{"id":45471,"date":"2019-10-21T14:54:05","date_gmt":"2019-10-21T14:54:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45471"},"modified":"2021-11-04T13:39:27","modified_gmt":"2021-11-04T13:39:27","slug":"mantente-soltero-hasta-que-dejes-de-tener-miedo-a-la-solteria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mantente-soltero-hasta-que-dejes-de-tener-miedo-a-la-solteria\/","title":{"rendered":"Mantente soltero hasta que no te asuste la solter\u00eda"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Estar soltero no es s\u00f3lo no tener a nadie junto a quien tumbarse en la cama despu\u00e9s de un largo d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>It is not just about not having a partner for sex or someone to cuddle with\u2014it is much more than that.<\/p>\n<p>Being single is scary\u2014nobody can argue with that.<\/p>\n<p>No tener un compa\u00f1ero de vida a veces significa quedarse solo para luchar con todos los retos y dificultades posibles.<\/p>\n<p><b>A menudo significa no tener a tu persona, no tener a alguien en quien confiar, no tener un hombro sobre el que llorar y no tener a una persona que est\u00e9 a tu lado, pase lo que pase.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> No es tener a alguien que te cuide o alguien que te coja de la mano cuando lo necesitas.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014being single is even scarier when you\u2019re the only one going through it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45474\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5292785771.jpg\" alt=\"Hermosa mujer adulta joven feliz bebiendo caf\u00e9 \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5292785771.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5292785771-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5292785771-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It is even worse when all of your friends are married or in relationships and when everyone is pressuring you to settle down and find a man you\u2019ll grow old with.<\/p>\n<p>En este caso, la solter\u00eda incluye no tener a tu acompa\u00f1ante en los eventos importantes, que te pregunten constantemente si hay alguien especial en tu vida e incluso que te juzguen por no ser capaz de encontrar a tu persona para siempre.<\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00ed, ser soltero es aterrador y duro, y todo el que te diga lo contrario miente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Significa que tienes que ser el doble de fuerte y el doble de capaz. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>It means that you have to be independent and self-sufficient because you\u2019re walking through life all by yourself, without anyone to catch you if you fall.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Sin embargo, es precisamente por eso por lo que hay que hacerlo.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ver\u00e1s, s\u00f3lo los cobardes huyen de las cosas que les asustan.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo las mujeres d\u00e9biles se dejan llevar por la corriente y hacen exactamente lo que se espera de ellas.<\/p>\n<p>En cambio, las mujeres valientes hacen todo lo contrario.<\/p>\n<p>Se enfrentan a sus miedos, los miran directamente a los ojos, ven que son m\u00e1s fuertes que ellos, los manejan con el mayor coraje posible y, finalmente, hacen que desaparezcan.<\/p>\n<p>Strong women abandon their comfort zones, even though they don\u2019t know what\u2019s coming next.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45475\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3874008761.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato en primer plano de una hermosa mujer cauc\u00e1sica\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3874008761.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3874008761-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3874008761-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Van directos al fuego, s\u00f3lo para demostrarse a s\u00ed mismos que pueden hacerlo y que pueden vencerlo.<\/p>\n<p>And whether you see it now or not, trust me when I tell you that you\u2019re one of these women.<\/p>\n<p>You are a woman who doesn\u2019t need anyone\u2019s guidance, you\u2019re not a child who needs a man to raise her and you can make it on your own.<\/p>\n<p><b>So please, don\u2019t run away from being single. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t jump from one relationship to another just out of fear of being alone, don\u2019t settle for less just because someone convinced you that you have unrealistically high standards and don\u2019t accept the first opportunity that appears on your path just to meet other people\u2019s expectations.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t waste your time on relationships that have no future and are <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/ha-dejado-de-esforzarse-en-una-relacion-condenada-al-fracaso\/\">condenado al fracaso<\/a> desde el primer d\u00eda s\u00f3lo porque quieres sentir que perteneces a alguien.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t devalue yourself by being with men who are only interested in your body just because you don\u2019t like going home to a cold, empty bed.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t lower your standards just because you\u2019re embarrassed when others judge you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t give your heart out to the wrong men just because you\u2019re desperate to be loved.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45476\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3957964541.jpg\" alt=\"Hermosa mujer feliz caminando cerca de East River en Nueva York \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3957964541.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3957964541-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3957964541-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>En su lugar, <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/6-razones-por-las-que-una-mujer-fuerte-seguira-soltera-hasta-que-llegue-el-hombre-adecuado\/\"><b>permanecer soltero<\/b><\/a><b> hasta que te demuestres a ti mismo que puedes hacerlo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Sigue soltero hasta que dejes de tenerle miedo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Instead of lamenting the fact that you still haven\u2019t found your Mr. Right, be happy about the fact that you\u2019re dodging a bullet every time you don\u2019t get involved with a Mr. Wrong.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>En lugar de ver tu solter\u00eda como una maldici\u00f3n, consid\u00e9rala una bendici\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> M\u00edralo como una oportunidad de mejorar, de ordenar tu vida y de hacer que merezca la pena vivirla.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Consid\u00e9ralo una oportunidad para descubrir qu\u00e9 y a qui\u00e9n quieres, para pensar bien tus prioridades, para dedicar tu tiempo y energ\u00eda a tu carrera y a otros intereses.<\/p>\n<p>See it as a chance to get to know yourself better and most importantly\u2014to learn how to love and respect yourself properly.<\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00f3lo cuando consigas convertirte en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de ti mismo estar\u00e1s plenamente preparado y capacitado para iniciar una relaci\u00f3n sana. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00f3lo entonces empezar\u00e1s a atraer a hombres de verdad, maduros, que te merezcan y s\u00f3lo entonces el amor verdadero entrar\u00e1 en tu vida.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-45473\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel54-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Mantente soltero hasta que no te asuste la solter\u00eda\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" 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It is not just about not having a partner for sex or someone to cuddle with\u2014it is much more than that. Being single is scary\u2014nobody can argue with that. Not having a life partner sometimes means&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":45472,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45471","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5292787451.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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