por qu\u00e9 el cierre es tan importante<\/a>t.<\/p>\nCuando consigues tu cierre, obtienes alg\u00fan tipo de remordimiento por parte de la persona que rompe contigo o que te ha hecho da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n
You get a \u2018sorry\u2019, you get a reason.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s scientifically proven that people who are shown remorse are more likely to forgive.<\/p>\n
In other words, forgiveness won\u2019t represent that much of a problem.<\/p>\n
La persona que te hizo da\u00f1o est\u00e1, en cierto modo, asumiendo la responsabilidad de lo que hizo.<\/b><\/p>\n
That\u2019s why it\u2019s so much easier to get past it.<\/b><\/p>\n
Also, realizing a person is sorry for what they did doesn\u2019t leave a dark cloud over your experience.<\/p>\n
On the contrary, it gives you hope and a ray of light shining upon what\u2019s to come.<\/p>\n
Te deja pensando que las cosas mejorar\u00e1n. <\/p>\n
\u00bfQu\u00e9 ocurre cuando el dolor te llega deliberadamente?<\/b><\/p>\n
Of course, it\u2019s not the same.<\/p>\n
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There are people out there who enjoy pain\u2014they enjoy causing pain and being surrounded by it.<\/p>\n
Les hace sentirse poderosos y al mando.<\/p>\n
\u00bfDeber\u00edas perdonar a esas personas?<\/p>\n
Of course not. Forgiveness doesn\u2019t work that way. <\/p>\n
It\u2019s one thing forgiving a person who is unaware they harmed you; it\u2019s completely something else forgiving a person who is out to get you, just to make you suffer. <\/b><\/p>\n
As\u00ed que te pregunto, \u00bfhay necesidad de perdonar?<\/p>\n
Do you feel you need to forgive or do you just think you have to because it\u2019s the right thing to do?<\/p>\n
You see\u2026 that is exactly what I\u2019m talking about.<\/p>\n
No, you don\u2019t always have to forgive.<\/p>\n
Tienes que procesar lo que te ha pasado.<\/p>\n
Tienes que entenderlo y tienes que curarte.<\/p>\n
You have to hold that person responsible for what they did to you and you don\u2019t even have to let them know.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s important you share your pain with someone, a therapist or a friend.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s important to let everything you\u2019re feeling out and never hold those feelings bottled deep down.<\/p>\n
Forgiveness is always welcome but it\u2019s not essential.<\/p>\n
If you don\u2019t have the power to forgive in you, make sure you always learn from your mistakes and most importantly…<\/p>\n
No, you don\u2019t always have to forgive but you always have to move on.<\/b><\/p>\n
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