{"id":45603,"date":"2019-10-22T20:26:07","date_gmt":"2019-10-22T20:26:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45603"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:29:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:29:36","slug":"5-senales-de-que-sus-amigos-le-manipulan-y-le-ponen-en-tu-contra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-de-que-sus-amigos-le-manipulan-y-le-ponen-en-tu-contra\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales de que sus amigos le manipulan y le ponen en tu contra"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por muy fuerte que sea el car\u00e1cter de alguien, nos guste admitirlo o no, todos estamos influidos por la gente que nos rodea.<\/p>\n

Lo mismo ocurre con tu novio: sus amigos m\u00e1s \u00edntimos son las personas en las que m\u00e1s conf\u00eda y cuya opini\u00f3n le importa.<\/p>\n

So, the problem occurs when these people don\u2019t approve your relationship, when they\u2019re convincing your boyfriend that you\u2019re no good, and when they\u2019re doing everything in their power to separate the two of you.<\/p>\n

However, when you\u2019re going through something similar, you can\u2019t help but wonder whether you\u2019re imagining things.<\/p>\n

Are you crazy or are your boyfriend\u2019s friends really turning him against you?<\/p>\n

Well, we\u2019re giving you some surefire signs that they\u2019re really destroying your relationship from the background.<\/p>\n

1. They don\u2019t respect your time together<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

La primera se\u00f1al de que sus amigos intentan ponerle en tu contra es que no dejan de interrumpiros cuando est\u00e1is juntos.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s great that he\u2019s loyal to them and they can call him in the middle of the night in case of emergency, but it\u2019s something completely different when they\u2019re using that privilege just to disturb you.<\/p>\n

His friends don\u2019t respect the time he spends with you and expect him to bail them out every time they call him.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t understand that you\u2019re his prioridad n\u00famero uno<\/a> now and don\u2019t accept that they\u2019re not the only ones who matter anymore.<\/p>\n

2. They act like he\u2019s single<\/h2>\n

\"Alegres<\/p>\n

One of the biggest threats to your relationship lies in the fact that your partner\u2019s friends are jugadores<\/a>.<\/p>\n

El punto \u00e1lgido de su semana es la noche del viernes, cuando van a la caza de una nueva v\u00edctima a la que utilizar para mantener relaciones sexuales y no volver a llamar.<\/p>\n

Por mucho que probablemente lo desapruebes, ten en cuenta que su estilo de vida no es asunto tuyo hasta que empiece a afectar a vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this is exactly what\u2019s going on \u2013 it seems that your boyfriend\u2019s friends can\u2019t grasp the idea that he is now taken and can\u2019t keep on living the same way he did while he was single.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que siguen trat\u00e1ndolo como a un soltero.<\/p>\n

They keep calling him to hang out with other women and don\u2019t stop inviting him to activities that are not appropriate for a man in a relationship.<\/p>\n

3. Nunca te invitan a venir<\/h2>\n

\"Feliz<\/p>\n

The last thing you want is to be one of those boring girlfriends who don\u2019t allow their men to breathe.<\/p>\n

You need to understand that your BF is a human being who has the need to socialize and you can\u2019t think of nagging him for spending time with his friends without you.<\/p>\n

However, if they never invite you to hang out, if they refuse your invitations, and if you see that you\u2019re not welcome even when they gather on special occasions, you have a serious problem and it\u2019s more than obvious they don\u2019t fancy you.<\/p>\n

These guys only met you once when your boyfriend introduced you to them and from that point onwards, they keep acting as if you don\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t see the two of you as a couple nor do they treat you as one of the most important people in their friend\u2019s life.<\/p>\n

4. Siempre mencionan a su ex<\/h2>\n

\"Alegre<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing wrong if your boyfriend\u2019s friends stayed on good terms with one of his exes.<\/p>\n

After all, he\u2019s the one who ended his relationship with this girl and that doesn\u2019t make them obligated to cut all ties with her as well.<\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s quite rude to mention her all the time in front of you or keep him updated about her life now when he\u2019s with you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s especially awful if they compare you with his ex or bring up some past events from their relationship.<\/p>\n

This is exactly what his friends are doing: it\u2019s like they\u2019re trying to tell you that they\u2019d be happier if he had stayed with su ex<\/a> and make it clear that you\u2019ll never measure up to her. <\/p>\n

5. Aprovechan cualquier oportunidad para avergonzarte y humillarte<\/h2>\n

\"<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that these guys insult you directly when you all hang out, but they certainly do it in a sneaky way.<\/p>\n

Hacen bromas sobre ti y siempre se\u00f1alan tus malas cualidades.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that they never actually crossed the line of good manners, so even when you tell your boyfriend that they\u2019re taking it too far, he accuses you of being overly sensitive.<\/p>\n

Not only that \u2013 he also thinks you don\u2019t understand their sense of humor and asks you to be more relaxed.<\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re not a fool and you have the ability to recognize when someone is honestly joking around without any bad intentions and when someone is using their jokes to make you feel bad and embarrass you.<\/p>\n

Y estos chicos, sin duda, est\u00e1n haciendo esto \u00faltimo.<\/p>\n

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No matter how strong of a character someone has, whether we like to admit it or not, we\u2019re all influenced by the people around us. The same goes with your boyfriend: his closest friends are the people he trusts the most and whose opinion matters to him. So, the problem occurs when these people don\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":45604,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45603","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_6585556931.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45603","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45603"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45603\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45604"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45603"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45603"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45603"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}