{"id":46068,"date":"2019-11-01T15:43:08","date_gmt":"2019-11-01T15:43:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46068"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:08:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:08:40","slug":"4-senales-de-que-tu-hombre-es-un-paranoico-abusivo-y-4-maneras-de-manejarlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-senales-de-que-tu-hombre-es-un-paranoico-abusivo-y-4-maneras-de-manejarlo\/","title":{"rendered":"4 se\u00f1ales de que tu hombre es un paranoico abusivo (y 4 formas de solucionarlo)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una peque\u00f1a dosis de celos es perfectamente normal en cualquier relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s even healthy to a degree because it proves <\/span>tu pareja<\/span><\/a>\u2019s loyalty and affection.<\/span><\/p>\n

When somebody is jealous, it means they care, otherwise they wouldn\u2019t even notice you talking to another guy.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfc\u00f3mo determinar si sus celos le est\u00e1n convirtiendo poco a poco en un novio abusivamente paranoico?<\/span><\/p>\n

Where is the line? How much jealousy is acceptable, and when is it time to consider doing something about it out of fear he\u2019s beginning to cross a line? <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca aceptes un comportamiento abusivo s\u00f3lo porque encuentres excusas en tu cabeza.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 honesto contigo mismo y antep\u00f3n tus necesidades por una vez. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed tienes signos claros como el agua de que sus celos se est\u00e1n convirtiendo en paranoia abusiva, que deber\u00edan ayudarte a determinar tus pr\u00f3ximos pasos.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

1. At first \u2013 he seems too good to be true<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Al principio, invirti\u00f3 mucho en <\/span>tu relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a>. Te lo daba todo, te trataba como a una reina y no ten\u00eda ojos para nadie m\u00e1s. <\/span><\/p>\n

You genuinely felt like he was a gift from God that never stopped giving\u2014until it all slowly started changing.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. He starts pointing out every little thing that\u2019s wrong with you<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Puede ser por varias cosas. Tu forma de vestir es demasiado provocativa; deber\u00edas ponerte algo menos revelador. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te maquillas demasiado, lo que har\u00e1 que los chicos se te acerquen. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t cook dinner on time, and now he has to wait an extra hour to eat. It can be anything, really. Slowly but surely, he\u2019ll start complaining more and more.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re never honest enough according to him<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You tell him where you are, who you\u2019re with, and every little detail about everything\u2014and it STILL isn\u2019t enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

He always badgers you about hiding things and accuses you of lying. You know it\u2019s not true, but you just can\u2019t prove it to him, and it\u2019s becoming a problem.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. He doesn\u2019t forgive and forget<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No para de recordarte cada peque\u00f1a cosa mala que has hecho. Ya nunca olvida. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s like he wants to keep punishing you for every misdeed so that you always know your place and never repeat any mistakes. <\/span><\/p>\n

He forgets that you\u2019re only human and making mistakes is our way of growing and evolving.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now that we\u2019ve covered the main signs of his worrisome behaviour, let\u2019s try to find a way to handle it in the best manner.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Creo que una conversaci\u00f3n sincera es siempre una buena manera de proceder.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Try to talk to him. Confront him about it and see where it goes. If it doesn\u2019t work, here are 4 suggestions on how to handle his abusive paranoia and <\/span><\/i>ocuparse de <\/span><\/i><\/a>por una vez.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

1. Cortar de ra\u00edz<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

As\u00ed es como funciona. En el momento en que muestre esta paranoia exagerada, responde inmediatamente a ella. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he accuses you of not checking in with him and lying about your whereabouts, explain to him that it\u2019s simply not true. <\/span><\/p>\n

Siempre le dices d\u00f3nde est\u00e1s y nunca escondes nada. Es m\u00e1s, p\u00eddele un ejemplo de esa supuesta mentira y ver\u00e1s c\u00f3mo se rasca la cabeza.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Read between the lines and answer the BIG question (that\u2019s hiding in the little one)<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say he asks you about that new guy you\u2019re working with. He is clearly suspicious that there\u2019s something going on as he won\u2019t stop asking about him. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never ask straight up: <\/span>\u2018\u2019Are you fucking that dude?\u2019\u2019<\/span><\/i> but you\u2019ll know that\u2019s what he\u2019s insinuating. <\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que la pr\u00f3xima vez que pregunte por \u00e9l, responde: <\/span>\u2018\u2019I know where you\u2019re going with this and NO, I\u2019m not unfaithful. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

The only guy I want to sleep with is standing in front of me.\u2019\u2019<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t let him test your love<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Nunca estoy de acuerdo <\/span>juegos mentales <\/span><\/a>o demostrar tu amor haciendo esto, aquello o lo otro. \u00a1Eso es para mocosos inmaduros! <\/span><\/p>\n

Either he accepts you as you are or he can keep looking. True love doesn\u2019t need tests; it\u2019s strong enough to withstand jealousy spells. <\/span><\/p>\n

Let him know you won\u2019t stand for that. He can either accept it or move on. You\u2019re nobody\u2019s puppet, and it\u2019s time he finally realized that.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Juega su juego<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Si sigue dudando de ti, investig\u00e1ndote y haci\u00e9ndote demostrar tu lealtad, haz lo mismo. <\/span><\/p>\n

La pr\u00f3xima vez que te pregunte por tu paradero, preg\u00fantale por el SUYO. Y cuando te lo diga, act\u00faa como la compa\u00f1era celosa y p\u00eddele pruebas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Demu\u00e9strale que dos pueden jugar a ese juego. Esperemos que esto le haga darse cuenta de lo paranoico que se ha vuelto y le haga parar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Let him know clearly that if it doesn\u2019t, he\u2019s going to lose the best thing that\u2019s ever happened to him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Los celos est\u00e1n bien hasta cierto punto, pero la paranoia no es algo que vayas a tolerar nunca m\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

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