{"id":47313,"date":"2020-04-13T12:11:47","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T12:11:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47313"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:44:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:44:00","slug":"marido-dominante-10-maneras-de-ser-el-alfa-en-tu-matrimonio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/marido-dominante-10-maneras-de-ser-el-alfa-en-tu-matrimonio\/","title":{"rendered":"Marido dominante: 10 maneras de ser el alfa en tu matrimonio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Al buscar en Google las palabras relaci\u00f3n D\/S (que significa relaci\u00f3n dominante-sumiso<\/a>), la primera asociaci\u00f3n que tienes es probablemente una persona dominando a la otra en el dormitorio.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, el dominio en el matrimonio es mucho m\u00e1s que el dominio bajo las s\u00e1banas.<\/p>\n

En realidad significa muchas cosas, pero la m\u00e1s importante es que una persona de la relaci\u00f3n tiene m\u00e1s control que la otra.<\/p>\n

When we\u2019re talking about the dominant husband, it means that he is the one who is in charge, the one who makes all the decisions, and the one who is listened to.<\/p>\n

It means the husband wears the pants and is the head of the household\u2014just like it was in the old days; that his attitudes and points of view are respected and obeyed, without further questioning.<\/p>\n

However, a D\/S relationship is in no way an abusive relationship, and it doesn\u2019t mean that men get all the privileges.<\/p>\n

En cambio, se trata de un trabajo a tiempo completo que conlleva m\u00e1s responsabilidad de la que podr\u00eda pensarse.<\/p>\n

It means that the man is the provider, the protector, the one who takes care of the woman and of the entire family, and that he is the one who carries all the life\u2019s weight on his shoulders alone.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

One of the famous dominant husband quotes says: \u201cA truly submissive woman is to be treasured, cherished, and protected for it is only she who can give a man the gift of dominance.\u201d\u2014Anne Decals.<\/p>\n

Contrary to feminist point of views, even today, more women than you might imagine would like to be submissive and dream of paying attention to their husband’s needs and making sure he is satisfied.<\/p>\n

Muchos buscan un compa\u00f1ero de vida que tenga lo necesario para dominarlos y que les permita ser un esposa sumisa<\/a>.<\/p>\n

However, finding a dominant husband isn\u2019t all that easy because most modern men don\u2019t have the initiative and strength to take over the leadership position in their relationship.<\/p>\n

That is why numerous women ask themselves: \u201cHow to encourage my husband to be more dominant?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo inspirar a mi hombre para que se convierta en el macho alfa que necesito?<\/p>\n

What can I do to become a submissive wife and to make my man the dominant one?\u201d<\/p>\n

Pues bien, la respuesta a estas preguntas est\u00e1 m\u00e1s abajo.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a woman who is looking for ways to transform her man into a strong, power figure, just push him into following this step-by-step guide to building a dominant personality.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo convertirse en un marido dominante<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a man looking for ways to gain control and dominance in your marriage, we have a solution for you!<\/p>\n

All you have to do is follow this beginner’s guide for becoming the alpha in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Trabaja tu autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"hombre       <\/p>\n

Ser un marido dominante significa mucho m\u00e1s que ser el l\u00edder en tu matrimonio.<\/p>\n

Es mucho m\u00e1s que tener una pareja en posici\u00f3n sumisa que hace lo que t\u00fa dices y sigue todas tus \u00f3rdenes.<\/p>\n

En cambio, este proceso de convertirse en un hombre dominante incluye un mont\u00f3n de cosas y la primera de ellas es alta autoestima<\/a>.<\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you necessarily have to turn into an egocentric, selfish asshole in order to take over the dominant role in your marriage.<\/p>\n

However, you can\u2019t expect your wife to admire you, trust you, and put her life into your hands if you\u2019re a guy who has no or little confidence.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t expect her to believe in your skills and abilities if you don\u2019t have faith in yourself in the first place.<\/p>\n

Most importantly , you can\u2019t expect her to respect you until you start respecting yourself,, and you can\u2019t wait for her to start seeing you as an alpha male before you perceive yourself in that way.<\/p>\n

De nada sirve intentar construir una personalidad dominante si te dejas llevar por tus inseguridades y miedos.<\/p>\n

For example, if you are constantly worried that your wife might leave you for a younger and more handsome guy who earns more than you do, you\u2019ll project your fears on her, and she\u2019ll notice that you see yourself as not enough.<\/p>\n

Consequently, once she sees that you don\u2019t value yourself, she\u2019ll start questioning your worth, as well.<\/p>\n

After a while, you\u2019ll unwillingly convince her that she can really do better, and she\u2019ll go and look for that better.<\/p>\n

Por eso tienes que empezar a trabajar en tu imagen personal antes que en todo lo dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

You have to reprogram your brain into thinking that you\u2019re the strongest, most capable, and most valuable man in this world.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, si es necesario, vu\u00e9lvete un poco engre\u00eddo y cre\u00eddo.<\/p>\n

Aunque no sea el rasgo de personalidad m\u00e1s deseable, lo cierto es que la mayor\u00eda de las mujeres caen en la trampa, les guste admitirlo o no.<\/p>\n

This is especially important when you\u2019re meeting a new girl. Show her that you have no doubt you\u2019ll win her over but that you won\u2019t humiliate yourself by begging her to be yours.<\/p>\n

When you go out, act like you own the room. Make her realize that you\u2019re perfectly aware of your numerous qualities and that there is nothing she could ever do to destroy your self-esteem.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014not a single person is at the peak of their confidence at all times.<\/p>\n

However, the key is to pretend that you have faith in yourself, even when you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean you should invent another personality just to be more likeable to the girls.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m just advising you to mask your insecurities. Do your best to act like they don\u2019t exist when talking to the opposite sex, and with time, I assure you that they will really fade away.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let her change you<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014when a woman enters a new relationship or gets married, she is likely to see it as a fresh project.<\/p>\n

Probablemente te ve como a un ni\u00f1o al que debe educar: ense\u00f1arle a comportarse y ayudarle a convertirse en el hombre de sus sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de los hombres aceptan estos cambios sin ser conscientes de ellos.<\/p>\n

After all, they\u2019re so crazy in love with their wives that they\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just to make them happy.<\/p>\n

In fact, most husbands are convinced that the way to earning their better half\u2019s respect and love is through meeting her every demand.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, what they don\u2019t know is that they\u2019re probably making the mistake of their lives and that behaving like this will never make them an macho alfa<\/a>.  <\/p>\n

However, when you\u2019re a dominant man, you know who you are, and you\u2019re not ready to change your ways to please your woman (because that would mean that you\u2019re the submissive one).<\/p>\n

You make it very clear to her that you are not an immature boy she can play with and that you don\u2019t need a mother because you already have one.<\/p>\n

You show her that you\u2019re a fully formed individual who won\u2019t allow anyone reshaping him.<\/p>\n

No est\u00e1s dispuesto a cambiar tu forma de ser y a hacer cambios cruciales en el n\u00facleo de tu personalidad s\u00f3lo para ser m\u00e1s simp\u00e1tico y agradable para ella.<\/p>\n

After all, she always has the choice of accepting you for who you are or to leave if she thinks you\u2019re too much to handle.<\/p>\n

Ella tiene la opci\u00f3n de amar a la verdadera t\u00fa o salir y encontrar a alg\u00fan chico que se ajuste a sus est\u00e1ndares.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que al principio este planteamiento parece demasiado arriesgado.<\/p>\n

You might be scared that your wife will really walk away on you if you don\u2019t do as she tells you.<\/p>\n

However, I assure you that your fears don\u2019t have any solid ground.<\/p>\n

Not only won\u2019t she dump you, she will be impressed by the strength of your character and proud that she has a real man by her side.<\/p>\n

Ser f\u00edsicamente m\u00e1s fuerte<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014physical appearance is the first thing we notice about everyone.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSabes que tienes que sentirte atra\u00eddo por una mujer antes de lanzarte a por ella?<\/p>\n

Pues bien, el sexo opuesto es igual. Y esto es especialmente cierto cuando se trata de dominaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

For a woman to see you as a dominant man, you have to show her that you\u2019re able to physically dominate her.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should ever think of having an relaci\u00f3n abusiva<\/a> para mostrar tu superioridad porque eso es, sin duda, lo m\u00e1s cobarde que un hombre puede hacer.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m just telling you that you need to be physically stronger than her, so she can be able to perceive you as emotionally and mentally stronger as well.<\/p>\n

Of course, the best case scenario would be if you\u2019re already taller and physically bigger than your woman.<\/p>\n

De este modo, sus instintos primarios le enviar\u00e1n la se\u00f1al de que puedes protegerla y de que puede confiar en ti.<\/p>\n

However, if this is not already the case and if you\u2019re shorter than your wife (which is something you can\u2019t work on), there is still hope that one day, you will become a dominant man.<\/p>\n

A\u00fan puedes mejorar y mejorar tu aspecto. Ante todo, ve al gimnasio y trabaja tus m\u00fasculos.<\/p>\n

Haz todo lo posible por desarrollar tu fuerza, y aseg\u00farate de que ella tambi\u00e9n lo note.<\/p>\n

Start with the little things: open a jar for her, always carry the bags when you\u2019re going grocery shopping, change her tire, and do other things which require physical strength.<\/p>\n

Al principio, puede que se sienta ofendida por el hecho de que la consideres incapaz, e incluso puede que intente hacer todas estas cosas sola s\u00f3lo para demostrarte que es una mujer independiente y autosuficiente que doesn\u2019t need a man<\/a> para ayudarla.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, eso no es una se\u00f1al para que te rindas.<\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014before you know it, she\u2019ll slowly start perceiving you as a dominant man, and she\u2019ll subconsciously start taking over the submissive position and give you the dominant role in your marriage.<\/p>\n

Ser dominante en el dormitorio<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

When they hear words like submissiveness, dominance,  submissive positions, and D\/S relationship, alot of people connect it an abusive relationship where the man hits the woman and where she doesn\u2019t have a say in any decision making process or they connect it only with sex.<\/p>\n

Imaginan a un matrimonio practicando BDSM, palabrotas<\/a>, other kinky stuff and remember the movie \u201cFifty Shades of Grey\u201d.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, esto es a lo que apuntar\u00e1n la mayor\u00eda de los resultados en google: BDSM y dominaci\u00f3n bajo las s\u00e1banas.<\/p>\n

Even though this is in no way true\u2014because dominant relationship is much more than one person being subordinate in the bedroom\u2014sex is a crucial part of this type of arrangement as well.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, si planeas adoptar un papel dominante en tu matrimonio, tienes que adoptar tambi\u00e9n un papel dominante en tu vida sexual.<\/p>\n

Tienes que ser el socio activo, el que pone las reglas y el que dicta el ritmo.<\/p>\n

However, this is in no way a green light for you to do anything your submissive wife is not OK with because submissiveness doesn\u2019t equal rape.<\/p>\n

The fact that you\u2019re husband and wife is irrelevant, and just because you\u2019re a married couple, it doesn\u2019t mean that you have the right to do anything she doesn\u2019t feel like doing or that you are entitled to force her into having sex with you.<\/p>\n

Ideas pervertidas para el sexo<\/a> son una cosa, pero el abuso sexual es algo completamente distinto, y siempre debes tener en mente no cruzar esa l\u00ednea.<\/p>\n

Remember that consent is always crucial and that you can\u2019t start doing anything without that.<\/p>\n

Having a dominant-submissive sex doesn\u2019t only mean BDSM and being cruel.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean one side being a sadist and the other being a masochist, like you\u2019ve seen it in \u201c50 Shades Of Grey\u201d.<\/p>\n

Ser dominante en el dormitorio significa tomar las riendas.<\/p>\n

It means that you shouldn\u2019t ask your submissive wife if she wants to have sex, can you have a blowjob or even can you kiss her because that is a huge turn off.<\/p>\n

En su lugar, puedes incluir un mont\u00f3n de palabrotas antes de la acci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

You can tell her things like: \u201cI want you to wait for me in the bed completely naked; Prepare to be wetter than ever before; Come here and suck my dick right now!; You are not allowed to cum until I say so.\u201d<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, el contacto visual y el tono de voz son importantes.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t show her that you\u2019re scared of her rejection, and you need to act like you won\u2019t accept \u2018no\u2019 for an answer.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, s\u00e9 t\u00fa quien inicie el sexo. Adem\u00e1s, si te apetece cambiar de postura bajo las s\u00e1banas, hazlo de forma que ella se gire como t\u00fa quieres.<\/p>\n

No hay nada malo en tirarle del pelo o darle unos azotes.<\/p>\n

You can also put her hand behind her back or above her head, so she feels like you\u2019re in total control of everything that is about to happen.<\/p>\n

Ninguno de estos consejos debe causar dolor f\u00edsico a tu pareja.<\/p>\n

Instead, they have a psychological effect which\u2014besides helping you condimenta tu vida sexual<\/a>\u2014will help you become the dominant man you are.<\/p>\n

Ser financieramente estable<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si quieres tener una mujer sumisa, tienes que mantenerla y eso incluye demostrarle que puede confiar en ti cuando se trata de finanzas.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that a submissive wife has to necessarily quit her job or that she can’t work, but she needs to feel in the heart like you could maintain her if she ever decides to be a stay-at-home mum.<\/p>\n

This way, if she doesn’t have to worry about the money, she’ll spend more time paying attention to your needs and finding ways to please you. <\/p>\n

Once a woman sees that you have a full-time job and that you\u2019re capable of keeping her fed and dressed, she\u2019ll be more willing to take over the submissive role which belongs to her.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this doesn\u2019t mean you should casarse<\/a> una cazafortunas que s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 interesada en tu dinero.<\/p>\n

On the contrary, girls don\u2019t actually look for a sugar daddy (despite what many people might think).<\/p>\n

They look for a mature man who invests in his career and who doesn\u2019t expect his woman to solve his financial problems.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to even be a businessman or extremely successful in what you do.<\/p>\n

Just show her that you have a work ethic, that you\u2019re not lazy, and that you\u2019re capable of being the breadwinner of your family.<\/p>\n

Show her that you\u2019re not afraid of taking an extra job for example if it happens that you two run out of cash.<\/p>\n

Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, demu\u00e9strale que puede dormir tranquila sabiendo que se ocupar\u00e1n de todo y que nunca acabar\u00e1 en la calle mientras te tenga a ti.<\/p>\n

Empieza por recoger siempre la cuenta cuando salgas como un todo un caballero<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Contin\u00faa organizando las finanzas de tu casa y asumiendo la responsabilidad de llegar a fin de mes.<\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014this is not about the money.<\/p>\n

Se trata de que tu sumisa esposa se sienta sana y salva a tu lado.<\/p>\n

It is about her listening to you when you say that you need to cut costs this month because she knows you\u2019re saying it for the good of both of you and because she knows you\u2019ve taken financial responsibility.<\/p>\n

Se trata de que ella te vea como una figura dominante que est\u00e1 a cargo de todos los aspectos de la vida.<\/p>\n

Ser responsable<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Otra cosa crucial: nunca se puede llegar a ser dominante sin asumir responsabilidades y tener capacidad de decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t expect your wife to be a submissive woman if she sees you as an immature brat who needs her hand to guide him through life.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 significa realmente ser responsable? Significa que su los hechos tienen que estar a la altura de tus palabras<\/a>. Significa cumplir tus promesas.<\/p>\n

Significa tener un car\u00e1cter firme. Significa no poner excusas por tus errores y no justificarte en todas las ocasiones posibles.<\/p>\n

Being responsible means standing behind everything you preach. It means taking responsibility for all the things you\u2019ve done wrong and trying to make them right.<\/p>\n

It means having a plan for the future and always knowing what you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n

Significa cumplir tus objetivos y trabajar duro para mejorar tu vida.<\/p>\n

Significa saber comprometerse y dedicarse a las cosas que uno se propone.<\/p>\n

Significa aceptar todas las consecuencias de tus actos. Significa ser un hombre de negocios responsable, un hijo responsable, un padre responsable, un amigo responsable y un marido responsable.<\/p>\n

Significa ser un hombre y un ser humano responsable.<\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014these are all the qualities every woman admires and the things they look for in a life partner.<\/p>\n

Ser decisivo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Cuando intentas reinventarte como un tipo dominante, tu capacidad para tomar decisiones es una de las primeras cosas que tienes que trabajar.<\/p>\n

Antes que nada, tienes que saber lo que quieres y no tener miedo de conseguirlo.<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo eso, tu sumisa esposa tambi\u00e9n tiene que ser plenamente consciente de ello.<\/p>\n

She has to see that your decisions are always thoroughly thought through, that you\u2019re a wise and intelligent man who is not just led by the heart or by his impulse,s and that she\u2019ll never go wrong when she listens to you.<\/p>\n

She needs to know that your decisions are never spontaneous and that you know what you\u2019re doing at every given moment.<\/p>\n

That your point of view is rarely wrong and even if you make a mistake-that you\u2019ll be better and make things right, without her having to suffer any consequences whatsoever.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, tambi\u00e9n es importante que dejes claro que todas tus decisiones son definitivas y que no hay margen para cambiarlas.<\/p>\n

Whatever you\u2019re doing you\u2019re doing it for the good of the both of you, and your submissive wife shouldn\u2019t even try changing your mind or manipulating you to make a different decision regarding anything.<\/p>\n

Esto puede sonar cruel, pero tienes que demostrarle que lo sabes hacer mejor.<\/p>\n

Yes, at first you\u2019ll probably have to explain your moves to her, and she won\u2019t accept the fact that you\u2019re making all the decisions regarding your marriage.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, una vez que ella vea que tienes lo que se necesita y que tienes la capacidad de ser l\u00edder<\/a>, she will be more than happy to not have to \u2018crack open her mind\u2019 about every little detail.  <\/p>\n

Convi\u00e9rtete en su h\u00e9roe<\/h2>\n

\"esposa<\/p>\n

Les guste admitirlo o no, lo cierto es que la mayor\u00eda de las mujeres tienen la necesidad de ser salvadas y que los hombres tienen la necesidad de ser sus salvadores, de un modo u otro.<\/p>\n

Ever since they were little girls, they\u2019ve dreamt of their Prince Charming, coming on his white horse to their rescue.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ve dreamt of being Princesses who have a handsome and rich warrior next to them.<\/p>\n

Pasaban d\u00edas enteros intentando estar lo m\u00e1s guapas posible para \u00e9l y esperando pacientemente a que volviera a casa.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, se trata de un cuento de hadas<\/a> y muchas cosas son diferentes cuando se trata de citas y matrimonios modernos, pero \u00bfest\u00e1 todo esto realmente tan lejos de la realidad?<\/p>\n

Aren\u2019t the Prince and Princess a married couple? Isn\u2019t it true that the Prince is the breadwinner?<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t the Princess a submissive wife who waits for him to make the first move, to win her over.<\/p>\n

And to rescue her from all the evil? Don\u2019t the two of them become husband and wife and isn\u2019t the husband the alpha in their marriage?<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t this ancient fabrication actually mirrored in today\u2019s dominant man?<\/p>\n

So, that is actually what you need to become in your wife\u2019s eyes if you want to be an alpha man: her hero.<\/p>\n

The one who will help her get out of all troubles life throws at her, the one who will be there to hold her hand while she\u2019s overcoming all her challenges and difficulties, and the one who will not only wipe away her tears but also make sure she never cries.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 su h\u00e9roe en todos los sentidos de la palabra: la primera persona a la que acude cuando necesita protecci\u00f3n f\u00edsica, la persona cuyo consejo siempre pide, y alguien que de alguna manera siempre se las arregla para aparecer en el momento exacto con una varita m\u00e1gica para resolver todos sus problemas.<\/p>\n

Haz que se sienta cuidada, s\u00e9 su roca y su fuerza, y te aseguro que te dejar\u00e1 tomar tu posici\u00f3n dominante en poco tiempo.<\/p>\n

Demu\u00e9strale que puede confiar en ti<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Si una persona es el alfa de una relaci\u00f3n, la otra tiene que tener una confianza ilimitada en ella.<\/p>\n

Significa que tu mujer tiene que creerte y creer en ti. Tiene que estar segura de tu competencia para ser el l\u00edder de vuestras vidas.<\/p>\n

She can\u2019t doubt whether you\u2019ll make the right choice or whether you\u2019ll abandon her when she needs you the most.<\/p>\n

She has to know that you\u2019re trustworthy at all times and no matter what happens.<\/p>\n

That you don\u2019t chicken out at the first sign of trouble and that you won\u2019t turn your back on her.<\/p>\n

She has to see you as more than a lover\u2014you have to be this woman\u2019s mejor amigo<\/a>\u00e1ngel de la guarda y protector.<\/p>\n

However, you can\u2019t accomplish all of this by just asking her to trust you and put her life in your hand.<\/p>\n

Instead, you have to prove that you\u2019re worthy of this limitless trust you\u2019re demanding, and that is a process which takes time and doesn\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n

Over time, you have to show your wife that you really are there for her, that you\u2019ll never do anything that might harm her, and that you would never, under no circumstances violate her trust.<\/p>\n

She needs to feel comfortable around you; she has to know that you won\u2019t ever judge her and that you\u2019ll always stand by her side in front of others.<\/p>\n

Necesita estar segura de que puede revelarte sus secretos m\u00e1s profundos sin miedo a que los compartas con nadie m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

That you\u2019ll be honest about her errors in the privacy of your own home but that you\u2019ll always defend her in front of the world, no matter how powerful a force you have to stand up against.<\/p>\n

You have to show her you meant everything you said in your wedding wows: that you\u2019ll have her back through thick and thin, through sickness and health, and through good and bad days.<\/p>\n

Una vez que lo consigas, ella ver\u00e1 que realmente mereces el papel de macho dominante.<\/p>\n

Hazte cargo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

All of the steps mentioned above are of no use for you if you don\u2019t learn how to take charge in every moment of your marriage.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, lo crucial es que desarrolles la capacidad de tomar decisiones r\u00e1pidas pero inteligentes en momentos de riesgo, pero hay cientos de otras situaciones en las que tambi\u00e9n importa que est\u00e9s al mando.<\/p>\n

For example, when you two are deciding about what to eat, don\u2019t wait an hour for her to pick what she feels like having. Instead, suggest something right away.<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t tell her: \u201cWhat do you think about having pizza?\u201d<\/p>\n

Instead, just tell her \u201cWe\u2019ll have pizza.\u201d<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry\u2014you\u2019re not endangering her in any way with this because she\u2019ll surely protest if that is something she doesn\u2019t like.<\/p>\n

Instead, you\u2019re just helping her decide and showing her that you\u2019re in control.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re taking her out or buying her a birthday present, don\u2019t wait for her to tell you where she\u2019d like to go or what she\u2019d like to get.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, sorpr\u00e9ndela con una mesa ya reservada y compr\u00e1ndole algo que sepas que le gustar\u00eda tener.<\/p>\n

Lo mismo ocurre con la planificaci\u00f3n de sus vacaciones, con sus aficiones o su tiempo libre.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, make sure she knows you’re serious about it and that your decisions are final.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 siempre firme cuando hables con ella, y mant\u00e9n fuertes contacto visual<\/a> because that will show her you\u2019re confident and secure.<\/p>\n

Al cabo de un tiempo, tu mujer se dar\u00e1 cuenta de que eres t\u00fa quien lleva los pantalones en casa.<\/p>\n

And guess what: she\u2019ll like it more than anything!<\/p>\n

\"Marido<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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