{"id":45596,"date":"2019-10-22T19:21:26","date_gmt":"2019-10-22T19:21:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45596"},"modified":"2022-02-27T14:29:42","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T14:29:42","slug":"una-carta-abierta-a-mi-corazon-perdon-por-no-cuidarte-mejor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-abierta-a-mi-corazon-perdon-por-no-cuidarte-mejor\/","title":{"rendered":"Una carta abierta a mi coraz\u00f3n: Siento no haberte cuidado mejor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ver\u00e1s, he pasado toda mi vida haciendo todo lo posible por no herir a nadie.<\/p>\n<p>However, in the process, I forgot about my most valuable possession\u2014I forgot about you, my heart.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mirando las cosas desde esta perspectiva, ahora veo que fuiste t\u00fa a quien caus\u00e9 m\u00e1s da\u00f1o. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>La que descuid\u00e9, la que puse en \u00faltimo lugar y la que rara vez cuid\u00e9 bien.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>That is why I\u2019m begging you to forgive me for all the pain I put you through, even though I probably don\u2019t deserve it and even though I know that at this point, you\u2019re damaged beyond repair.<\/p>\n<p>First and foremost, I\u2019m sorry for giving you away so easily to all those wrong people.<\/p>\n<p>A todas esas personas que te traicionaron, que jugaron contigo, que utilizaron tu bondad, que se aprovecharon de tus vulnerabilidades y que siguieron machac\u00e1ndote, sin pensar nunca en las consecuencias permanentes que podr\u00eda dejar en ti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45599\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3448517422.jpg\" alt=\"Chica relajada y pensativa en invierno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3448517422.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3448517422-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3448517422-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Siento todo el infierno que te hice pasar. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Por todo el dolor, la decepci\u00f3n y la humillaci\u00f3n que sufriste por mi culpa.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Forgive me for all the battles we didn\u2019t win and for all the pointless fights I should have never put you through.<\/p>\n<p>Perd\u00f3n por todas las lesiones que te caus\u00e9, por todas las heridas que te da\u00f1aron y por cada <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/que-queda-amor-desagradable-cicatriz-corazon\/\">fea cicatriz<\/a> Nunca podr\u00e9 borrar.<\/p>\n<p>Te pido perd\u00f3n por obligarte a dejar entrar a todos esos hombres t\u00f3xicos y manipuladores que acabaron destroz\u00e1ndote y nunca se preocuparon por ti.<\/p>\n<p>For those selfish men who never thought of your well-being and who didn\u2019t give a damn whether they\u2019d crush you into pieces.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m sorry for not appreciating you enough, for making you believe that you were too weak just for being emotional, for judging you for being your true self and for not fighting harder for you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Siento no haber confiado en ti cuando no dejabas de enviarme se\u00f1ales para que huyera de alguien que no era bueno para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Por repetir una y otra vez los mismos errores, sin aprender nunca de ellos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45600\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_2926788801.jpg\" alt=\"Vista horizontal de una joven deprimida llorando\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_2926788801.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_2926788801-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_2926788801-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por favor, perd\u00f3name por permitir que narcisistas y psic\u00f3patas abusaran de ti de todas las formas posibles, que te abandonaran cuando m\u00e1s los necesitabas, s\u00f3lo para dejarte desorientado y perdido.<\/p>\n<p>Siento haberte empujado a creer sus promesas vac\u00edas y falsas excusas y a darles interminables <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/self-love\/girl-power\/life-got-way-better-stopped-giving-second-chances\/\">segundas oportunidades<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>Perd\u00f3n por hacer que te conformes con menos de lo que mereces y perd\u00f3n por no ver tu verdadero valor.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Le pido disculpas por no haberle escuchado atentamente.<\/p>\n<p><b>Por haber seguido tus deseos sin prestar atenci\u00f3n a tus necesidades reales.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sorry for rushing you and for not giving you enough time to heal when you obviously needed it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sorry for the times when I didn\u2019t see you weren\u2019t ready for another defeat and nevertheless for putting you through the risk of getting hurt again.<\/p>\n<p>Por hacerte saltar de un campo de batalla a otro, sin comprobar si ten\u00edas completamente<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-la-chica-que-nunca-se-recupero-de-su-ultimo-desengano-amoroso\/\"> recuperado de sus \u00faltimas heridas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that\u2014I\u2019m also sorry for not allowing you to be harsher on me when I was the one who deserved it.<\/p>\n<p>Por no dejarte ense\u00f1arme algunas lecciones valiosas y hacerme entrar en raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><b>Perd\u00f3name por no haberte avisado incluso cuando vi que se acercaba una tormenta.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Por no darte un escudo y por no cuidarte.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45601\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5896834821.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de bella mujer cansada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5896834821.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5896834821-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5896834821-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m sorry for not cherishing you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Por no ver lo delicada, sensible, irremplazable y preciosa que eres.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Te pido perd\u00f3n por haberte mentido y no haberte dejado ver la verdad, incluso cuando la sab\u00eda muy bien.<\/p>\n<p>Por enga\u00f1arte y darte esperanzas, incluso cuando ya no quedaba ninguna.<\/p>\n<p><b>Most of all\u2014I\u2019m sorry for all those situations in which <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/se-lo-suficientemente-valiente-para-romper-tu-propio-corazon\/\"><b>Yo fui quien te rompi\u00f3<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Por todas esas decisiones y juicios equivocados que hice, sin pensar en las consecuencias de mis actos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sorry for all those times I promised never to crush you again and for each time I let you down and for putting you out there even when you clearly needed a break.<\/p>\n<p><b>Siento no haberte protegido, no haberte cubierto las espaldas y no haberte cuidado bien.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Perd\u00f3n por no respetarte ni quererte lo suficiente y por poner a todos los dem\u00e1s por delante de ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m sorry for not knowing and not being better.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-45598\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel59-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Una carta abierta a mi coraz\u00f3n:\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel59-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel59-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel59-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel59.jpg 794w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You see, I\u2019ve spent my entire life doing my best not to hurt anyone. However, in the process, I forgot about my most valuable possession\u2014I forgot about you, my heart. Looking at things from this perspective, now I see that you were the one I caused the most harm. The one I neglected, the one&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":45597,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45596","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_6565755341.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45596","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45596"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45596\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45597"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45596"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45596"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45596"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}