{"id":45830,"date":"2020-03-28T16:34:27","date_gmt":"2020-03-28T16:34:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45830"},"modified":"2022-02-26T16:58:16","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T16:58:16","slug":"9-senales-de-que-te-esta-poniendo-a-prueba-para-decidir-si-eres-material-para-novio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-senales-de-que-te-esta-poniendo-a-prueba-para-decidir-si-eres-material-para-novio\/","title":{"rendered":"9 se\u00f1ales de que te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba para decidir si eres un buen novio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Les guste admitirlo o no, lo cierto es que la mayor\u00eda de las mujeres ponen a prueba a los hombres.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to pick up a girl, it is quite probable that she\u2019ll put you through a series of shit tests right from the first date to see if you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/hombre-de-familia-15-razones-por-las-que-es-un-buen-novio\/\">material novio<\/a> antes de que acepte una relaci\u00f3n duradera contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Aseg\u00farate de pasar todas sus pruebas con <a href=\"https:\/\/f54fbsetdzizdl1xp7g2n12d1t.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">ESTA GU\u00cdA <\/a>que te ense\u00f1e todo lo que debes decir y hacer para hacerla tuya.<\/p>\n<p>Ver\u00e1s, la escena de las citas hoy en d\u00eda es dura, especialmente para las chicas. Muchos hombres atraen a las mujeres s\u00f3lo para usarlas sexual y emocionalmente, y terminan d\u00e1ndoles la espalda una vez que ven que pueden tenerlas, as\u00ed que hay muchas pruebas que las mujeres simplemente tienen que ponerles antes de dejarlos entrar en su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEres un buen tipo que merece una oportunidad o un imb\u00e9cil del que deber\u00eda huir?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEres el tipo de hombre que la lastimar\u00e1 o alguien que quiere el verdadero negocio?<\/p>\n<p>These are all the questions running through every girl&#8217;s mind before she even gives agrees on a second date, let alone sees you as someone deserving of her.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/f54fbsetdzizdl1xp7g2n12d1t.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105184\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-6.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"336\" height=\"280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-6.jpg 336w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-6-300x250.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-6-150x125.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 336px) 100vw, 336px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>That is what a woman&#8217;s tests are all about: to try to protect herself from getting hurt and get to the bottom of your intentions.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you see this as a pain in the ass, you simply can&#8217;t make women stop doing this.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que puedes hacer es aprender a responder a todas sus preguntas capciosas y asegurarte de que la dejas boquiabierta. <a href=\"https:\/\/cb760yftav6m4sfp--x-stbnb9.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">PULSE AQU\u00cd<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, la situaci\u00f3n en la que una mujer te pone a prueba es realmente buena para ti.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a sign that a girl likes you enough to consider having a future together and she wants something serious with you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a sign that she\u2019s fallen for you hard and now she just wants to see whether you\u2019re really worthy of her love and attention.<\/p>\n<p>Si no, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 gastar\u00eda su energ\u00eda en alguien temporal?<\/p>\n<p>However, guys who attract women know the difference between a girl who\u2019s testing them and one who\u2019s simply not interested.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s why we\u2019re here: to give you 9 telltale signs a woman is testing you, to help you pass each one of them, and to bring your dating life to the next level.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">She&#8217;s been hurt before<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74727 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-wearing-black-sweatshirt-sitting-on-outside-looks-thoughtful.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con sudadera negra sentada en el exterior parece pensativa\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-wearing-black-sweatshirt-sitting-on-outside-looks-thoughtful.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-wearing-black-sweatshirt-sitting-on-outside-looks-thoughtful-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-wearing-black-sweatshirt-sitting-on-outside-looks-thoughtful-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Usually, the girls who have a habit of putting men through shit tests before entering a long-term relationship with them are the girls who\u2019ve had a troubled and painful romantic history and been through hell in this harsh dating world.<\/p>\n<p>Ver\u00e1s, esta chica fue traicionada y enga\u00f1ada por la persona que m\u00e1s amaba.<\/p>\n<p>La abandon\u00f3 el chico que prometi\u00f3 estar a su lado hasta el fin de los tiempos, as\u00ed que se decepcion\u00f3 de todos los hombres y de todo el mundo de las citas.<\/p>\n<p>En consecuencia, desarroll\u00f3 una profunda <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/una-chica-con-problemas-de-confianza-te-ruega-que-no-hagas-estas-12-cosas\/\">problemas de confianza<\/a> y traumas emocionales.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/f54fbsetdzizdl1xp7g2n12d1t.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105188\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-10.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"336\" height=\"280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-10.png 336w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-10-300x250.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-10-150x125.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 336px) 100vw, 336px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Aunque hayan pasado a\u00f1os desde el suceso, esta chica a\u00fan arrastra mucha carga emocional de sus relaciones pasadas.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s learned how to be guarded and overly careful when it comes to men, because she expects that every guy she meets will treat her the way her ex did.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s simply scared that every next relationship she gets herself involved in will end up the same way and she\u2019ll be left crushed and devastated.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s exactly why she\u2019s developed a habit of testing guys before giving them full access to her heart.<\/p>\n<p>It is not that she\u2019s trying to see whether you match her impossible standards, she just wants to make sure that you care enough, that you\u2019re worthy of her love and attention.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong, this isn\u2019t me trying to tell you that you\u2019re obligated to pass all those tests or that you should pay for the things the men before you did.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, I\u2019m just trying to make you understand why she does what she does.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that every heartbroken girl will put her potential boyfriend through a series of shit tests, but the fact is that in most cases, women test men when they\u2019ve been hurt in their past relationships, and this is the thing you should pay attention to in the first place whenever you wonder if a girl is testing you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se hace la dif\u00edcil<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74717 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-around-trees.jpg\" alt=\"vista trasera de hombre y mujer sentados alrededor de \u00e1rboles\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-around-trees.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-around-trees-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-around-trees-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a girl likes you but is playing hard to get, that\u2019s one of the most important signs she is testing your patience.<\/p>\n<p>She wants to see how long you\u2019re prepared to wait before she lets you in her heart and bedroom.<\/p>\n<p>If a girl is testing you, she\u2019ll constantly pretend that she\u2019s running away from you just so she can see whether you\u2019ll go after her.<\/p>\n<p>However, she\u2019ll never actually get away from you completely.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, when women test you, they\u2019ll always remain at arm\u2019s length and within your reach \u2013 they just want to see whether you are ready to put in an effort and have enough inner confidence to come and get them.<\/p>\n<p>Also, this girl\u2019s probably scared that you\u2019ll lose interest the moment she shows you her feelings, so she pretends to act heartless instead.<\/p>\n<p>Tiene miedo de mostrar sus emociones porque eso tambi\u00e9n significar\u00eda exponer sus vulnerabilidades, debilidades y su lado fr\u00e1gil, lo que te dar\u00eda m\u00e1s oportunidades de hacerle da\u00f1o y destruir su confianza interior en alg\u00fan momento en el futuro.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t have to necessarily mean that this girl is into playing games.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, she probably just wants to see if you\u2019re someone who gives up easily or a strong man who knows what he wants and is ready to fight for the woman he cares for.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, this girl pretends to be a cold-hearted queen for most of the time, just to see if you\u2019re strong enough to break her walls. When that happens, she&#8217;ll be ready to call you by those <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nombres-de-contacto-de-los-novios\/\">lindo novio nombres de contacto<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s someone who rarely shows initiative, a girl who never makes the first move towards you and always leaves you wondering where you two stand.<\/p>\n<p>She won&#8217;t invite you for a second date, she won&#8217;t call you to meet up, and she won&#8217;t make any step towards you two being together.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74719 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/side-view-of-cute-girl-looking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de chica guapa mirando al exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/side-view-of-cute-girl-looking-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/side-view-of-cute-girl-looking-outside-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/side-view-of-cute-girl-looking-outside-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are times when you can\u2019t help but ask yourself if this girl likes you at all or she is just trying to make you catch her.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEst\u00e1 completamente desinteresada o realmente loca por ti?<\/p>\n<p>Well, there\u2019s a fine line between a girl who wants you out of her life and one who is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/una-mujer-fuerte-no-se-hace-la-dificil-es-dificil-de-conseguir\/\">jugando duro<\/a> \u2013 the real magic lies in your ability to differentiate between these two.<\/p>\n<p>When a girl is playing hard to get, her vibe and body language signs will show you that she\u2019s actually into for you.<\/p>\n<p>She can\u2019t help but flirt with you, stare at you, accidentally touch you, or be as close to you as possible.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t sleep with you on the first date, but she will give you hints that she finds you sexually attractive and might allow you to hold her hand or even kiss her.<\/p>\n<p>On the contrary, when she is not interested, she won\u2019t give you a place in her life at all.<\/p>\n<p>This girl probably won\u2019t ask you out first, but she\u2019ll definitely agree to meet you when you suggest something or offer a rain check.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, when she isn\u2019t interested, she\u2019ll refuse all of your proposals and always be too busy to see you or talk to you.<\/p>\n<p>A girl who is playing hard to get will never tell you that she likes you upfront, but she won\u2019t tell you that she is indifferent either, nor will she ever give you a flat no.<\/p>\n<p>However, when she\u2019s not interested, she won\u2019t hesitate to make things clear and leave you with no hope whatsoever.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te pregunta por tu pasado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74720 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-on-top-of-cliff.jpg\" alt=\"pareja en lo alto de un acantilado\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-on-top-of-cliff.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-on-top-of-cliff-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-on-top-of-cliff-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Otra forma que tienen las mujeres de ponerte a prueba es indagar en tu pasado y preguntarte por tu vida sentimental antes de ella.<\/p>\n<p>This girl is no exception: She\u2019ll try to find out if you\u2019re just a nice guy in disguise who only uses women for sex oractually nothing but a narcissist who enjoys breaking other people\u2019s hearts, and if she should run away from you pronto.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s perfectly normal that she wants to know if you\u2019re a classified abuser or a cheater, if you have a history of treating women like crap, and whether most of your relationships ended because of you.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de todo, si tienes mala reputaci\u00f3n en el mundo de las citas y eres conocido por ser un jugador que tiene la costumbre de utilizar a mujeres hermosas, \u00bfqu\u00e9 puede esperar ella de ti en el futuro y c\u00f3mo puede verte como material para novio?<\/p>\n<p>Also, she\u2019ll ask you about your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/carta-a-mi-ex-novia-siento-haberte-hecho-dano\/\">ex-novias<\/a> para comprobar su car\u00e1cter.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEres un imb\u00e9cil que habla mal de la persona junto a la que pas\u00f3 a\u00f1os o sigues tratando a tu ex con respeto, aunque el amor que le ten\u00edas se haya ido hace tiempo?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEst\u00e1s dispuesto a derramar toda la basura que tienes sobre ella s\u00f3lo para quedar mejor, o eres un hombre maduro que asume su parte de responsabilidad?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEntrar\u00e1 en detalles al hablar de sus ex o seguir\u00e1 siendo un caballero que sabe exactamente cu\u00e1nto debe decir?<\/p>\n<p>Do you have a habit of staying friends with your exes? Do you still have feelings for someone from your past and are you trying to use her as your rebound? No, this girl won\u2019t ask you any of these questions upfront.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, ella encontrar\u00e1 todas las respuestas que necesita con s\u00f3lo escuchar todo lo que tienes que decir sobre tu historia rom\u00e1ntica.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que tienes que tener en cuenta es que esta chica probablemente sabe mucho m\u00e1s de lo que crees.<\/p>\n<p>She probably already has all the answers but just wants to know whether you\u2019ll be honest enough to tell her your side of the story.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Habla de sus ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74721 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-and-woman-kissing-together.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer besandose\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-and-woman-kissing-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-and-woman-kissing-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-and-woman-kissing-together-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re looking for obvious signs that a girl is putting you through some shit tests to learn more about you, pay attention to the way she talks about her exes, without you even having to ask her about them.<\/p>\n<p>There are a few things she can find out about you while mentioning her ex, such as whether you have a tendency to be a possessive jealous jerk and how you\u2019d react in certain situations.<\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00faltimo que deber\u00edas hacer es hacerte el ofendido porque ella tuvo el descaro de mencionar a alguien con quien sali\u00f3 antes que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you two aren\u2019t kids and you are very well aware that you\u2019re involved with a woman who has a past.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, ser\u00eda grosero y de mal gusto que empezara a hablar de alg\u00fan detalle \u00edntimo relacionado con uno de sus ex novios, pero todo lo dem\u00e1s es perfectamente normal.<\/p>\n<p>Bear in mind that the two of you are getting to know each other, so it\u2019s natural that she wants to briefly introduce you to her romantic history.<\/p>\n<p>Quiere que sepas m\u00e1s sobre el tipo de chicos que le gustan, lo que no le gusta y las cosas que le gusta hacer. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-cosas-que-las-mujeres-seguras-nunca-toleran-en-las-relaciones\/\">doesn\u2019t tolerate in a relationship.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Pay close attention to every word she says because she\u2019s trying to send you a subtle message.<\/p>\n<p>This girl will monitor your reaction if she, for example, tells you that she\u2019d been <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/lee-esto-si-te-han-enganado\/\">enga\u00f1ado<\/a> o abusado en el pasado.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEst\u00e1s indignado o lo ves como algo que simplemente ocurre y que posiblemente har\u00edas?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se encuentra contigo con sus amigas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74730 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/male-typing-on-his-phone-while-two-female-looking-at-him-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre escribiendo en su tel\u00e9fono mientras dos mujeres lo miran fuera\" width=\"800\" height=\"546\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/male-typing-on-his-phone-while-two-female-looking-at-him-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/male-typing-on-his-phone-while-two-female-looking-at-him-outside-1-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/male-typing-on-his-phone-while-two-female-looking-at-him-outside-1-768x524.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, a girl knows that she likes you but that\u2019s not enough for her to make up her mind about you.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s probably so blindsided by the depth of her emotions that they affect her judgment- skills.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s scared that she\u2019ll fail to see you for who you really are or disregard your numerous flaws due to the fact that she\u2019s crazy for you and scared that she\u2019ll make the wrong choice if she lets her heart decide.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, necesita un punto de vista m\u00e1s realista.<\/p>\n<p>She needs someone who doesn\u2019t care about you and see you through rose-tinted glasses, but also someone whose opinion she can trust.<\/p>\n<p>And who\u2019s better for the job than her friends who won&#8217;t hesitate to tell her everything upfront?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, when she meets you with her BFFs, it\u2019s a surefire sign that the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/como-saber-si-le-gustas-a-una-chica-senales-de-que-esta-loca-por-ti\/\">chica le gustas<\/a> and there\u2019s a huge step ahead.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a sign that she has serious intentions with you and wants to make you a part of her life.<\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, ninguna chica presenta a sus seres queridos un ligue cualquiera o una aventura casual, as\u00ed que eso te hace muy especial.<\/p>\n<p>However, it\u2019s also a test for you.<\/p>\n<p>En primer lugar, quiere saber si la gente en la que conf\u00eda y a la que quiere cree que sois una buena pareja.<\/p>\n<p>What is her friends\u2019 intuition telling them about you?<\/p>\n<p>How do they evaluate you: as a nice guy who\u2019s worthy of her or a douchebag who has a chance of breaking her heart?<\/p>\n<p>You might think of this as silly, but that\u2019s how things function among girls.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, she\u2019s a grown woman and doesn\u2019t need anyone\u2019s permission to be with you, but that doesn\u2019t mean that her BFFs cannot help you win her heart even more (or lose her for good).<\/p>\n<p>Another thing she\u2019s trying to test is how well you would fit in her life.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPodr\u00edas llevarte bien con sus amigos m\u00e1s \u00edntimos o ser\u00edas un paria en su c\u00edrculo social?<\/p>\n<p>Knowing all of this, you understand the importance of leaving a great first impression on this girl\u2019s friends.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t forget to act like a gentleman with manners, but show them that you have enough self-esteem and strength of character as well, because the last thing you want is them advising her to put you in the friend-zone.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te pide ayuda<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74722 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-decorating-room-painting-wall-in-blue.jpg\" alt=\"pareja decorando habitacion, pintando pared en azul\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-decorating-room-painting-wall-in-blue.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-decorating-room-painting-wall-in-blue-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-decorating-room-painting-wall-in-blue-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the signs she&#8217;s testing you is also hidden in the way she asks for your help.<\/p>\n<p>No importa lo autosuficiente que sea una chica, toda mujer quiere tener un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-comportamientos-que-revelan-que-estas-saliendo-con-un-hombre-mentalmente-fuerte\/\">hombre mentalmente fuerte<\/a> a su lado.<\/p>\n<p>Even if she doesn\u2019t actually need you, she wants to know that she can rely on you, that you can protect her, and that she can count on you at all times.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s exactly what she needs to make sure of before she starts anything serious with you.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEs usted uno de esos hombres capaces de hacer que las mujeres se sientan seguras y protegidas? \u00bfO un tipo que la abandona cuando m\u00e1s lo necesita?<\/p>\n<p>Puedes esperar que te llame para pedirte que le eches una mano con alg\u00fan recado en casa, que le cambies la rueda pinchada o simplemente para pedirte consejo.<\/p>\n<p>Watch out because she\u2019s only doing this to test whether you&#8217;re ready to give her the first place in your life!<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEst\u00e1s listo para dejar a todos colgados s\u00f3lo para correr a ayudarla?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfVendr\u00edas a recogerla en mitad de la noche si te lo pide, aunque tengas que madrugar a la ma\u00f1ana siguiente?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfO la dejar\u00edas sola con sus problemas e ignorar\u00edas sus peticiones de ayuda?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEst\u00e1s preparado para compartir tu vida con ella y ser su compa\u00f1ero, incluso cuando las cosas se pongan dif\u00edciles?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTienes lo que hay que tener para ser su hombro sobre el que llorar y puedes ser el hombre que la empuje hacia adelante cuando est\u00e9 a punto de caer?<\/p>\n<p>These are all some deeper and bigger things she\u2019ll conclude based on your behavior in these seemingly unimportant situations.<\/p>\n<p>You need to show this girl that you have the capacity to be her rock \u2013 that you\u2019re a real, mature man. However, you also need to be careful not to get used.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t act like a puppy who\u2019ll come running whenever she calls you, because that\u2019ll only put you in the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-senales-alarmantes-de-que-tu-relacion-se-dirige-hacia-la-friendzone\/\">zona de amigos<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, strike a balance: Show her that she can count on you, but that you won\u2019t be her personal assistant. This way, she\u2019ll appreciate you the most.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Menciona muchos detalles sobre s\u00ed misma<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74729 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-at-coffee-bar.jpg\" alt=\"hombre hablando con una mujer en la barra de un caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-at-coffee-bar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-at-coffee-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-at-coffee-bar-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Women are much different to a lot of men. They pay attention to the little things \u2013 to dates and details \u2013 while men in most cases couldn\u2019t care less about those things, no matter how deeply they care for someone.<\/p>\n<p>When a woman tests you and is trying to find out how much she means to you, she\u2019ll tell you a lot about herself.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll give you loads of information that might seem irrelevant to you, such as her favorite color, the name of her first pet, or her favorite childhood memory.<\/p>\n<p>These are all the things you have to remember in detail if you want to pass her shit tests, because otherwise, she\u2019ll conclude that you aren\u2019t listening to her, aren\u2019t paying attention to anything she\u2019s saying, and in the end, don\u2019t give a damn about her.<\/p>\n<p>Suena agotador y demasiado dram\u00e1tico, lo s\u00e9. Sin embargo, las cosas son as\u00ed y tienes que asumirlo si quieres ligar con la chica que te gusta.<\/p>\n<p>You have to notice every change about her appearance, even if it isn\u2019t that obvious.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, don\u2019t dare forget her birthday, the date when the two of you met, or her best friend\u2019s name.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ella retiene el sexo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74724 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/blurred-face-of-persons-kissing-while-holding-cup-of-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"cara borrosa de personas bes\u00e1ndose mientras sostienen una taza de caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/blurred-face-of-persons-kissing-while-holding-cup-of-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/blurred-face-of-persons-kissing-while-holding-cup-of-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/blurred-face-of-persons-kissing-while-holding-cup-of-coffee-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be honest, we all enjoy having sex. All of us have physical needs and crave to sleep with someone we are attracted to.<\/p>\n<p>And this girl is no exception. No matter what she\u2019s trying to make you think, if she\u2019s involved with you, she probably <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/her\/inside-her-mind\/8-senales-inequivocas-de-que-una-mujer-quiere-acostarse-contigo-pero-intenta-ocultarlo\/\">can\u2019t wait to sleep with you<\/a> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n<p>However, she won\u2019t do it until she realizes sex is not the only thing on your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she\u2019ll probably withhold sex for a while and use it as a way to test your feelings for her.<\/p>\n<p>This is the girl who doesn\u2019t want to have casual physical relations or a no-strings-attached relationship and she\u2019s checking if that\u2019s what you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s offering the real deal and the whole package, meaning that you can\u2019t get her body without her mind and her heart.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you turn your back on her the moment you realize she isn\u2019t willing to sleep with you just yet, it means you only wanted to use her for sex.<\/p>\n<p>It means you aren\u2019t interested in her as a person and only had one thing in mind ever since you met her.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you\u2019re ready to wait until she becomes comfortable enough to sleep with you and the two of you reach a different level of intimacy, it\u2019s more than clear that you\u2019re a guy who\u2019s worthy of her giving you her entire being.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you shouldn\u2019t mention or initiate sex at all (because that would make her think you\u2019re not attracted to her or that there\u2019s something wrong with you) or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/como-ligar-con-una-chica-10-metodos-que-funcionan-a-las-mil-maravillas\/\">coquetea con ella<\/a>, but you need to learn how to accept when she tells you &#8220;no&#8221; upfront, despite what her vibe and body language might be telling you.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of pushing her past her limits and showing her that you\u2019re nothing but an immature jerk who only cares about getting laid, respect this girl\u2019s personal boundaries and I assure you that she\u2019ll respect you as a man too.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no need for her to be apologizing for the fact that she\u2019s still not ready to sleep with you and you should have no problem with that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">She\u2019s testing you through text<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74723 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-typing-phone-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"hombre tecleando el telefono en un cafe\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-typing-phone-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-typing-phone-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-typing-phone-at-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una de las pruebas m\u00e1s comunes que las mujeres imponen a sus hombres es a trav\u00e9s de los mensajes de texto.<\/p>\n<p>Hay muchas se\u00f1ales de que te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba a trav\u00e9s de un mensaje de texto y \u00e9stas son las m\u00e1s comunes:<\/p>\n<h3>Nunca te manda un mensaje primero<\/h3>\n<p>If a girl\u2019s not interested in you, you can send her a million texts and never get her to communicate with you.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, when it comes to the girl who\u2019s putting you through some shit tests, the situation is quite different.<\/p>\n<p>El hecho es que tu comunicaci\u00f3n siempre fluye cuando los dos est\u00e1is hablando.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s apparent that she wants you to continue talking, but she\u2019s never the one who initiates anything;she never texts you first.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s more than obvious that this girl doesn\u2019t want to appear desperate.<\/p>\n<p>Es una <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/10-maneras-diferentes-de-amar-para-las-almas-viejas\/\">alma vieja<\/a> y piensa que t\u00fa, como hombre, deber\u00edas hacer siempre los primeros movimientos.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, this is also part of her test. She wants to see if you are really into her or will give up as soon as you don\u2019t get the reaction you want.<\/p>\n<h3>Sus respuestas se retrasan<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74716 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone.jpg\" alt=\"hombre infeliz escribiendo en su tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a woman doesn&#8217;t respond to your texts right away without giving you an explanation or apologizing for her rude behavior, the first thing that comes to your mind is that she\u2019s not interested.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, tambi\u00e9n puede ser una de las se\u00f1ales de que te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba.<\/p>\n<p>This is nothing more that this woman&#8217;s test \u2013 her way of seeing whether you\u2019ll wait for her to text you back or immediately move on to the next beautiful woman you meet.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfVas en serio con ella o es s\u00f3lo una m\u00e1s en una larga lista?<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, la cuesti\u00f3n es que siempre responde, tarde o temprano.<\/p>\n<p>She just doesn\u2019t want you to think that she spends her entire day eager for you to text her, that she doesn\u2019t have anything better to do than to text with you.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, es una de las formas que tienen las mujeres de poner a prueba a los hombres para comprobar su paciencia y su autoestima.<\/p>\n<p>Will you go all crazy if she takes hours to respond or will you just say &#8220;no problem&#8221; and accept it as something perfectly normal?<\/p>\n<h3>Pone el m\u00ednimo esfuerzo en responder<\/h3>\n<p>Otra de las pruebas de mierda a las que las chicas someten a los hombres al enviar mensajes de texto es esforzarse lo m\u00ednimo en responder.<\/p>\n<p>While she does respond to your text, her messages are always short and put you in a position in which you have to drag words out of her. Trust me, if you\u2019re annoying her, she would\u2019ve blocked you ages ago.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s clear that she\u2019s interested but she wants to see how hard you\u2019re willing to try to win her attention over.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74714 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/9-Signs-She-Is-Testing-You-To-Decide-If-Youre-Boyfriend-Material-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"9 se\u00f1ales de que te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba para decidir si eres un buen novio \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/9-Signs-She-Is-Testing-You-To-Decide-If-Youre-Boyfriend-Material-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/9-Signs-She-Is-Testing-You-To-Decide-If-Youre-Boyfriend-Material-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whether they like to admit it or not, the truth is that most women test men. If you want to pick up a girl, it is quite probable that she\u2019ll put you through a series of shit tests right from the first date to see if you\u2019re boyfriend material before she actually agrees on entering&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":74715,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45830","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/9-Signs-She-Is-Testing-You-To-Decide-If-Youre-Boyfriend-Material.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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