{"id":45714,"date":"2019-10-24T18:04:57","date_gmt":"2019-10-24T18:04:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45714"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:22:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:22:16","slug":"7-senales-alarmantes-de-que-es-un-senor-ahora-y-no-un-senor-derecho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-senales-alarmantes-de-que-es-un-senor-ahora-y-no-un-senor-derecho\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales alarmantes de que ahora es un se\u00f1or correcto (y no lo es)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vivir el presente no tiene nada de malo. <\/span><\/p>\n

No hay nada malo en compartir tu tiempo con un hombre que te conviene en este momento, sin devanarte los sesos pensando en lo que pasar\u00e1 ma\u00f1ana.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, lo importante es ser realista y tener la capacidad de diferenciar entre un chico que es adecuado para ti en este momento y un chico que es <\/span>el correcto<\/span><\/a> para ti el resto de tu vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

That is why we\u2019re giving you these 7 eye-opening signs that you\u2019re dealing with a Mr. Right Now and not your Mr. Right.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Ambos utiliz\u00e1is t\u00e9rminos vagos respecto a vuestra relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re with a temporary guy, you two simply don\u2019t talk much about labels. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, you are obviously dating but nobody has ever made the effort to have \u2018the talk\u2019 and to make things official.<\/span><\/p>\n

En vez de eso, te vas por las ramas cuando se cuestiona ese tema. <\/span><\/p>\n

You use vague terms while referring to one another and you successfully avoid the discussion about whether you\u2019re both exclusive.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. He didn\u2019t make you forget your ex<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de las mujeres conocen a su Mr. Right Now despu\u00e9s de terminar una relaci\u00f3n duradera. <\/span><\/p>\n

You want to be with someone because you\u2019re used to being a part of a couple, you want someone to help you relax and to make your days more interesting without having to think too much about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, tu Mr. Right Now nunca te har\u00e1 realmente <\/span>olv\u00eddate de tu ex<\/span><\/a> completamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, puede que te lo pases muy bien con \u00e9l, pero en el fondo, tu coraz\u00f3n seguir\u00e1 roto.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, he will be better than the jerk who hurt you to the bones and at least he won\u2019t be giving you that much of a headache. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, he\u2019ll never replace him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por otro lado, una vez que conozcas a tu persona para siempre, todo el sufrimiento y todas las l\u00e1grimas causadas por alguien de tu pasado desaparecer\u00e1n por arte de magia. <\/span><\/p>\n

Not only that\u2014you\u2019ll even wonder how you could have ever loved someone else before this perfect man, who is obviously your soulmate.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. You are not a part of each other\u2019s lives<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you come to think of it, you don\u2019t know this guy\u2019s friends, you don\u2019t know how he spends his days in detail and you\u2019re not involved in his interests. <\/span><\/p>\n

And it goes both ways\u2014it\u2019s not that you hide him from the rest of the world, you just never had the need to actually make him a part of your life or to introduce him to your loved ones. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s almost like you subconsciously know that he isn\u2019t here to stay, so you don\u2019t even want to bother.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Nunca habl\u00e1is del futuro<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Una de las se\u00f1ales m\u00e1s claras de que est\u00e1s tratando con alguien temporal es el hecho de que nunca hag\u00e1is planes a largo plazo juntos.<\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, you don\u2019t even talk about the future and especially not about one which includes you two as a couple.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even make jokes about your potential children\u2019s names or what your marriage would look like. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ese tipo de debate est\u00e1 obviamente fuera de los l\u00edmites y hay una raz\u00f3n de peso para ello.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Su intimidad es s\u00f3lo sexual<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Es probable que tengas una vida sexual incre\u00edble con este tipo. <\/span><\/p>\n

He makes all of your wildest fantasies come true and he helped reveal a side of you you didn\u2019t know existed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, no es hasta que encuentras a tu hombre perfecto cuando comprendes que la intimidad es mucho m\u00e1s que sexo (a pesar de ser extremadamente importante). <\/span><\/p>\n

Te das cuenta de que la intimidad tambi\u00e9n puede ser emocional, psicol\u00f3gica y mental, adem\u00e1s de s\u00f3lo <\/span>f\u00edsico<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, con un Mr. Right Now, no hay v\u00ednculo fuera del dormitorio. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have the need to spend hours next to this man without saying a word, to listen to him breathe, to look deeply in his eyes or just to hold his hand without it having to lead to anything more.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Le ocultas tus imperfecciones<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Another red flag that you\u2019re involved with a Mr. Right Now is the fact that you are not comfortable enough to be your true self in front of him. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re pretending to be someone you\u2019re not but the truth is that you do hide your flaws from him.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, when you are with the right guy, you don\u2019t mind him seeing you on a bad hair day or when you have a cold. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, you\u2019re sure of his love for you and you are not afraid that he will run for the hills at the first sign of imperfections.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Ninguno de los dos luchar\u00eda por su relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014things between you and this guy are only working out because up to now, everything has been going smoothly. <\/span><\/p>\n

You haven\u2019t had any bumps in the road and life hasn\u2019t challenged your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re perfectly aware that you wouldn\u2019t stick to each other through thick and thin. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know very well that you wouldn\u2019t <\/span>luchar unos por otros<\/span><\/a> si vuestra relaci\u00f3n se pusiera en entredicho y que ninguno de los dos har\u00eda sacrificios serios por ello.<\/span><\/p>\n

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There is nothing wrong with living in the present. Nothing wrong with sharing your time with a man who suits you right now, without racking your brains about what will happen tomorrow. However, what is important is to be realistic and have the ability to differentiate between a guy who is right for you at…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":45723,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45714","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/pablo-heimplatz-OSboZGvoEz4-unsplash.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45714","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45714"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45714\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45723"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45714"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45714"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45714"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}