{"id":45371,"date":"2019-10-18T20:17:20","date_gmt":"2019-10-18T20:17:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45371"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:50:13","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:50:13","slug":"estoy-aprendiendo-poco-a-poco-a-dejar-ir-las-cosas-que-no-son-buenas-para-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estoy-aprendiendo-poco-a-poco-a-dejar-ir-las-cosas-que-no-son-buenas-para-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"Estoy aprendiendo poco a poco a dejar ir las cosas que no son buenas para m\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>He sido paciente en la vida durante mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve taken everything bad that anyone ever said to me and I stored it deep inside.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve waited and waited because I thought things would change, that people would change, that destiny would go easy on me and pay me back by letting good things happen.<\/p>\n<p><b>Todo eso est\u00e1 a punto de cambiar. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve realized something.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve realized that waiting for things to happen, waiting for things to change, is a lost cause.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing will ever be different if I don\u2019t take my destiny into my own hands.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This time, I\u2019m slowly starting to realize that.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m slowly learning to let go of everything that bothers me and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/estoy-aprendiendo-poco-a-poco-dejar-ir-la-gente-no-valora\/\">people who don\u2019t value me<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45373\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5059545551.jpg\" alt=\" chica al aire libre disfrutando de la naturaleza\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5059545551.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5059545551-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5059545551-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>First, people. I\u2019m letting go of all of you who never did anything good for me; if anything, you always made me feel bad.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m saying goodbye to the heartbreakers.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fa, que rompiste mi coraz\u00f3n en miles de pedazos.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fa, que me hiciste recoger uno a uno esos trozos, pedazos de un espejo roto en el que antes disfrutaba mir\u00e1ndome.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I\u2019m collecting those shattered chunks and putting that mirror back together.<\/p>\n<p>Only, I\u2019m not sure if I\u2019m going to like what I see in the end.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m letting go of the traitors and backstabbers who were never there for me when I needed them.<\/p>\n<p>Mi lealtad nunca signific\u00f3 nada para ti.<\/p>\n<p>El hecho de que me olvidara de mis propios problemas para ocuparme de los tuyos hizo que s\u00f3lo obtuviera de ti un agradecimiento vac\u00edo.<\/p>\n<p>But when things went downhill for me and I needed you to have my back, you pretended you couldn\u2019t hear me.<\/p>\n<p>Te volviste contra m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a special goodbye to a crappy life.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m letting go of all the life situations that made me think I was not good enough or that I was never going to be.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45374\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_68092989121.jpg\" alt=\"So\u00f1ar despierto en una pausa para el caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_68092989121.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_68092989121-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_68092989121-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m saying goodbye to a life full of disappointment and seemingly unbearable obstacles.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Nothing is impossible. Nothing is undoable. It\u2019s you who is your own obstacle in everything you do.<\/p>\n<p>When you think you can\u2019t, you will never be able to.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m letting go of those toxic thoughts that are only bringing me down and limiting my abilities.<\/p>\n<p>Por fin me he dado cuenta de que puedo hacer lo que quiera.<\/p>\n<p>Tengo que esforzarme y ser persistente, no rendirme nunca. \u00bfImposible?<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 imposible frenarme.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m letting go of the known.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m walking out of my comfort zone.<\/p>\n<p>Great things don\u2019t happen in comfort zones.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t discover what you\u2019re capable of if you just keep surrounding yourself with the things you know, with something that sure and bulletproof.<\/p>\n<p>Hay que arriesgar un poco y encontrar la salida a una situaci\u00f3n desconocida o inc\u00f3moda.<\/p>\n<p>Es entonces cuando te construyes a ti mismo y te haces mejor y m\u00e1s fuerte.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>I\u2019m learning to let go of a limiting life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i> I\u2019m learning to embrace the excitement of what this new life is bringing me.&nbsp;<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45375\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4516379831.jpg\" alt=\"mujer camina por campos dorados\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4516379831.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4516379831-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4516379831-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que aqu\u00ed estoy, dispuesta a abrazar todo lo que me espera.<\/p>\n<p>Aqu\u00ed estoy, feliz de dar la bienvenida a mi nueva vida y a todas las cosas que vienen con ella.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m ready to finally love myself enough to recognize what great potential I have rather than being a hopeless failure like others made me think.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m ready to give myself credit for all the good things I\u2019ve done and am about to do.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m ready to tackle my dreams because I finally have the courage to.<\/p>\n<p>And I\u2019m only brave enough because I decided to leave behind everything that is not good for me.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m slowly learning to become who I was supposed to be all along\u2014a fighter, a dreamer and a real woman.<\/p>\n<p>Y para hacerlo hace falta valor. Se necesita tiempo para darse cuenta de lo que es malo para ti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-45377\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Geheime-Zeichen-Dass-Er-Dich-Zur\u00fcckhaben-Will-Aber-Angst-Hat37-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Estoy aprendiendo poco a poco a dejar ir las cosas que no son buenas para m\u00ed\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Geheime-Zeichen-Dass-Er-Dich-Zur\u00fcckhaben-Will-Aber-Angst-Hat37-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Geheime-Zeichen-Dass-Er-Dich-Zur\u00fcckhaben-Will-Aber-Angst-Hat37-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Geheime-Zeichen-Dass-Er-Dich-Zur\u00fcckhaben-Will-Aber-Angst-Hat37-1.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve been patient in life for so long. I\u2019ve taken everything bad that anyone ever said to me and I stored it deep inside. I\u2019ve waited and waited because I thought things would change, that people would change, that destiny would go easy on me and pay me back by letting good things happen. All&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":45372,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45371","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5362850321.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45371","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45371"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45371\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45372"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45371"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45371"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45371"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}