{"id":45806,"date":"2020-08-28T15:57:40","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T15:57:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45806"},"modified":"2022-08-10T07:16:32","modified_gmt":"2022-08-10T07:16:32","slug":"como-el-narcisista-engana-a-la-gente-haciendole-creer-que-es-el-bueno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-el-narcisista-engana-a-la-gente-haciendole-creer-que-es-el-bueno\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo el narcisista enga\u00f1a a la gente para que crea que es el bueno"},"content":{"rendered":"

By now, we\u2019re all familiar with the drill. I\u2019m sure you know how the narcissist\u2019s world works and how they prey on those who are most likely to be swayed and destroyed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Primero viene el proceso de selecci\u00f3n. El narcisista elige un objetivo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esa persona suele ser alguien con bellas cualidades<\/a> como la amabilidad, la empat\u00eda, la capacidad de perdonar y la abundancia de comprensi\u00f3n (que acaba siendo la m\u00e1s fatal de todas).<\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t just pick a person on a whim. There is lots of preparation and thought that go into it. <\/span><\/p>\n

El objetivo tiene que ser perfecto para que su trabajo se realice a la perfecci\u00f3n absoluta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Necesita que pienses que todo sucede espont\u00e1nea y lentamente. Necesita que te quedes alucinado con \u00e9l, de ah\u00ed sus muchas <\/span>m\u00e1scaras enga\u00f1osas<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

You never really know who you\u2019re dealing with because he changes his mask with each new stage of your \u2018relationship\u2019.<\/span><\/p>\n

And by the time you figure out how you fell into a bottomless pit of manipulation, evil tactics and betrayal, his job is done and he\u2019s onto the next one. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were used and you didn\u2019t even realize what was happening until it was done.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero lo m\u00e1s peculiar de todo es esto: \u00bfC\u00f3mo demonios se las arregla para tratarte tan mal y quedar como el bueno?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo consigue gustar tanto a la gente, mientras en secreto te vac\u00eda de todo lo que te hace querer vivir? <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u00bfDe verdad puede ser tan bueno en su oficio?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

This is what I\u2019m here to get to the bottom of. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sigue leyendo porque puede arrojar algo de luz sobre c\u00f3mo el narcisista se las arregla para enga\u00f1ar a todos a su alrededor (excepto a ti) haci\u00e9ndoles creer que es el dulce chico de al lado.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Es experto en mantener falsas apariencias<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Tu narcisista<\/span><\/a> no tendr\u00e1 ning\u00fan problema en gritarte en privado, humillarte y utilizarte, para luego salir de casa en cinco minutos con una sonrisa en la cara, ofreci\u00e9ndose a ayudar a su anciana vecina con la compra.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what\u2019s so scary about them. They have the perfect mask for when they need to be perceived as the good guy by others. <\/span><\/p>\n

The narcissist doesn\u2019t have any problems covertly mistreating you and then publicly offering a helping hand to a perfect stranger.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s his most dominant personality trait\u2014duplicity. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be shocked seeing him in public because the person YOU know is anything but that. And the worst part? No one will ever know.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Trata a los dem\u00e1s con amabilidad porque podr\u00eda necesitarlos en el futuro<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You never know when someone might come in handy; that\u2019s the narcissist\u2019s mantra. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca muestra su verdadero rostro a la gente porque piensa que podr\u00eda necesitar algo de ellos m\u00e1s adelante.<\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que se comporta como un \u00e1ngel en la tierra cuya \u00fanica misi\u00f3n es corregir todos los males del planeta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y t\u00fa (su v\u00edctima) eres la \u00fanica que conoce su lado oscuro oculto que guarda s\u00f3lo para ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Le gustar\u00eda poder advertir a la gente sobre \u00e9l, pero \u00bfc\u00f3mo podr\u00eda hacerlo exactamente? <\/span><\/p>\n

He controls your every move and if he finds out you did something like that behind his back, he\u2019d make sure to punish you like hell. So you just suffer in silence and pray it all ends soon.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Su encanto enga\u00f1oso desarma a la gente inmediatamente<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You can say what you want about the narcissist but damn it, he\u2019s nothing if not charming. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se trata simplemente de una habilidad innata con la que inmerecidamente naci\u00f3 (o aprendi\u00f3 a una edad temprana) y que le resulta extremadamente \u00fatil.<\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t take a lot for him to disarm the most suspicious person. <\/span><\/p>\n

Puede que al principio tengas tus sospechas e incluso pienses en enfrentarte a \u00e9l, pero ten por seguro que te tranquilizar\u00e1 y borrar\u00e1 todas tus dudas con una rapidez pasmosa.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll find yourself buying his lies and eating out of his hand within minutes. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll make you think you were insane to have such <\/span>problemas de confianza<\/span><\/a> con \u00e9l. Al fin y al cabo, es un joven caballero de modales perfectos y personalidad extrovertida.<\/span><\/p>\n

What\u2019s not to like? (Other than absolutely everything).<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Siempre tiene un plan para actuar como la v\u00edctima inocente<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"chico<\/p>\n

Los narcisistas SIEMPRE vienen preparados. Siempre hay un plan B y uno muy s\u00f3lido. <\/span><\/p>\n

He knows that he\u2019s always at risk of being exposed and he is prepared to defend himself should such a thing happen because he has many abuso narcisista<\/a> t\u00e1cticas en la manga. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ser\u00eda una tonter\u00eda pensar que descubrir sus mentiras ser\u00eda tan f\u00e1cil como cabr\u00eda esperar. Sabe c\u00f3mo culpar a su objetivo. <\/span><\/p>\n

He is perfect at using the victim card. He knows just how to assure people that it\u2019s not him\u2014it\u2019s you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me, I\u2019ve been there. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s baffling how quick they are on their feet and how (despite your genuine intentions and zero guilt) they always make you the fall guy for their every misdeed.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s infuriating and disappointing and completely destroys your psyche. I\u2019ve experienced this so many times first-hand. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y lo m\u00e1s doloroso de todo es que realmente se creen sus mentiras y disfrutan poni\u00e9ndote a parir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Their evil ALWAYS prevails and there is rarely anything one can do to stop them. It\u2019s mind-blowingly atrocious.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"C\u00f3mo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

By now, we\u2019re all familiar with the drill. I\u2019m sure you know how the narcissist\u2019s world works and how they prey on those who are most likely to be swayed and destroyed.  First comes the selection process. The narcissist picks a target. That person is usually somebody with beautiful qualities such as kindness, empathy, the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":45812,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45806","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/priscilla-du-preez-IV90P2k-2-0-unsplash.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45806","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45806"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45806\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45812"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45806"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45806"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45806"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}