Reflexiona y piensa con calma cu\u00e1l es la mejor estrategia.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Gran<\/p>\n

Unless you\u2019re in the right headspace for revenge, nothing good can come of this. Collect your thoughts, heal your heart and only then are you ready to figure this shit out. <\/span><\/p>\n

Revenge is not for those who are still suffering, it\u2019s for those who want the other person to see what they put them through.<\/span><\/p>\n

Firstly, don\u2019t act out of anger or frustration. Wait for those feelings to wither and only then figure out what you want to do and how to accomplish it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t rush into it unless you\u2019re really over it. A calm head always gives you the upper hand!<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Deja de lado tus propios sentimientos negativos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still only thinking about how badly he screwed you up and how much you want him to suffer the way you did, you\u2019re only going to react hastily and learn to regret it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tienes que ser capaz de olvidar tu odio hacia este hombre para poder pensar racionalmente en esto.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estar emocionado y quieto <\/span>un desastre<\/span><\/a> te har\u00e1 caer en su trampa y sufrir el doble. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still raw from the experience, wait it out. He\u2019s not going anywhere and if you\u2019re truly set on getting back at him, you\u2019ll be glad you waited for the right time.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Centrarse en sus temidas inseguridades<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Vista<\/p>\n

He\u2019s never going to show this side to anyone but every narcissist has his vulnerabilities. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todo narcisista es profundamente inseguro y act\u00faa como lo hace para compensarlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that\u2019s why you need to focus on this vulnerable side if you want to hit where it hurts the most.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00fa s\u00f3lo le has servido para subirle el ego, as\u00ed que sin \u00e9l no tiene nada de lo que alimentarse. Explota sus defectos e imperfecciones y se\u00f1\u00e1lalos tan a menudo como puedas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Narcissists crave compliments, so when you stop giving them and instead focus on his vulnerabilities, you\u2019ll see how easy it is to bring him down.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Darle a probar su propia medicina<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Este es el m\u00e9todo m\u00e1s sencillo, \u00a1pero el m\u00e1s eficaz! \u00bfC\u00f3mo te ha tratado? \u00bfTe ha tratado con frialdad? <\/span><\/p>\n

Si es as\u00ed, \u00a1haz lo mismo con \u00e9l! \u00bfTe ignor\u00f3 cuando necesitabas su atenci\u00f3n? Si es as\u00ed, haz exactamente lo mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si \u00e9l jug\u00f3 con tu cabeza, juega con la suya. Piensa detenidamente en cada peque\u00f1a forma en que te hizo sentir in\u00fatil y rec\u00edprocamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you keep doing it, he\u2019s bound to crumble. After all, he\u2019s only human and there\u2019s only so much he can take before he starts feeling what you felt. (And thank God for that.)<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Prestarle un poco de atenci\u00f3n<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

A narcissist craves attention and he\u2019s used to getting it. So give it to him but in bits and pieces. <\/span><\/p>\n

Make him see he\u2019s got your attention and then suddenly blow him off and leave. <\/span><\/p>\n

Listen to his shit and keep nodding your head and then suddenly realize there\u2019s somewhere you need to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cut him off in the middle of it so that he can\u2019t help but need more. <\/span><\/p>\n

De esta forma, depende de ti y <\/span>te necesita<\/span><\/a> and you\u2019re the one in charge. <\/span><\/p>\n

You decide just how much attention he\u2019s getting on which day and I\u2019m pretty sure it\u2019s always going to be simply not enough.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. C<\/span>rizarlo en p\u00fablico<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

Be smart about this. Don\u2019t overdo it because then it will be too obvious you\u2019re on a mission to destroy (j\/k). <\/span><\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in public and there are people around, take the opportunity to slightly humiliate him in front of them.<\/span><\/p>\n

A narcissist needs approval and validation, so when he\u2019s made a fool of in public it sets him back big time. <\/span><\/p>\n

Use his ego against him and be subtle. He\u2019ll feel inferior to you and everyone around him.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Make him see you don\u2019t need him anymore<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Vista<\/p>\n

Esto es lo que m\u00e1s le doler\u00e1. Necesita que le necesites. Cuenta con que dependas de \u00e9l. <\/span><\/p>\n

And once you show him you\u2019re no longer under his spell, he\u2019ll be desperate to get you back as soon as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

Prove to him you don\u2019t really love him. Make him see you only pretended to have feelings and now you\u2019re here to take it all back.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be caught by surprise and won\u2019t know how to react. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t have your love and attention, he really doesn\u2019t have anything and you finally win the war.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"V\u00e9ngate<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019ve ever been broken by a narcissist, then you know how deep the wounds they inflict on you can run. They know just what to say and how to act in order to get you to fall for them. And once they have you under control, you can only hope to get out of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":45342,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45334","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_277517432.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45334","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45334"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45334\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45342"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45334"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45334"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45334"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}