{"id":46587,"date":"2019-11-07T14:01:29","date_gmt":"2019-11-07T14:01:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46587"},"modified":"2022-07-15T07:41:20","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T07:41:20","slug":"estar-roto-no-es-culpa-tuya-pero-recuperarte-es-tu-responsabilidad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estar-roto-no-es-culpa-tuya-pero-recuperarte-es-tu-responsabilidad\/","title":{"rendered":"Estar roto no es culpa tuya, pero recuperarte es tu responsabilidad"},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u00f3lo quer\u00edas a alguien a quien amar y alguien que te amara, \u00bfverdad?<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quer\u00edas ser suyo para siempre, algo que durara para variar.<\/span><\/p>\n

But this story didn’t turn out the way you hoped.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not your fault you fell for someone who didn\u2019t know how to treat you right. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not your fault he hurt you so badly. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not your fault you picked the wrong one; they all pretend they are perfect in the beginning. <\/span><\/p>\n

You couldn\u2019t see this mess would evolve eventually. You were blinded by the love you had for him. <\/span><\/p>\n

You did nothing wrong. Don\u2019t blame yourself. That\u2019s just his voice inside your head telling you that you are the one to blame. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s just his lousy behavior toward you that made you feel like you are not enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

Era m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil echarte la culpa a ti que reconocer que lo que hab\u00eda hecho estaba mal. <\/span><\/p>\n

Era m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil encontrar los defectos en ti que admitir los suyos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Exig\u00eda respeto, pero nunca te lo mostr\u00f3. Quer\u00eda que le quisieras, pero nunca supo corresponderte.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que dieras lo mejor de ti mientras \u00e9l daba lo peor. <\/span><\/p>\n

El mal en \u00e9l domin\u00f3 al bien y t\u00fa acabaste pagando el precio m\u00e1s alto. <\/b><\/p>\n

Te rompi\u00f3 emocionalmente, puede que incluso f\u00edsicamente. Te trat\u00f3 como nadie merece ser tratado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te mostr\u00f3 su lado bueno e hizo que te enamoraras de \u00e9l. Luego te mostr\u00f3 el infierno y te hiri\u00f3 como nunca nadie lo hab\u00eda hecho. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todo lo que ha pasado es culpa suya, no tuya. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esto es lo que hace, juega este juego demasiado bien. No ten\u00edas ninguna oportunidad. Un cordero nunca tiene oportunidad cuando se enfrenta a un le\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re hurting now, your heart is bleeding but don\u2019t let the pain consume you. Face the pain, put on a fight because healing yourself is your biggest task. <\/b><\/p>\n

No tuviste nada que ver con que \u00e9l te rompiera pero ahora tienes todo que ver con reparar lo que \u00e9l rompi\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s your responsibility to recoge esos pedazos rotos de tu coraz\u00f3n y de tu alma<\/a> y pegarlas de nuevo. <\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00e9galos tan firmemente que nadie pueda destruirlos nunca m\u00e1s. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Esta<\/p>\n

This is your chance now. It’s time for a lamb to show the world what it’s made of. It’s time for you to show to others that you’re not as fragile as they’d assumed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se trata de que tomes las riendas de tu vida y pases p\u00e1gina. Est\u00e1s en la zona cero y no hay otro sitio al que ir que hacia arriba.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Choose yourself. Empower yourself. Coming back up on your feet will, in fact, be your victory. It’s time to show him how a broken heart shines.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deja de pensar en lo que pas\u00f3, deja de pensar en \u00e9l y en todo lo que podr\u00eda y deber\u00eda haber pasado, en todas esas cosas que pasaron y que nunca debieron pasar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ya no sale en la foto. No es importante. Sus acciones doler\u00e1n menos y menos con cada d\u00eda que pase. <\/span><\/p>\n

No es m\u00e1s que un sentimiento pesado en tu coraz\u00f3n, que te hace da\u00f1o incluso cuando no est\u00e1 ah\u00ed.   <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow the scars he left behind to control your life. Find it in yourself to be better than that. Don\u2019t allow him to still have power over you. <\/b><\/p>\n

Life is not always fair and we don\u2019t get to come out of it without any scars. But our scars are reminders of our strength, of our fierceness. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tus cicatrices te marcar\u00e1n el camino a partir de ahora. Te mostrar\u00e1n los patrones, te permitir\u00e1n reconocer a la gente como \u00e9l y no enamorarte nunca de nadie as\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tus cicatrices est\u00e1n ah\u00ed para contar la historia de lo mucho que te golpe\u00f3 y magull\u00f3 la vida, pero sobreviviste.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sobrevivir\u00e1s y llevar\u00e1s esas cicatrices como medallas despu\u00e9s de una guerra. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres un luchador, t\u00fa eres tu propio sistema de apoyo, t\u00fa eres el que tiene el poder de levantarte cuando te sientes mal. <\/b><\/p>\n

Mornings are hell for you now, I know. But with each day you choose to not let him get the best of you, they’ll start being less of a hell. <\/span><\/p>\n

Day by day. Decision by decision… Take that fight.<\/span><\/p>\n

Las noches intentar\u00e1n asfixiarte, tus l\u00e1grimas ser\u00e1n tu mayor enemigo hasta que las conviertas en tu aliado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Let them come. Don’t hold them back. Eventually, they’ll stop coming. Pick that battle.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mot\u00edvese y haz que cada d\u00eda cuente.<\/a> Recuerda que naciste para ser feliz en esta vida, as\u00ed que persigue esa felicidad. <\/span><\/p>\n

Take a pen, scratch the past away and start writing a new book entitled \u2018BUILDING MY LIFE FROM SCRATCH AND FINDING SELF-LOVE\u2019.<\/b><\/p>\n

Begin a new life and don\u2019t make him a part of it<\/a>. Piensa en lo que necesitas conseguir y d\u00f3nde quieres estar en el futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Toma la decisi\u00f3n de ponerte a ti primero y c\u00famplela. Haz cosas que te hagan sentir bien. Ac\u00e9rcate a tus seres queridos. Acumula fuerzas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t waste a second of your precious time reviewing the past. Concentrate on now and tomorrow as yesterday is irrelevant. Yesterday can\u2019t be changed. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Siempre estuviste destinada a alguien mejor que \u00e9l.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca fue el elegido. Era todas las sombras del equivocado. Te mostr\u00f3 lo que el amor nunca debe sentir. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te mereces a alguien mejor<\/a>…someone genuine, honest, loving and kind. Someone who makes you feel safe and protected instead of hurt and scared. <\/span><\/p>\n

But not even the right man can take the pain away; it\u2019s all in your hands. It\u2019s all up to you. <\/b><\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres el responsable de tu curaci\u00f3n. Eres tu propio superh\u00e9roe. Y vas a salvarte a ti mismo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lo har\u00e1s, cr\u00e9elo con todo tu coraz\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

One day you will find sense in this chaos and you will realize that although you are not responsible for the bad things that happened to you, they shaped you into a stronger, bolder woman who doesn\u2019t allow anyone to disrespect her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t doubt yourself. You got this. Take it one day at a time. The road to recovery is long, full of ups and downs, but it\u2019s worth the ride like no other. On it, you will discover your best self. <\/span><\/p>\n

Le tom\u00f3 tiempo romperte, te tomar\u00e1 tiempo sanar. Pero tienes que recorrer ese camino. <\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00eda a d\u00eda. Paso a paso. Hasta que lo dejes kil\u00f3metros atr\u00e1s, justo donde debe estar. Atr\u00e1s. En el pasado.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Estar<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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