{"id":47253,"date":"2019-11-12T21:51:25","date_gmt":"2019-11-12T21:51:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47253"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:58:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:58:14","slug":"un-tipo-que-hace-estas-5-cosas-no-merece-una-segunda-oportunidad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/un-tipo-que-hace-estas-5-cosas-no-merece-una-segunda-oportunidad\/","title":{"rendered":"Un chico que hace estas 5 cosas no merece una segunda oportunidad"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las cosas pasan, las relaciones atraviesan pruebas dolorosas y la gente comete errores. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s the course of life. So it\u2019s really not the end of the world if your man has made a mistake or hurt you completely involuntarily.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estas cosas pasan en la vida, y aprender a dejar ir y seguir adelante es la clave para una vida exitosa, feliz y saludable.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces te ha pasado que has hecho algo de lo que te has arrepentido totalmente poco despu\u00e9s? <\/span><\/p>\n

How many times did you wish you could turn back time and not do a certain thing, but couldn\u2019t?<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what I\u2019m talking about here. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hay personas que cometen errores y despu\u00e9s sienten un aut\u00e9ntico remordimiento que significa que son conscientes de lo profundamente que te han herido y de lo sinceramente arrepentidos que est\u00e1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y esas personas merecen <\/span>una segunda oportunidad<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

But there are some people in this world who are the exact opposite. People who\u2019ll do you wrong and not feel sorry.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Personas que te herir\u00e1n profundamente y te har\u00e1n sentir que te lo merec\u00edas. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Gente que te har\u00e1 sentir culpable por su comportamiento de mierda y egoc\u00e9ntrico.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Those people are toxic, manipulative sociopaths, and they for sure don\u2019t deserve a second chance to ruin your life.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Watch out for these assholes in disguise. Learn to read between the lines. Don\u2019t buy into their \u2018\u2019sorry\u2019\u2019, knowing they actually don\u2019t give a shit about what they did.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve got a guy who keeps doing these 5 things, be sure that he doesn\u2019t deserve a second chance. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que deber\u00eda obtener de ti son las indicaciones para llegar a tu puerta y un \u00a1adi\u00f3s de por vida!<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Nunca se responsabiliza de sus actos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

This guy refuses to own up to any of his shit. In his mind he\u2019s faultless, and any shit he\u2019s ever done to you \u2013 you had it coming.<\/span><\/p>\n

He has a justification for every misdoing, and his charming, convincing personality actually makes you feel like what he\u2019s saying is true\u2014like you DID bring it upon yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

But guess what? No, you didn\u2019t. If you were at fault in any way, you\u2019d know it and own up to it. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9l es <\/span>un manipulador t\u00f3xico<\/span><\/a>\u00a1y deber\u00edas abrir los ojos y ver a trav\u00e9s de sus mentiras!<\/span><\/p>\n

2. He NEVER says he\u2019s sorry<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

This is a red flag you can see from a mile away. Being able to say you\u2019re sorry is necessary to function properly in society, let alone in a committed relationship!<\/span><\/p>\n

Si nunca dice eso, \u00bfsabes lo narcisista que eso lo hace? \u00bfQui\u00e9n en este mundo nunca ha cometido un error? <\/span><\/p>\n

Who in this world never did anything wrong? Yeah, there\u2019s no such thing!<\/span><\/p>\n

So if your guy can\u2019t apologize when an apology is due, cut him loose! <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s difficult to comprehend the level of narcissism one must reach to think of oneself as flawless, but one thing\u2019s for sure. You don\u2019t want to be anywhere near that.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Nunca deja de mencionar todos tus defectos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

A guy who keeps pointing out your flaws whenever he\u2019s caught red-handed is the ULTIMATE scumbag. Steer clear.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be near a man who so selfishly turns it all back to you once he has no escape plan. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be near a man who can stoop so low and hurt you as if you were nothing to him.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re human. You have feelings. Don\u2019t let him walk all over you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esto es un claro indicio de lo bajo que est\u00e1 dispuesto a caer y lo poco que te aprecia, as\u00ed que devu\u00e9lvele el favor y <\/span>d\u00e9jalo ir.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

4. He doesn\u2019t make you feel good in your own skin<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Desesperada.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re near him\u2026 you just can\u2019t relax. You don\u2019t feel like your authentic self. <\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t let you be <\/span>qui\u00e9n eres<\/span><\/a>, and if you even thought about just being your true, unedited self, you know he\u2019d scold you.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019s not supportive of your actions. He doesn\u2019t make you want to be a better person. He makes you want to hide a part of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

All he does is diminish you as a human being, disses you when you speak your mind, and tries to mold you into who he wants you to be. It\u2019s uncomfortable, unnatural, and you don\u2019t like it.<\/span><\/p>\n

So don\u2019t even think about giving this ass of a human being a second chance to stomp all over you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know you deserve much better, and you\u2019ll sure as hell find it!<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Invalida tus sentimientos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

\u00bfNo es repugnante? Hacer que una persona se sienta mal por tener ciertos sentimientos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hacer que su mujer se sienta baja y sin valor por expresar sus pensamientos y problemas. \u00bfQu\u00e9 te dice con esto?<\/span><\/p>\n

He tells you that your feelings don\u2019t matter. He tells you that you should keep whatever it is you feel to yourself, and let HIM take care of your needs. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not enough that he\u2019s a narcissistic manipulator, now you can\u2019t even have feelings?<\/span><\/p>\n

Honey, don\u2019t let a guy tell you how to feel at any point in your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your emotions are your own, and you\u2019re NEVER wrong for feeling any type of way!<\/span><\/p>\n

Only a weak, insecure man would make you feel this way because it\u2019s his only way to control you. <\/span><\/p>\n

And I KNOW you\u2019re not the type of woman who will let this fly. <\/span><\/p>\n

Siente tus sentimientos y dale una patada ya sabes d\u00f3nde despu\u00e9s de ense\u00f1arle la puerta. \u00a1Chico, adi\u00f3s!<\/span><\/p>\n

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