{"id":46086,"date":"2019-11-01T16:16:15","date_gmt":"2019-11-01T16:16:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46086"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:18:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:18:27","slug":"esconderse-del-mundo-5-formas-de-hacerlo-y-como-ser-visto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esconderse-del-mundo-5-formas-de-hacerlo-y-como-ser-visto\/","title":{"rendered":"Esconderse del mundo: 5 formas de hacerlo y c\u00f3mo ser visto"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 la gente se esconde del mundo?<\/b><\/p>\n

For some people, life is a piece of cake.  They get what they want at a moment’s notice, and they don’t have to worry about the things you have on <\/span>tu mente<\/span><\/a> a diario.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life treats them kindly, and struggling is not something they’re familiar with. <\/span><\/p>\n

Para esas personas, el <\/span>el mundo entero<\/span> est\u00e1 lleno de infinitas posibilidades, ya que rara vez tienen que salir de su <\/span>zona de confort<\/span>. Todo viene a <\/span>ellos<\/span><\/i>.<\/span><\/p>\n

But for the other half of people, things aren’t as peachy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Algunos optan por blindar sus <\/span>verdadero yo<\/span> del mundo para proteger sus <\/span>autoestima<\/span> porque <\/span>experiencias pasadas<\/span> les han ense\u00f1ado a hacerlo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Para esas personas (<\/span>introvertidos<\/span> y <\/span>emp\u00e1ticos<\/span> especialmente), explicando <\/span>c\u00f3mo te sientes<\/span> cuando la vida te hace querer esconderte <\/span>tu aut\u00e9ntico yo<\/span> no es una opci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esconderse del mundo es tu <\/span>mecanismo de afrontamiento<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un viaje a <\/b>autoaceptaci\u00f3n<\/b> es dif\u00edcil, llena de retos y <\/b>experiencias humanas<\/b> que los que se esconden del mundo tratan desesperadamente de evitar. <\/b><\/p>\n

Pero estas personas son la sal de la tierra. <\/b><\/p>\n

Estas personas son el tipo de seres humanos capaces de hacer grandes cosas si encontraran la manera de volver a estar en contacto con el mundo. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si usted es una de esas personas que ha elegido esconderse del mundo porque le parece m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil ir por la vida de esa manera, esta es <\/span><\/i>para ti<\/span><\/i><\/a>.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Salir de <\/b>tu cabeza<\/b> y ver el mundo a trav\u00e9s de tu <\/b>mejor amigo<\/b><\/a>‘s eyes would show you so much light, love, and possibility.<\/b><\/p>\n

Encontrar la manera de superar tu traicionero <\/span>instituto<\/span> experiencias te har\u00edan ver el mundo con un poco m\u00e1s de claridad.<\/span><\/p>\n

Elegir vivir la vida como si cada d\u00eda fuera tu \u00faltimo d\u00eda te ayudar\u00eda a mejorar tu <\/span>salud emocional<\/span> y mostrarte que una mala <\/span>experiencia personal<\/span> doesn’t mean the <\/span>el mundo entero<\/span> ...va a por ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Elegir hacer <\/span>contacto visual<\/span><\/a> con la gente en la calle en lugar de inclinarse perpetuamente <\/span>tu cabeza<\/span> abajo te har\u00eda ver que hay gente buena ah\u00ed fuera. <\/span><\/p>\n

Una sonrisa genuina de un desconocido en la calle tiene la capacidad de mejorar tu d\u00eda, aunque s\u00f3lo sea durante un breve minuto. Todav\u00eda cuenta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Escudarte del mundo s\u00f3lo va a prolongar tu desafortunado <\/span>experiencia personal<\/span> en este mundo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deja de esconderte<\/span> qui\u00e9n eres; <\/span>recoger<\/span> el tel\u00e9fono y llame a su <\/span>mejor amigo<\/span>. Inv\u00edtales a una aventura y ay\u00fadales a ayudarte.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todo empieza con un peque\u00f1o paso que tiene el poder de cambiar gradualmente todo tu mundo y sacarte de la rutina.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si eres culpable de hacer estas 5 cosas, sin duda te est\u00e1s escondiendo del mundo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Que esto te sirva de llamada de atenci\u00f3n y te ayude a que te vuelvan a ver.<\/b><\/p>\n

1. Te guardas tus opiniones (por miedo al rechazo)<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You’ve learned not to share your truth anymore. There was once a time when you were open and honest with everyone who came your way. <\/span><\/p>\n

Antes te resultaba tan f\u00e1cil y reconfortante poder compartir tu <\/span>verdadero yo<\/span> con la gente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero entonces la vida se interpuso. Un mal tras otro fue deteriorando poco a poco tu modo de vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cosas que antes parec\u00edan <\/span>realizable<\/span> se han convertido en una carga. La gente con la que te gustaba socializar se ha vuelto distante. <\/span><\/p>\n

Incluso le han etiquetado como persona con <\/span>trastornos de la personalidad<\/span> debido a tu repentina necesidad de esconderte.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y todos esos factores te han hecho poco a poco <\/span>qui\u00e9n eres ahora<\/span><\/a>\u2014a person who’s afraid to speak your mind. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ya no te sientes libre para abrirte a nadie, ya que estar callado en tu peque\u00f1a burbuja es mucho m\u00e1s sencillo. <\/span><\/p>\n

From an outgoing, carefree person you’ve become but a shell of the person you used to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Evitas el contacto visual a toda costa<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Mirar a la gente directamente a los ojos es ahora una experiencia desalentadora. Temes lo que pueda ocurrir. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t know how they’ll respond to you anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfTe sonreir\u00e1n o te mirar\u00e1n con mala cara por estorbarles? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfVas a encontrarte con gente que tiene un mal d\u00eda y, por tanto, se desquita contigo por el simple hecho de existir cerca de ellos?<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s too much for you. You simply can’t fathom being ridiculed, yelled at or looked at funny. <\/span><\/p>\n

It may be hard for people to understand this, but life hasn’t been easy for you, and this is your <\/span>mecanismo de afrontamiento<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re not doing anyone any harm. You’re not trying to hurt anyone. You simply want to stay out of everyone’s way and keep to yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

That way, your quiet, solitary bubble is intact, and you don’t have to come into contact with anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is now your sad reality, and you’re just trying to make the best of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Nunca inicias una conversaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Even if you used to be a chatterbox who enjoyed starting important discussions and who would never shy away from starting a conversation that nobody else had the courage to, now you’re a far cry from that person.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t mind being present, but the thought of actually starting a conversation and expressing yourself so publicly and risking embarrassing yourself is the last thing on your mind. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eres muy bueno escuchando y quiz\u00e1s ofreciendo consejo cuando te lo piden, pero aparte de eso, mantienes la boca cerrada.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life has knocked you down and spat you out, so you don’t really expect people to understand your unwillingness to put yourself out there.<\/span><\/p>\n

But you know what brought you here and you know how hard it is to live life this way, yet, you have no choice\u2014at least that’s what you tell yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y as\u00ed es como tu existencia (tal y como la conoc\u00edan todos tus allegados) ha perecido en el olvido un d\u00eda tras otro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Incluso su <\/span>mejor amigo<\/span> tiene problemas para conseguir que <\/span>para abrir<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

La gente intenta por todos los medios que vuelvas a ver la belleza de la vida y que salgas de tu caparaz\u00f3n, pero t\u00fa, por necesidad, sigues escondi\u00e9ndote del mundo y buscando consuelo en tu peque\u00f1a burbuja privada.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. You’ve stopped going to gatherings and friendly get-togethers<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s triste de tu necesidad de protegerte del mundo es el declive gradual de tu vida social. <\/span><\/p>\n

What used to be a community of people whom you loved and appreciated above all else is now a distant memory that you’ve distanced yourself from.<\/span><\/p>\n

And why? Because you don’t believe you have what it takes to be the old you anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

This is out of fear that those closest to you will come to realize that you’re no longer the person they grew to love and being rejected by them would completely crush you, possibly to the point of no return.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfY qu\u00e9 haces? Decides ser t\u00fa quien corte todo contacto. <\/span><\/p>\n

You decide to be the one responsible for the demise of your friendships\u2014and all because of a fear that’s not realistic or plausible.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tus amigos te quieren. Siguen queriendo que est\u00e9s en sus vidas por mucho que t\u00fa sigas pensando lo contrario.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those you’ve kept closest to your heart would never just abandon you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t let your <\/span>experiencias pasadas<\/span> dictan tus relaciones actuales. Se merecen algo mejor de ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let them show you why you chose them in the first place, and that way, you’ll see that there’s no point in hiding from the world. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, it’s complex and tricky, but your little circle is worth every single moment of your time.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Te mientes a ti mismo para justificar tus actos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Deep down, you know that this isn’t right. You know that this newfound need to shield yourself from the world is just a <\/span>mecanismo de afrontamiento<\/span> for everything you’ve been through. And yet, you keep doing it.<\/span><\/p>\n

I get it, though. It’s easier that way. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando inventas historias en tu mente sobre por qu\u00e9 tienes que faltar a esa cena de cumplea\u00f1os o no presentarte a otra reuni\u00f3n familiar, etc\u00e9tera, etc\u00e9tera, evitas sentirte culpable por hacerlo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You tell yourself that everybody would just be on your case the entire time and that by not showing up, you’re just avoiding a possible argument.<\/span><\/p>\n

Skipping your friend’s birthday dinner is due to your lack of energy for any social gathering, so you don’t go because you tell yourself you’d just ruin the mood and bring everyone down.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whichever route you choose, you’ve got an excuse in <\/span>tu cabeza<\/span> para sentirte mejor.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero d\u00e9jame decirte algo. Tu familia y tus amigos preferir\u00edan verte incluso en tu peor d\u00eda que no verte en absoluto. <\/span><\/p>\n

That’s what love is all about. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t get to pick and choose which days you love them. It’s through thick and thin, good days and <\/span>d\u00edas malos.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo volver a ser visto?<\/b><\/p>\n

Choose carefully who you spend time with. Have you ever thought that maybe the reason why you’re hiding from the world is the people you keep in it? <\/span><\/p>\n

Make some changes, and weed out everything that doesn’t make you want to be a better person, including the people you’ve just now realized are deteriorating your emotional growth. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s never too late to figure out who’s right for you and who needs to go.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let yourself be seen for who you are as opposed to who you’ve convinced yourself you are. <\/b><\/p>\n

When you let the wrong people go, you make it easier for the right ones to see you for the person you’ve always been.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfHas intentado cambiar tu visi\u00f3n de la vida? S\u00ed, puede apestar mucho. <\/span><\/p>\n

La gente puede acabar con tu energ\u00eda, y las cosas horribles que ves en las noticias cada d\u00eda son simplemente devastadoras.<\/span><\/p>\n

But there’s a bright side to everything. <\/span><\/p>\n

There’s your mom who would do anything to see a smile on your face. <\/span><\/p>\n

There are your siblings who would show up in a matter of minutes to spend the day with you. There’s your dad who would do anything to protect you.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you start seeing all that, it’s going to be hard staying immune to it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hay mucha gente dispuesta a ayudarte. Y tu perspectiva pesimista te impide verlo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cambia tu visi\u00f3n del mundo en su conjunto y empieza a ver a las personas de TU mundo que realmente merecen la pena. <\/b><\/p>\n

It’s such a simple change in your thought process, yet so significant for your growth and happiness.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cambiar de perspectiva puede cambiar su <\/span>el mundo entero<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo tienes que estar dispuesto a salir de <\/span>tu cabeza<\/span> and stop shielding yourself from seeing all the good that’s going on around you. Open your eyes and let yourself SEE.<\/span><\/p>\n

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