{"id":46460,"date":"2019-11-07T02:05:12","date_gmt":"2019-11-07T02:05:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46460"},"modified":"2022-06-25T09:50:46","modified_gmt":"2022-06-25T09:50:46","slug":"10-etapas-para-conseguir-el-compromiso-de-un-jugador","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-etapas-para-conseguir-el-compromiso-de-un-jugador\/","title":{"rendered":"10 etapas para conseguir el compromiso de un jugador"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfConoces a ese chico guapo que te da mariposas y que hace tu vida mucho m\u00e1s emocionante? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfEl chico con el que sabes que no tienes futuro, el chico que nunca ha tenido una relaci\u00f3n seria antes que t\u00fa y el chico que, obviamente, tiene profundos problemas de compromiso?<\/span><\/p>\n

Mirando las cosas desde esta perspectiva, la primera pregunta que cualquiera con un poco de cordura se har\u00eda es \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 alguien as\u00ed resultar\u00eda atractivo para las mujeres?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, the fact is there doesn\u2019t exist a woman who hasn\u2019t run into <\/span>un jugador<\/span><\/a> al menos una vez en su vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

To make things even worse\u2013there probably doesn\u2019t exist a woman who hasn\u2019t tried converting this player into a decent man (but failed).<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re a woman who hasn\u2019t been through this pointless voyage just yet and you\u2019re still convinced that you can get a player to commit, here are 10 stages you\u2019ll definitely go through!<\/span><\/p>\n

1. You think you\u2019re also playing<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Al principio, cuando conoces a un chico que se niega a comprometerse y al que le van los juegos de citas modernos, te enga\u00f1as a ti mismo<\/a> that you\u2019re playing along. <\/span><\/p>\n

You see this arrangement as fun and exciting and you think you\u2019re enjoying yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

What you don\u2019t see is that you\u2019re in no way participating in all of this voluntarily. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, you\u2019re just a puppet in his toxic hands and before you know it, you\u2019re dragged into his games.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Lo ves como un reto<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La siguiente etapa es verlo como un reto. Tienes como objetivo ser t\u00fa quien cambie su forma de ser y abra su coraz\u00f3n al amor.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, who could do it, if not you? What other girl would be worthy of him becoming a mature man who doesn\u2019t have any trouble committing and dedicating himself to a serious relationship?<\/span><\/p>\n

You decide to put all of your efforts in to achieving your goal and you don\u2019t see failure as an option.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. You hope that he\u2019ll change<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Junto con todo esto, tus esperanzas aumentan. A pesar de la evidente realidad, empiezas a vivir en un pa\u00eds de ensue\u00f1o en el que un d\u00eda este chico se convertir\u00e1 en el hombre que quieres y necesitas que sea.<\/span><\/p>\n

You completely disregard everything happening around you, all the clear signals he\u2019s been sending and all the banderas rojas que te dicen que corras por tu vida<\/a>. En cambio, basas todos tus planes de futuro en una simple esperanza, que no tiene fundamento.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Pones todo tu empe\u00f1o en<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de eso, empiezas a intentar <\/span>hacer que este tipo se comprometa<\/span><\/a>. You\u2019re putting in maximum effort and trying out different options and tactics.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the one hand, you decide to show him that you\u2019re the only woman in this world who deserves a place in his heart. <\/span><\/p>\n

You decide to make him realize that true love is beautiful and something he shouldn\u2019t be running away from.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, por otro lado, a veces piensas que lo mejor ser\u00eda darle a probar de su propia medicina. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n intentas hacerte la dif\u00edcil, esperando a que \u00e9l venga a ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Sufres<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Antes de que te des cuenta, acabas atrapada en ese c\u00edrculo sin fin en el que t\u00fa pones todo tu empe\u00f1o y a \u00e9l le importa un bledo, en un c\u00edrculo en el que intentas que \u00e9l venga a ti y te pierdes a ti misma en el proceso.<\/span><\/p>\n

You feel this inevitable pain because you see you\u2019re the only one fighting, the only one trying and the only one trying to build something out of this relationship which is doomed to fail.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te guste admitirlo o no, tu coraz\u00f3n se est\u00e1 rompiendo poco a poco en mil pedazos. <\/span><\/p>\n

La tristeza te abruma hasta el punto de convertirse en lo \u00fanico que sientes.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Empiezas a perder la esperanza<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

After a while, you start to lose hope. You admit to yourself that this isn\u2019t going anywhere and that all of your efforts were actually in vain.<\/span><\/p>\n

A pesar de que es lo \u00faltimo que quieres hacer y por mucho que te duela, empiezas a mirar la verdad a los ojos. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. Te rindes<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Finally, after all the pain and everything you\u2019ve been through, you accept the harsh and brutal truth: this <\/span>el hombre nunca cambiar\u00e1<\/span><\/a> y que nunca te quiso como t\u00fa quer\u00edas. <\/span><\/p>\n

In the end, it doesn\u2019t matter whether he\u2019s emotionally damaged or if he is just not that into you, the bottom line is that he will never commit and that it\u2019s time to give up<\/a> sobre \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

That is exactly what you do\u2013you kick him out of your life, finally understanding it is the only real option you have.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Intenta curar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

However, just because you face things the way they really are for the first time ever, it doesn\u2019t mean that you are perfectly fine. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por el contrario, esto no es m\u00e1s que el principio de su proceso de recuperaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is the stage in which you\u2019re <\/span>curar y herir<\/span><\/a> al mismo tiempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

There are days when you feel like you\u2019ll die without him, when you feel like you\u2019ll miss him forever and days when you regret not taking another chance. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, there are also days when you know you did the right thing, days when your smile doesn\u2019t have anything to do with him and days when you know you\u2019ll be better.<\/span><\/p>\n

9. Aprendes de tus errores<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Simult\u00e1neamente, aprendes algunas lecciones valiosas. Ves que todo sucede por una raz\u00f3n e incluso le das las gracias a Dios por haberte salvado a tiempo de este hombre.<\/span><\/p>\n

You learn that you can\u2019t change anyone and you decide never to try doing anything similar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aprendes que nunca debes poner todo tu empe\u00f1o en reparar a un hombre roto y quedarte al margen mientras tanto.<\/span><\/p>\n

10. Sigues adelante<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Finalmente, \u00a1sigues adelante! S\u00ed, lo has o\u00eddo bien: te olvidas de ese tipo, le perdonas y tu vida sigue adelante, como si nunca hubiera formado parte de ella.<\/span><\/p>\n

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