{"id":46121,"date":"2019-11-01T22:45:46","date_gmt":"2019-11-01T22:45:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46121"},"modified":"2022-01-10T00:25:46","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T00:25:46","slug":"al-tipo-que-se-suponia-que-iba-a-ser-mas-que-un-capitulo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/al-tipo-que-se-suponia-que-iba-a-ser-mas-que-un-capitulo\/","title":{"rendered":"Al tipo que se supon\u00eda que iba a ser m\u00e1s que un cap\u00edtulo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando alguien te deja, el mero hecho de pasar por un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-maneras-de-reencontrarse-a-si-mismo-tras-una-ruptura-demoledora\/\">ruptura devastadora<\/a> suele ser lo m\u00e1s doloroso de todo.<\/p>\n<p>Tu coraz\u00f3n est\u00e1 destrozado y, de repente, tienes que aprender a vivir sin el hombre que era el centro de tu mundo y al que echas much\u00edsimo de menos.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que aceptar que este chico dej\u00f3 de quererte y que simplemente debes seguir con tu vida sin \u00e9l en ella.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re forced to come to terms with the fact that you have to move on without him who was the most important person to you.<\/p>\n<p>And yes, going through something like this is always difficult, but when it comes to us individually, it\u2019s actually the easiest part.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando se trata de nosotros dos, la situaci\u00f3n es bastante diferente.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, me destroz\u00f3 que me abandonaras, que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-necesita-cartero-abandonado\/\">me abandonaste cuando te necesitaba<\/a>y que me dejaste atr\u00e1s sin mirar atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><b>Sin embargo, lo que me duele a\u00fan m\u00e1s es el hecho de que s\u00f3lo estuviste temporalmente en mi vida.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> I\u2019m crushed that, at the end of the day, you didn\u2019t turn out to be my forever person, despite all of my hopes and desires.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46122\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/raychan-bRoLBgaxnFg-unsplash1.jpg\" alt=\"chica de pie cerca del r\u00edo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/raychan-bRoLBgaxnFg-unsplash1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/raychan-bRoLBgaxnFg-unsplash1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/raychan-bRoLBgaxnFg-unsplash1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, ahora por fin puedo decirlo en voz alta sin sentir que alguien me apu\u00f1ala directamente en el coraz\u00f3n: <b>you and I were just chapters in each other\u2019s lives. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Y lo peor es que se supon\u00eda que \u00edbamos a ser mucho m\u00e1s.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When I met you, I didn\u2019t think that you would storm right through my life the way you did.<\/p>\n<p>Desde el primer momento, te quise tanto que nunca imagin\u00e9 un d\u00eda en el que nuestra historia no ser\u00eda m\u00e1s que parte de la historia antigua.<\/p>\n<p>Vi todo en ti: un novio, un amigo \u00edntimo y un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/futuro-marido-lo-siento-castigar-las-cosas-nunca\/\">futuro marido<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Te ve\u00eda como mi compa\u00f1ero de vida, el hombre junto al que podr\u00eda envejecer, mi alma gemela y mi pareja hecha en el cielo.<\/p>\n<p>I was certain that you and I were meant to be together \u2013 that we both spent our entire lives preparing ourselves for our encounter.<\/p>\n<p>Pensaba que las fuerzas divinas quer\u00edan que acab\u00e1ramos juntos y que nada ni nadie podr\u00eda separarnos.<\/p>\n<p>Qu\u00e9 tonta soy, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n<p>Supongo que no era m\u00e1s que una chica ingenua y rom\u00e1ntica que esperaba m\u00e1s de lo que pod\u00eda conseguir.<\/p>\n<p><b>Porque nunca me viste como tu \"m\u00e1s uno\" de toda la vida, \u00bfverdad? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Nunca me consideraste m\u00e1s que alguien que te acorta los d\u00edas, te hace pasar un buen rato y te da calor por las noches.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46123\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/priscilla-du-preez-Ls4_qixfBeQ-unsplash1.jpg\" alt=\"chica sola en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/priscilla-du-preez-Ls4_qixfBeQ-unsplash1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/priscilla-du-preez-Ls4_qixfBeQ-unsplash1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/priscilla-du-preez-Ls4_qixfBeQ-unsplash1-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Para ti, nunca fui m\u00e1s que una chica temporal que te sirvi\u00f3 bien hasta que lleg\u00f3 alguien mejor. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00f3lo era conveniente y adecuado en un momento dado, pero, por desgracia, tard\u00e9 demasiado en darme cuenta de ello.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Para ti, yo s\u00f3lo era un cap\u00edtulo, mientras que para m\u00ed, t\u00fa eres un libro entero.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Despite the fact that we\u2019re over, you still remain the central character of my story, while you never gave me anything besides a supporting role in yours.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, admitir esto ante m\u00ed mismo apesta.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not only an attack to my heart \u2013 it\u2019s a real ego destroyer.<\/p>\n<p>However, after a lot of thought, now I know that this situation doesn\u2019t decrease my value as a woman.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m not enough, nor does it make me any less worthy.<\/p>\n<p>So, instead of lamenting the past, I\u2019ll do my best to start writing a new life chapter.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll accept that this one is finished, leave you on the shelf of my heart, and treat you like a distant memory.<\/p>\n<p>I will wait for a man who won\u2019t have doubts about whether I\u2019m the one.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46124\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/w-a-t-a-r-i-z7FKZpx0WSY-unsplash2.jpg\" alt=\"chica mirando por la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"505\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/w-a-t-a-r-i-z7FKZpx0WSY-unsplash2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/w-a-t-a-r-i-z7FKZpx0WSY-unsplash2-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/w-a-t-a-r-i-z7FKZpx0WSY-unsplash2-768x485.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A man who\u2019ll be <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-razones-para-dejar-ir-a-un-chico-que-no-esta-seguro-de-ti\/\">seguro de m\u00ed<\/a> y verme como mucho m\u00e1s que alguien pasajero.<\/p>\n<p><b>I will wait for a man who\u2019ll make me the star of his movie.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> For one who\u2019ll never be in need of other actresses. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Un hombre que quiere terminar su libro conmigo a su lado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-46126\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel86-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Al tipo que se supon\u00eda\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel86-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel86-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel86-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel86.jpg 794w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When someone leaves you, the mere act of going through a devastating breakup is usually the biggest pain about it all. Your heart is crushed and all of a sudden you have to learn to live without the man who was the centre of your world and whom you miss like hell. You have to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":46125,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46121","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/dmitry-schemelev-h5xANSOT2qY-unsplash2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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