{"id":45783,"date":"2020-10-25T20:16:45","date_gmt":"2020-10-25T20:16:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45783"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:52:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:52:38","slug":"4-maneras-probadas-de-salir-con-exito-con-un-hombre-con-problemas-de-intimidad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-maneras-probadas-de-salir-con-exito-con-un-hombre-con-problemas-de-intimidad\/","title":{"rendered":"4 maneras probadas de salir con \u00e9xito con un hombre con problemas de intimidad"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando la mayor\u00eda de la gente oye la palabra intimidad, en lo primero que piensa es en sus aspectos f\u00edsicos.<\/p>\n

The same goes with intimacy issues \u2013 many connect it with bedroom problems between a couple.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, la verdad es que la intimidad es mucho m\u00e1s que sexo. Es un v\u00ednculo m\u00e1s profundo que incluye una relaci\u00f3n intelectual, espiritual y emocional. conexi\u00f3n emocional<\/a> entre dos personas.<\/p>\n

So, having a partner with intimacy issues basically means that you\u2019re dealing with someone who has trouble opening up, letting you in, and devoting himself to your relationship all the way.<\/p>\n

Dicho as\u00ed, salir con un hombre con problemas de intimidad suena bastante agotador.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, aunque no es nada f\u00e1cil, se puede hacer y aqu\u00ed te explicamos c\u00f3mo.<\/p>\n

Llegar al fondo de su problema<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

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Las personas tienen diferentes razones para haber desarrollado sus problemas de intimidad y tu pareja no es una excepci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Es posible que tenga alg\u00fan trauma de la infancia o que a\u00fan cargue con pesadas cargas emocionales de su relaci\u00f3n pasada que le hicieron ponerse as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Es probable que este hombre nunca se sintiera lo suficientemente querido o que nunca viera que pod\u00eda abrirse a alguien por completo, por lo que, con el tiempo, aprendi\u00f3 a guardarse todas sus emociones y a lidiar con ellas por su cuenta.<\/p>\n

O tal vez se sinti\u00f3 tan gravemente herido hasta el punto de que inconscientemente decidi\u00f3 cerrarse en banda y no dejar entrar a nadie nunca m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Either way, it is your job to get to the bottom of this problem before acting on it because you can\u2019t work on curing the consequences without knowing the cause.<\/p>\n

However, in this kind of situation, you can\u2019t expect him to straightforwardly tell you what\u2019s going on. In fact, he is probably not aware of what made him become this way \u2013 otherwise, he\u2019d change.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, tienes que ser un verdadero detective aqu\u00ed.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not advising you to snoop around his life \u2013 just listen carefully to what he has to say about his life because every little detail may be crucial.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t push him too hard<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

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El primer impulso que tienes cuando conoces a un hombre con problemas de intimidad es hacer todo lo posible por cambiarlo.<\/p>\n

Es para intentar que supere su problema y sea m\u00e1s abierto de coraz\u00f3n y de mente cuando se trata de ti y de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, lo \u00faltimo que debe hacer es presionarle demasiado porque eso s\u00f3lo ser\u00eda contraproducente.<\/p>\n

By forcing him to miraculously change over night just to please you, you\u2019ll just succeed in ahuyent\u00e1ndolo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If your partner sees that you\u2019re crossing and not respecting his personal boundaries, he\u2019ll probably get scared that you might break his walls completely.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll perceive your love for him as a threat and see you as an intruder who is about to invade his personal space.<\/p>\n

And that is the last thing he wants \u2013 otherwise, he wouldn\u2019t have these intimacy issues.<\/p>\n

Crear un entorno seguro<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

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As\u00ed que, en lugar de pedirle directamente a tu hombre que se abra a ti y exigirle que se deshaga de sus problemas m\u00e1s arraigados as\u00ed como as\u00ed, s\u00e9 prudente y demu\u00e9strale sutilmente que puede confiar en ti lo suficiente como para bajar la guardia. <\/p>\n

Show him that your relationship is his safe haven \u2013 that you won\u2019t take advantage of his vulnerabilities nor will you use him in any other way.<\/p>\n

Show him that you\u2019re there for him, that he can count on you no matter what, and that you\u2019re his friend before being his lover.<\/p>\n

Of course, it is not enough to tell him all these things because he surely won\u2019t believe a word you say.<\/p>\n

Instead, you have to prove to this guy that you\u2019re really someone worthy of his emotions and of tearing his emotional walls down.<\/p>\n

\u00c1brete a \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

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\u00bfSabes que los ni\u00f1os aprenden con el ejemplo?<\/p>\n

Los adultos no somos muy diferentes.<\/p>\n

Therefore, the best way to heal a guy\u2019s intimacy issues is to show him your devotion and commitment.<\/p>\n

Es para que se d\u00e9 cuenta de que no hay nada malo en exponer tu lado d\u00e9bil a alguien a quien amas y, desde luego, nada malo en poner todo tu coraz\u00f3n en manos de tu pareja rom\u00e1ntica, sin guardarte ninguna parte. <\/p>\n

Hazle entender que no hay nada que temer.<\/p>\n

Demu\u00e9strale que conf\u00edas en \u00e9l lo suficiente como para exponerte y que no pasar\u00e1 nada malo si \u00e9l hace lo mismo.<\/p>\n

Habla con este hombre de tus propias imperfecciones y comparte tu traumas pasados<\/a> con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Be emotionally naked in front of your boyfriend and I assure you that he\u2019ll follow your lead in no time.<\/p>\n

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