{"id":46181,"date":"2019-11-04T19:19:13","date_gmt":"2019-11-04T19:19:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46181"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:04:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:04:07","slug":"ella-no-dejo-de-amarte-ella-te-supero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ella-no-dejo-de-amarte-ella-te-supero\/","title":{"rendered":"No dej\u00f3 de quererte - Te super\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"

En el momento en que esta chica te abandon\u00f3, te apresuraste a echarle toda la culpa del fracaso de vuestra relaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin asumir un \u00e1pice de responsabilidad, la acusaste de dejarte colgado, de ser ego\u00edsta y despiadada, y de no importarle un bledo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Supongo que para ti era m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil asumir que simplemente se desenamor\u00f3 de ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Era conveniente compadecerte de ti mismo como v\u00edctima de una chica despiadada que se levant\u00f3 una ma\u00f1ana y decidi\u00f3 echarte de su vida y de su coraz\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Things were pretty simple from your point of view: You were obviously the one who cared more because you\u2019d never have broken up with her for good. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por otro lado, quiz\u00e1 nunca te quiso lo suficiente o simplemente dej\u00f3 de quererte. <\/span><\/p>\n

Either way, the point remains: You\u2019re the one left heartbroken and hurt, while she\u2019s out there living her life as if you were never a part of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

These are all the thoughts that have been running through your head lately, aren\u2019t they? <\/span><\/p>\n

She\u2019s the only one guilty for the fact that you didn\u2019t make it and there\u2019s absolutely nothing you could do to compensate for this girl\u2019s lack of emotions.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that you can\u2019t be more wrong. This woman never stopped loving you, she just outgrew you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Odio tener que dec\u00edrtelo, pero ella madur\u00f3 y empez\u00f3 a querer m\u00e1s de lo que t\u00fa pod\u00edas darle. <\/b><\/p>\n

And I\u2019m not talking about finances here \u2013 she just surpassed your relationship and <\/b>you simply weren\u2019t enough<\/b><\/a> para ella.<\/b><\/p>\n

Madur\u00f3 hasta el punto de dejar de conformarse con tu esfuerzo servil. <\/span><\/p>\n

Stopped considering herself lucky just for having a boyfriend who doesn\u2019t cheat on her or abuse her, yet doesn\u2019t do anything for the benefit of their relationship either.<\/span><\/p>\n

Super\u00f3 sus fantas\u00edas de que el amor verdadero debe ser una lucha constante, que los celos son se\u00f1al de sentimientos rom\u00e1nticos profundos y que la pasi\u00f3n y las mariposas son lo que hace que merezca la pena luchar por una relaci\u00f3n. <\/b><\/p>\n

Se dio cuenta de que todas estas cosas son en realidad t\u00f3xicas y que una relaci\u00f3n sana deber\u00eda ser un puerto pac\u00edfico en lugar de una monta\u00f1a rusa de emociones que te hace sentir inc\u00f3modo todo el tiempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Super\u00f3 su necesidad de perseguir y ser perseguida.<\/b><\/p>\n

Dej\u00f3 atr\u00e1s los juegos mentales, las se\u00f1ales confusas, el pensar y analizar en exceso y el no saber nunca a qu\u00e9 atenerse.<\/span><\/p>\n

En cambio, se dio cuenta de que necesita algo m\u00e1s estable para el resto de su vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t need a man who represents a constant challenge <\/b>\u2013 she needs someone who\u2019ll feel like home and whose love will calm her instead of constantly ruin her peace.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

She outgrew you \u2013 an immature mama\u2019s boy who doesn\u2019t have a clue about what he wants in life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Un tipo que sigue atascado mental y emocionalmente en su adolescencia sin metas futuras, obsesionado con juegos infantiles y necesitado de aprobaci\u00f3n y de que le suban el ego.<\/span><\/p>\n

This girl didn\u2019t stop loving you \u2013 she matured enough to understand that sometimes <\/span>el amor no basta<\/span><\/a>a pesar de su fuerza y profundidad. <\/span><\/p>\n

She evolved to realize that she\u2019s not the same person she was when she met you, while you remained at the exact same level.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ahora es m\u00e1s lista, m\u00e1s sabia y lo sabe mejor que nadie. Se da cuenta de que en alg\u00fan momento dejasteis de ser compatibles y nunca podr\u00edais triunfar en el mundo real.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ahora sabe que los dos quer\u00e9is cosas diferentes de la vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

That you\u2019re not interested in working on yourself and taking your relationship to another level. And that is something she no longer is willing to settle for.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

She sees that while she became the woman she was always destined to be, you\u2019ll never become the <\/b>hombre que ahora necesita<\/b><\/a> a su lado.<\/b><\/p>\n

That you\u2019ll never get your shit together and make something out of your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por duro que pueda sonar, esta chica se dio cuenta de que <\/span>la estabas reteniendo, en lugar de empujarla hacia adelante<\/b>. <\/span><\/p>\n

La estabas derribando, en lugar de ser el viento de sus alas.<\/b><\/p>\n

La estabas manteniendo estable en lugar de inspirarla para que se convirtiera en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de s\u00ed misma.<\/b><\/p>\n

So no, despite all of your doubts, she didn\u2019t stop loving you \u2013 you\u2019ve just stopped fitting in her life, as selfish as that might make her.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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