{"id":47033,"date":"2020-11-11T18:12:13","date_gmt":"2020-11-11T18:12:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47033"},"modified":"2021-10-29T15:36:57","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T15:36:57","slug":"6-turbias-razones-por-las-que-tu-ex-narcisista-quiere-seguir-siendo-tu-amigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-turbias-razones-por-las-que-tu-ex-narcisista-quiere-seguir-siendo-tu-amigo\/","title":{"rendered":"6 turbias razones por las que tu ex narcisista quiere seguir siendo tu amigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quiere usarte para sus juegos enfermizos<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Aunque tu ex narcisista <\/a>ya no forma parte de tu vida, har\u00e1 todo lo posible por estar cerca de ti.<\/p>\n

You see, you may have ended your relationship but he doesn\u2019t accept that. <\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t accept the fact that you are no longer his victim he will use as he wants.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t cope with the fact that he can\u2019t suck all your energy out and make you feel miserable just so he could feel better. He can\u2019t accept that you decided to move on. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he will act like a person you don\u2019t recognize just to crawl back to you. Since he is good at psychology, he won\u2019t do it right away.<\/p>\n

Te dejar\u00e1 un par de d\u00edas para que empieces a pensar m\u00e1s en \u00e9l. <\/p>\n

Y cuando est\u00e9s m\u00e1s vulnerable, cuando est\u00e9s sola en mitad de la noche, te enviar\u00e1 un mensaje dici\u00e9ndote c\u00f3mo te echa de menos.<\/p>\n

Inventar\u00e1 una historia tan triste que tu alma emp\u00e1tica probablemente caer\u00e1 en ella. <\/p>\n

But what he is doing is just leading you on and getting what he wants. He doesn\u2019t want to love you, he wants to suck you dry and once he finishes with you, just move on to another victim. <\/p>\n

He can\u2019t stand the fact that YOU ended the relationship <\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u00c9l era el dominante todo el tiempo en vuestra relaci\u00f3n mientras t\u00fa obedec\u00edas todas sus reglas.<\/p>\n

Your voice couldn\u2019t be heard and you did exactly what he wanted. <\/p>\n

Eras todo lo que \u00e9l quer\u00eda que fueras pero, de repente, algo cambi\u00f3. Decidiste poner punto y final a vuestra relaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n

Despertaste de un sue\u00f1o y te negaste a ser maltratada por el hombre que m\u00e1s amabas.<\/p>\n

Arruinaste todos sus planes al dejarlo y esa es la raz\u00f3n principal por la que siempre te perseguir\u00e1. <\/p>\n

He won\u2019t give you any peace because he has nobody to abuse anymore.<\/p>\n

Has herido su ego, lo m\u00e1s importante para \u00e9l, y eso es algo que nunca te perdonar\u00e1. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he will always be there, wherever you go. He will try to do everything in his power to ruin your life just because things didn\u2019t work out like he wanted.<\/p>\n

So, when he comes and tells you he wants to be your friend, don\u2019t buy it. <\/p>\n

Please don\u2019t buy it because giving him a chance to be close to you again is like giving him another bullet to kill you because he missed the first time. <\/p>\n

Quiere mantenerte cerca para poder romper contigo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Si terminas una relaci\u00f3n con un narcisista, lo m\u00e1s probable es que te persiga m\u00e1s adelante.<\/p>\n

You see, he can\u2019t stand the fact that you got all that power all of a sudden and that you decided to assert yourself with him. <\/p>\n

\u00c9l era el fuerte en vuestra relaci\u00f3n mientras que t\u00fa eras la sumisa. Pero t\u00fa cambiaste y lo hiciste sin su aprobaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n

And surprising him in this way is definitely not what he wanted. That\u2019s why he will do anything to stay friends with you.<\/p>\n

Si sigue siendo tu amigo, tendr\u00e1 una oportunidad m\u00e1s de hacerte da\u00f1o. <\/p>\n

Tendr\u00e1 otra oportunidad de lavarte el cerebro y, si es lo bastante bueno, le creer\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Si act\u00faa bien, volver\u00e1s con \u00e9l y volver\u00e1s a sufrir. Si te dice las mentiras perfectas, todo volver\u00e1 a ser igual. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t let him come close to you. You shouldn\u2019t believe what he has to say.<\/p>\n

You should run as soon as you see him because he won\u2019t waste any time. <\/p>\n

Actuar\u00e1 con rapidez. Aprovechar\u00e1 cada momento para enga\u00f1arte. Tratar\u00e1 de agarrarte con sus garras una vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Please be strong and don\u2019t let that happen. <\/p>\n

He can\u2019t stand seeing you be happy <\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

Your narcissistic ex can\u2019t stand seeing you be happy without him. He knows that you will recover with your friends and that you will forget all about him. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he will use every single moment to be close to you so he can brainwash you again.<\/p>\n

Te dir\u00e1 algo dulce, algo que sabe que te enamorar\u00e1, para conquistarte de nuevo. <\/p>\n

Al principio, parecer\u00e1 que ha cambiado, pero si le das otra oportunidad, continuar\u00e1 desde donde se detuvo.<\/p>\n

Te usar\u00e1 y abusar\u00e1 de ti en cuanto vea que le has vuelto a dar todo el control. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you should be persistent and not allow him to come into your life again.<\/p>\n

Te arruin\u00f3 la vida una vez y lo volver\u00e1 a hacer si se lo permites. <\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, hagas lo que hagas, al\u00e9jate de \u00e9l y c\u00e9ntrate en tu curaci\u00f3n. Tu \u00fanica forma de salvaci\u00f3n es estar lo m\u00e1s lejos posible de \u00e9l. <\/p>\n

Quiere tener acceso sexual <\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Otra raz\u00f3n por la que tu ex narcisista quiere que se\u00e1is amigos es que quiere tener acceso sexual.<\/p>\n

Si usted seguir siendo su amigo<\/a>...al final aprovechar\u00e1 la situaci\u00f3n para intentar acostarse contigo. <\/p>\n

And that is definitely not what you need right now. After you have gained the strength to walk away from him, don\u2019t ruin everything by going back to him and his abuso narcisista<\/a> t\u00e1cticas. <\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo te usar\u00e1 y te tirar\u00e1, como hizo la \u00faltima vez.<\/p>\n

Acabar\u00e1s con el coraz\u00f3n roto, sin saber qu\u00e9 hacer a continuaci\u00f3n. Tendr\u00e1s la cabeza hecha un l\u00edo y te arrepentir\u00e1s mucho de haber vuelto con \u00e9l. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t accept his invitation, no matter how cute or sweet he might be. Don\u2019t give him boyfriend benefits if he is not your boyfriend. <\/p>\n

Because once you enter that hell again, you won\u2019t be able to come out of it. Stay strong and don\u2019t go back to him anymore.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, es la mejor manera.  <\/p>\n

Quiere controlarte de nuevo <\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Antes te controlaba y se sent\u00eda todopoderoso. Pero cuando le dejaste, todo su mundo se vino abajo.<\/p>\n

He couldn\u2019t believe you were strong enough to do something like that. <\/p>\n

Pero lo hiciste y \u00e9l es como un lobo herido, lami\u00e9ndose las heridas e intentando idear un plan para reconquistarte.<\/p>\n

Because he doesn\u2019t miss you, he misses having control over you. <\/p>\n

Su trastorno de personalidad le impide actuar como una persona normal.<\/p>\n

Necesita herir a alguien para sentirse bien. <\/p>\n

Y la forma m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil era herirte a ti, la que lo amaba hasta la luna y de vuelta. Ten\u00eda todo el control que quer\u00eda y lo quiere de vuelta. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he will try to use any means necessary to win you over again.<\/p>\n

He will tell you that he has changed and that he will treat you better. He will lie that he loves you and that he doesn\u2019t want to lose you. <\/p>\n

But the real truth is that he is just trying to find a good way to sneak back into your life again so he can abuse you both mentally and physically. Please don\u2019t let him get away with this and stay away from him.<\/p>\n

Date la oportunidad de una nueva vida y olv\u00eddate de \u00e9l. <\/p>\n

Alguien m\u00e1s sabr\u00e1 apreciar todo el amor y el cari\u00f1o que te tienes. Alguien m\u00e1s te amar\u00e1 como tu ex nunca supo hacerlo.<\/p>\n

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