{"id":45814,"date":"2019-10-28T16:09:37","date_gmt":"2019-10-28T16:09:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45814"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:18:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:18:34","slug":"ella-no-termino-con-el-amor-de-su-vida-pero-esta-es-la-razon-por-la-que-esta-bien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ella-no-termino-con-el-amor-de-su-vida-pero-esta-es-la-razon-por-la-que-esta-bien\/","title":{"rendered":"No acab\u00f3 con el amor de su vida, pero no pasa nada"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ve never been the type of girl who fantasized about a grandiose love story or pined after her one <\/span>amor verdadero<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not sure if that\u2019s because I subconsciously felt I could never find it or if I simply didn\u2019t care to.<\/span><\/p>\n

En mi caso, siempre me gust\u00f3 la cultura del ligue y las relaciones que nunca duraban m\u00e1s que mi trabajo temporal. <\/span><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t have much time to focus on love, because my life was complicated enough as it was.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that\u2019s when it happened.<\/span><\/p>\n

En el momento m\u00e1s imperfecto que jam\u00e1s hubiera podido prever. Cuando menos preparado estaba para conocerle, all\u00ed estaba.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Aparecer como en una escena de una pel\u00edcula en la que el chico entra, dice algo absolutamente adorable, te barre de los pies y te besa como si fuera en serio.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s at least how it felt at the time. And I was just standing there, slightly hesitant to admit to myself that what I was about to experience would take me for a spin and leave me forever changed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Like I said, I never really yearned for that move type of love that happens once in a lifetime, but that doesn\u2019t mean I didn\u2019t get to have it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y vaya si fue un subid\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por extra\u00f1o que resulte admitirlo, llegu\u00e9 a experimentar el tipo de amor sobre el que escriben las pel\u00edculas. <\/span><\/p>\n

El tipo de amor que los artistas ans\u00edan experimentar para tener material crudo y profundo sobre el que escribir. El amor que ves en la tele y piensas que no es realista.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hasta que te pase a ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Este tipo termin\u00f3 siendo <\/span><\/i>el amor de mi vida<\/span><\/i><\/a>. He showed me that everything I was so scared of wasn\u2019t that bad after all. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

He showed me that it\u2019s possible to find a person who worships the ground you walk on.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Era como si estuviera fuera de este reino. \u00bfC\u00f3mo pod\u00eda <\/span>I<\/span><\/i> ...de todas las personas, \u00bfconseguir a este tipo? El eterno pesimista. <\/span><\/p>\n

La eterna hastiada que nunca dur\u00f3 m\u00e1s de 3 meses con el mismo t\u00edo.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo he tenido tanta suerte?<\/span><\/p>\n

Este amor acab\u00f3 cambiando mi vida en m\u00e1s de un sentido. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Y a pesar de lo mal preparada que estaba para conocerle (lo que acab\u00f3 siendo mi mayor bendici\u00f3n), fue a\u00fan peor cuando estaba <\/i><\/b>al final se fue sin \u00e9l.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It was a tough blow, I won\u2019t lie. I couldn\u2019t eat, couldn\u2019t sleep, and was about to lose my damn mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

La chica que ni siquiera esperaba este tipo de historia de amor la consigui\u00f3, s\u00f3lo para perderla poco despu\u00e9s. \u00bfQu\u00e9 sentido ten\u00eda?<\/span><\/p>\n

Y aunque ahora pueda parecer una tonter\u00eda, eso ten\u00eda un sentido. Uno que yo no estaba preparado para ver en ese momento, pero al final todo tuvo sentido.<\/span><\/p>\n

Me di cuenta de que experimentar ese amor era algo que llevar\u00eda conmigo el resto de mi vida. Me cambi\u00f3. <\/span><\/p>\n

Me hizo ver el mundo con otros ojos. Me ayud\u00f3 a deshacerme de mi pesimismo y escepticismo y me devolvi\u00f3 la fe en el amor.<\/span><\/p>\n

Why would I choose to make myself so miserable over losing this guy? Shouldn\u2019t I be grateful that I got to experience something so profound, rare, and mind-blowingly beautiful?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, tanta gente pasa por la vida sin tener nunca el privilegio de conocer a esa persona que les hace sentir tan vivos como yo me sent\u00ed con mi chico. Tanta gente nunca aprende lo que significa experimentar la vida con <\/span>tu alma gemela<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y lo ten\u00eda. Tuve eso. Y elijo estar agradecido por esa experiencia. Elijo verla como la mayor bendici\u00f3n de mi vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Me hizo sentir viva. Me am\u00f3 m\u00e1s de lo que nunca cre\u00ed merecer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Adoraba todos mis defectos y se aseguraba de decirme lo feliz que le hac\u00eda cada d\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fue un verdadero cuento de hadas mientras dur\u00f3.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But here\u2019s what nobody tells you about the fairytale romance \u2013 in real life, you don\u2019t always get to keep the guy.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

A veces, la vida tiene otros planes y te juega una mala pasada.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

In the real world, love isn\u2019t something that is sure to last a lifetime. In real life, with real people, things happen and great loves get lost.<\/span><\/p>\n

La gente se va y terminas con <\/span>un coraz\u00f3n roto<\/span><\/a>. But the thing is, it\u2019s not always a bad thing. <\/span><\/p>\n

La gente sigue sus sue\u00f1os, y a veces esos sue\u00f1os te alejan de ellos.<\/span><\/p>\n

That doesn\u2019t make the love any less real. It doesn\u2019t mean what you had wasn\u2019t amazing and genuine.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que significa es que lleg\u00f3 con fecha de caducidad y ahora puedes elegir entre estar agradecido por haber tenido la oportunidad de experimentarlo o llorar hasta quedarte dormido cada noche.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Elijo ser feliz por haberle tenido en mi vida, por breve que haya sido. Elijo dejar que este amor me ayude a florecer y crecer para aprender a ser feliz con alguien nuevo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por mi bien, tengo que pasar al siguiente cap\u00edtulo.<\/span><\/p>\n

I will carry this man and what he did for me in my heart for the rest of my life. But it\u2019s time to find new happiness and prove to myself that this isn\u2019t the end of me.<\/span><\/p>\n

It was exquisite and it was profound. But now, it\u2019s time to keep going. This loss made me that much more willing to keep searching for my happily-ever-after.<\/span><\/p>\n

It may not be with the love of my life\u2026 but I will damn sure love again.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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